MEN, what do you wish your wives would do to keep your marriage alive?

Question

No wrong answers here.
Is it something about her appearance or something in the bedroom?
I really want to please my man, and need some ideas.
;)

SO MANY awesome answers here, Thanks everyone!

Answer 1

Take an interest in me, physically.

Appreciate me for who I am and what I do.

Feel sexy. If she felt sexy, I'd perceive her as sexy.

Answer 2

If your attitude is genuine, you don't need ideas.

Wives (and husbands) who are doing a poor job on their marriage have generally stopped trying to keep it alive and please their partners. They either don't care, or decide that they are so put upon that their partner isn't doing enough to deserve their attention, or decide to shower all their attention on some other task which their partner should be grateful for (I'd guess with men that's typically 'I neglect you all the time because I work 80 hours a week you should be happy' and for women it could be that or could be 'I spend 100% of my time on the kids you're a grown up hence can put up with being neglected for the next 20-25 years, right').

Answer 3

Just be unconditional. As he should be towards you. The bedroom is not the place to keep your marriage alive. If it is then you may never find the happiness your seeking. Anything spur of the moment, like a hug or kiss from nowhere,
a picnic, holding hands and walk in the rain.
There are so many thing you can do that have nothing to do with sex. Just use your imagination a little more.

Answer 4

first NO LIES i hate lyers and that could always lead to problems no matter what. I love a women that really wats to please me. Go out of her way to show the love because actions speak louder then words at time. I like her to maintain her body by goin to the gym(men should also) and i love an open minded women when it comes to the bedroom...from oral, watching a porn and doing everything u seem, sex panties, anal, basically no limits cause its funny wat people would like in bed. Also make sure to be honest, because almost every relationship ive seen fall was because of lies and cheatin or in a lot of cases lost of interest....if u see a problem address it and both of u should work on it together to fix watever the problem may be... i hope i was helpful

Answer 5

There is a great Bible study called MotherWise and it's about being a good wife and mother. There's lots of homework (answering questions) and the best one in the "Husband" chapter was this:
"Name 3 things you do to make your husband feel loved........
......---and the first 2 don't count."

Answer 6

I'm not even going to look - but I will take a WILD shot in the dark that there will be a few a*ss-kissing john q.sensitives who will say "take a stroll in the daisies in spring" but that virtually every guy is saying something about sexy or sex or more sex or different types of sex or sexy dressing which leads to more sex or... well, more sex in general.

For this brilliant insight, do I get a cookie?

Answer 7

To keep your marrige alive wheather you are a man or a woman you both need ATTENTION to feel wanted and loved even the littlest thing to let each other know that no matter what happens you love them and care about them.

Answer 8

My wife and I are happily married, but I wish she was more into some things in the bedroom. We've had issues with a sexual addiction that I had, and it caused alot of issues with us reguarding sex. But it's also something that will heal with time.

I'm just trying to be patient with her.

I don't want to be selfish, but I wish we would have sex more often than we do.

Answer 9

Yesterday was my 24th wedding anniversary and my marriage couldn't be more "alive". My wife is my best friend. We're both in our early 40's. We do "anything" for each other, both sexually and non-sexual. We try to keep ourselves healthy and in good shape for each other. Appearances fade but our "connection" never will because of our best friend status.

Make sure your man wants to do the same for you, your relationship isn't a one way street.

Answer 10

I know you asked for men to answer, but I feel compelled to and I hope I don't sound shallow, although I think the men will agree with me.

Stellar oral skills will always keep things interesting.

Answer 11

Go outside and do something together that gets your hearts racing... white water rafting or sky diving or throwing around a baseball. Look good just for him, work out together and have sex outside.