My ex called me at midnight and told me he was in the emergency room form 3rd degree burns. His gf burned him with some hot grease from the stove while they were in a fight. I say fight b/c he admit she hit him and he hit her and scratched his eye. He said that she is a consistent liar and I know that. He basically dumped me b/c we were long distance (thank God) .
I've told him before about talking about that stuff to me but he calls and I am curious as to what goes down but won't take him back.
Do you think he wants to get back together is why he calls?
And we also have a kid too.
2007-04-10 03:55:57 · 9 answers · asked by ♦ Phoenix Rising♦ 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
He might want to get back with you, but I think it's a pretty lame way to go about it. I don't know any women who would take back a guy who has reminded her that he has another relationship by talking about it to her all of the time.
Let him be a father to his kid but don't take him back, He's trifling
2007-04-10 04:04:34 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
First of all, whether he wants you back or not is not the question. You have a child to raise and this man doesn't seem like a suitable father. Second, he probably just considers you someone he can talk to and confide in. If it's frustrating you or the calls are too late, as him to stop. Tell him you're busy raising his kid and he can have his disfunctional relationship all he wants but you want no part in that.
2007-04-10 11:03:34 · answer #2 · answered by Dr. Kat 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I guess the grass wasn't greener on the other side.
He's looking for sympathy and a safe place to land when his relationship crashes. So basically he wants to use you.
2007-04-10 11:01:34 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Talking about his relationship with his current girlfriend doesn't mean he wants you! I don't know how you can jump to that conclusion. It sounds like he's just telling you about his life and what's going on with him. There is nothing to indicate that he wants to be with you again. I suspect you two are friends. Friends talk about their relationships. It's natural.
2007-04-10 11:03:37 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
He wants you to feel sorry for him in his abusive relationship. It shows nothing has changed with him. Change your phone number and don't give it to him.
2007-04-10 11:34:44 · answer #5 · answered by Big Bear 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would guess he's keeping you up to date on his life because it may affect his relationship with your/his child.
2007-04-10 11:18:41 · answer #6 · answered by Maureen 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't want to get back together, why are you listening to his crap? At least be honest with yourself.
2007-04-10 11:33:33 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No he's not wanting to get back together he is trying to make you jealous by letting you know how happy he and his new love are..
2007-04-10 11:04:25 · answer #8 · answered by bluemist 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
he still loves you
2007-04-10 11:02:54 · answer #9 · answered by higa1980ash 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋