The other day, I used my g/f's cell to make a call and saw another mans number in the recently called list, I was not looking for that kind of thing. This guy's number is also stored in her contacts list as it came up with only the first name. When I asked her about it she got mad saying I was invading her privacy. She said it was her friends boyfriends number, what would you think?
2007-04-10 03:38:25 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I added her picture to my cell, it is supposed to come up on call display when she calls me. I was checking to see that it was working, not snooping. When you hit the send key it brings up recently called numbers. There was no snooping going on. We have been living together for 16 months and I have nothing to hide, my cell is always available to her as I have nothing to hide.
2007-04-10 04:06:02 · update #1
Invading her privacy by using her phone? That sounds a bit odd, especially since she got mad and accused you. I'm not saying this ISN'T her friends BF's number, but why would she get so defensive?
2007-04-10 03:42:08 · answer #1 · answered by bina64davis 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Let's be a little honest here....if you were just using her cell phone to make a call you would have been no where near the "recently called list".
You must have some doubts about her and what is going on when you are not around. If you have trust issues with her you need to talk about them and if you can trust her completely then do so if not then there is some work to be done.
You did invade her privacy whether she had something to hide or not you did do that.
If she really had something to hide would she have allowed you to use her cell phone? She knows what is on there. Or did you use it without her permission?
If it is truly her friends boyfriends number and she wants to be with you and only you then she should have no problem calling him (with you listening in with out his knowledge or forewarning) and asking how his girlfriend is and what is up. It should be pretty clear pretty quickly if he is thinking she should be acting some other way towards him or if he is just a friend.
2007-04-10 03:48:29 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Soo, who's doing what here, because there's another question posted with this avatar, pretty much the same scenario, except she looked at your phone and found a strange number. Here's the deal.....if you've both posted these questions, and are doing the same thing to each other then.....STOP!!! You guys are going to destroy what relationship you've managed to eeek out in this jealousy ridden union. If you guys don't trust one another then you need to forget it, cause' without trust, and mutual respect, you've got zilch! I told her to say sorry and learn from her mistake and not to be snooping anymore, I give the same advice to you. Don't read things into other things, and what do either of you have to get defensive about if you've nothing to hide? Think it over.....cause this is the sort of thing that destroys a relationship, is it really worth it?
2007-04-10 03:59:20 · answer #3 · answered by Green eyed girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your close enough to use her cell, there shouldn't be anything to hide. If you are unsure, call the guy and ask him. She might get pissed again, but explain to her the only reason you wanted to double check was because of her reaction. If my BF uses my phone and sees a number or name he doesn't know he asks me and I tell him, no big deal. We have a joint account anyway so I cant hide anything if I want to. No point, just talk to her and if you aren't sure make that call. Good luck
2007-04-10 03:55:07 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are invading her privacy. You have to do some work to look through her numbers and her call lists. She is only your girlfriend not your wife, so it's really not any of your business.
2007-04-10 03:44:26 · answer #5 · answered by PhantomRN 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Certain people call "this" invasion of privacy, but I call it: right to know about your partner's life and activities...
Maybe I'm giving you the wrong advice, but I've never prevented my bf from "checking' my phone, and he has never prevented me from "checking" his phone...as long as there is nothing you should hide from one-another.
If my partner would behave like she did, I would get mad. If she has nothing to hide then she doesn't have to get mad, she can SIMPLY EXPLAIN!
Don't blame yourself for looking into her phone, that's smth normal and natural.
She shouldn't oppose like that!
I don't really like her reaction, but this is just me...
Hope things work differently for you!
Good luck
2007-04-10 03:55:48 · answer #6 · answered by atrabel 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
So it was you after all,not your girlfriend or wife. like what I said to your other question why did she have it in the first place if it was her friend and why in the address book of her cell??And why did you use her cell phone if you weren't looking for something? You already have suspicious in the first place so if I were you I will ask her face to face,instead of doing it the other way around..........
2007-04-10 03:54:38 · answer #7 · answered by islandgirl06 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Call the number and find out
2007-04-10 04:57:48 · answer #8 · answered by Need Answers 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women are allowed to have male friends as well as their boyfriend ...don't be so jealous, he may be just that a friend. You must have female friends too. If you carry on like this you may loose her..so just chill out.
2007-04-10 03:43:52 · answer #9 · answered by slipper 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is none of your business, she is allowed to have friends. If you had no issues before you went through her phone then leave it alone.
2007-04-10 03:57:01 · answer #10 · answered by kitkat 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋