I'm assuming its far different than what makes a man cheat on his girlfriend. I'm familiar with all those reasons, but now I'm curious about the opposite sex's reasons for infidelity.
2007-04-10 05:15:56 · 48 answers · asked by Godson 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i have noticed that women blame men... why cant women say its because i wanted to or i needed something different... all the answers here are because he's not treating me right or because he doesnt do something wow.. pointing the finger...
2007-04-10 05:25:31 · update #1
My reasons would be if that my home life was not working in anymore and I was ready to move on, it's cheating but the situation would be resolved after that anyway. I've never cheated, but if I were to do so, that would be why. It's still an emotional thing, you know?
2007-04-10 05:20:23 · answer #1 · answered by suzlaa1971 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Am not going to talk about a ho, a ho is a ho and cheats and when she single she cheats, sleeps with any one, that's a ho. Am going to talk about the "good women" that one day she just cheats and really that's out of her character. And you like some ideas why that happens. A good women will take years to cheat on her boyfriend/husband. The man treats her like dog meat, like a door mat. He don't come home at night, he may not come home for days in walks in like everything OK. Lies to her all the time. Hangs out with his friends all the time. This women has more time alone or with the kids then anything. Her man pays no attention to her, but he always knows she going to be there for him. And he can do all the wrong. Almost every night she gos to bed alone at least 3 to 4 times a week, eats alone or if there is kids, with the kids. The good women will put up with this for years before she cheats. And that one day she might be at a store or visiting a friend she might get out to twice a month and that right person is there to be her friend and he likes her, but at first she can't believe that. So she meets up with him again. And after a while she likes him too. Then things happen and the cheating begins. Someone is treating her like a lady, with respect, giving her time. The one person she loves won't do it.Because he to busy being selfish.Ya, that true the women wants to cheat, she tried. No one force her to, but her emotions did and why it has to do with the way she been treated, and if you think it was easy for her to get out of it, think again, again it gos back to money, kids, years, etc...If her man was treating her good "the good women" she would of never cheated.NEVER, NEVER, NEVER, NEVER, He got him a good women and didn't know how to treat it, and she got her a bad man and didn't know how to leave it.
2007-04-10 05:32:49 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
There are probably several reasons why a woman might cheat but I think the main reason is that she is no longer in love with her boyfriend/husband. Sometimes after a long time being together you lose the feelings you once had but the relationship is so much a part of you that instead of separating you go elsewhere for physical gratification. This doesn't help matters but only prolongs with inevitable breakup.
2007-04-10 05:28:39 · answer #3 · answered by seeingred 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listening Men who Care and Comfort and Console and just do things your man won't do or just pays you extra attention are a turn on...Make it hard not to want to be true...
I have not cheated but this would be the kind of man in my fantasy ... The idea your man is the opposite... and you want to keep this man a secret to say all the things your man does not say... Cheating in the MIND is clearly cheating too...
Sex is in the mind... Getting what you want and the idea that the new man gives you freedom to take what you want and need...for as long as it is allowed and the idea of not getting caught or getting caught ... turn on...
It is more emotional than physical with Women
Men are more hunters physical get that bag that... Had that
quit that...
Women are more clinging returning wanting desire... Lingers in the mind...rage to guilt to misunderstanding and hurt...needy...needing to be nurtured the grow and not controlled and ruled...FREEDOM
Yet religious boundrys and Children lock us down and the worry is over all...the greatest hold back...even with the pill.
2007-04-10 05:26:53 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well honey, if thats your body, I couldnt cheat. However I had a girlfriend that cheated because the sex was quick and fast. However some women speak to men they dont want but need for the security of his money. So they cant feel satisified, and they cheat. By the time a girl like me meet him he is a dog, oh well. They are just weak.
2007-04-10 05:31:04 · answer #5 · answered by Elle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well its not that different than a mans reason. Women cheat because they are bored or they think there is always something better out there. some women cheat because theyre caught up in the moment(horny) lol! also some woman cheat because they love the game of not getting caught,sneaking around there are a million reason why that is just a few!
2007-04-10 05:21:19 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
the same reason men do the cheating. if both sexes
just be honest then some many feeling would not get hurt
I cheated because sexually issues, but at the same time
this man love me,to the point of marriage and i blew it.
and then when he found out then he cou,ldnt trust me
and met someone who he is happy with,oh yeah how
i wish i could take it back but i know that i will never
do that again,because cheating hurt bottom line
and sometimes you can block your blessings and future
with the man who actually want you. from experience
i don,t know if love will ever come to me that way again
take it from my experience.
2007-04-10 05:28:16 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because women need to know you love them and cherish them, its in our nature to NEED these things from a man. If you show her any signs or make her feel in anyway unloved or not beautiful, she will look for it somewhere else. ALWAYS be affectionate and ALWAYS tell her how beautiful she is and why you love her. Guys are the same but guys desire respect and love, if in anyway the female isn't showing her man 100% respect, he starts too look elsewhere also. So all in all you got to treat each other right or you will be in a mess of cheating.
2007-04-10 05:22:31 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because she is too scared or ashamed to give him the message to his face that she "doesn't have feelings for him anymore" [which, by the way, happens to be the most common excuse for cheating]. So she feels she has to go and make things worse for herself and her "mate". Right there she just lost her self-respect, self-worth, trustworthiness, compassion, and loyalty all in one act. And the list doesn't even stop there.
I have never cheated or been cheated on, but I still feel there is no excuse for cheating. It's just wrong, and senseless.
2007-04-10 05:29:15 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The answers are really every same reason a man cheats. Bordom, loneliness, excitement, something new, something temporary. It's about feeling something you aren't currently feeling in your relationship. It also can be an easy way out of her current relationship if she doesn't have the courage to end it nicely.
Regardless it's wrong....but it happens.
2007-04-10 05:22:55 · answer #10 · answered by Eve 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋