what would you do??? if this was one time and one time only and you could only do one thing to this person... also for a bonus what would you do to the person the cheated with...
2007-04-10 05:01:37 · 22 answers · asked by Godson 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Actually I did do this, indirectly, and I seriously regret it to this day. I was married and my ex left me six days after she became a US citizen. We had a lot of mutual friends and one we was very close to. Of course when she left, who did I run to for a shoulder to cry on, moral support, someone to talk to. Well to make a long story short, things got heated and we got intimate. A friend of hers, came by and though she didn't see us do anything, she knew what had just happened, and she was this loud mouthed person who went back and told everyone that we were sleeping together and it spread across our little community of friends which then shifted their opinions of us. Of course the intimacy wasn't the mistake, it was timing and circumstance as I feel it did put a strain on but didn't break our friendship.
2007-04-10 05:24:19 · answer #1 · answered by American Sensei 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know that revenge is suppose to be sweet, but all it does is put you on the same level as the person who cheated on you. I would show someone I was not bothered by it. I would rather show that it makes no difference to me. I would not stoop as low as a cheater. There is better ways to get back at someone, get on with your life and show them their cheating has not done one thing but make you a stronger person. It is always better to be the bigger man than to sink into their sorry level.
2007-04-10 05:09:44 · answer #2 · answered by jlynncogbill 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hi:)some couples can artwork via the matters whilst one has cheated yet i don't think of you are able to ever recover from the have confidence element of it.i think of it may well be extemely puzzling to recover from that element of it and that i think of it is going to continually sit down in the returned of your strategies and that isn't healthful for any dating.regrettably ,as quickly as a cheater,continually a cheater..perhaps not,,yet how do you understand that for specific?IMO..if one feels the would desire to step outdoors the dating then they might desire to have the decency to end the dating with the guy they are dishonest on.I even have btdt and have an extremely puzzling time trusting human beings and this is totally hurtful because of the fact it eats at your vanity and you ask your self *nicely,what's incorrect with me?*.your loved ones does not want to be certain you finally end up that variety of person and you do not want to be that person.ultimately the determination is your's yet fairly think of approximately what that's which you particularly want..reliable luck:)
2016-10-28 08:38:03 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think I've already gotten back at the people who've cheated on me. Usually people who cheat are people who are unhappy in general. One guy who cheated on me lives at home with his dad, never graduated high school, and will never be able to live on his own. I think that is bad enough.
In another situation, an ex started seeing another girl while he was with me. She became his girlfriend. Eventually he called me and wanted me back (while still with her). I recorded the conversation and played it for her. After that he also dated a girl he had to get a restraining order against. I think he's learned his lessons by now.
Most people who cheat pay for it eventually, even if you don't do something to them deliberately.
2007-04-10 05:10:06 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would make sure she knew that was glad to find out what
she is before I started really giving a damn.
I would tell the other person how lucky they are and how
they so deserve each other. Then I would try to be around
when the cheater did the same thing to them so they could
see me laugh at there pain. Then buy him a coke for the
good deed he did for you
2007-04-10 05:29:07 · answer #5 · answered by wayne g 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well back in my day I may have done some real foul ish...like talk to one of his homies, or freak a dude in the club in front of him, but never anything violent. I mean that's when I was younger but now that I'm 27 I wouldn't waste my precious time on a loser like that!
Why give him the satisfaction? Too much time & energy wasted I'de rather do me....yah feel me?!?!?
2007-04-10 05:10:49 · answer #6 · answered by Lovely Cappy Girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What makes me angry is not actually what they do, but, that they stoop so low to do it. So, I angry at their limited mentality and I really would not want to become like them.
Example; I hate thieves as they think they so smart that they can steal from a real person, man/woman, when they at work making an honest living. So, should I steal from someone that steals from me? If, I do, I become the very thing that I hate! A thief.
2007-04-10 05:09:56 · answer #7 · answered by Snaglefritz 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ye have heard that it hath been said, An Eye For an Eye, and a Tooth For a Tooth: But I say unto you, that ye resist not evil: but whosoever shall smite thee on thy right cheek, turn to him the other also. Matther 5:38-39
2007-04-10 05:10:07 · answer #8 · answered by wingedstrider 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would not be with them... But i would forgive them because i would have looked at it as a life lesson.. And a heart full of hate/revenge hurts no one but yourself... move on and learn to trust people again. Most of all learn to love yourself and respect yourself before any other person...
2007-04-10 05:09:38 · answer #9 · answered by MJ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Once a cheater always a cheater. Once is to many time they did think about you when doing this so why will the ever thing about you or your feels. They not worth it. If they loved you they would not have done that.
2007-04-10 05:08:00 · answer #10 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋