2007-04-10 03:21:46 · 18 answers · asked by exosphere74 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Until you're not afraid of using her, then don't have sex with her if you really love her and want to keep her.
2007-04-10 03:24:49 · answer #1 · answered by Liza 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't use "love" and "use" in the same sentence as it means you obviously don't Love your g/friend...you THINK you do...and are trying to convince yourself that you "love her" so it's ok to have sex*...but for you to say in the same sentence..that you're affraid that you might use her..shows me that you're not ready and you know this girl isn't the one for you~ There's no need to go that far to someone who doesn't deserve to be "used" and her heart broken...after you have "sex" with her..something is telling you that you know the relationship isn't what you've wanted....it's just the "sex" and perhaps you figure if you're dating for a period of time..you "deserve" to have "sex". I think you need to re-evaluate your relationship. IS it HER that you're wanting or the SEX????
GOODLUCK*
2007-04-10 10:29:05 · answer #2 · answered by friskymisty01 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you Love your girlfriend then you need to wait cause if your gonna do the sex thing then you it to be making love not just have'n sex you want it to be special for you and her
2007-04-10 10:31:35 · answer #3 · answered by Sheila S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah... this type of thing has happen to me in the past... you settle down during winter with a nice girl... and its all great... but then summer comes along... and when it´s raining its pouring....(metephore) next thing you know you´re faced with the kind of problem most guys would love to have.... choosing between girls....
You have to find out how she feels, if she loves you, then you gotta be careful... its never fun breaking a girls heart because what goes around comes around...
2007-04-10 10:29:28 · answer #4 · answered by James R 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you think you will use her? If you already know you might do this in a result of you and her having "relations" then you should not do that to her! No woman deserves a man to use her and if you already have this doubt, then I would say please do not have "relations" with her. If you truly love her then this doubt would not be in your heart nor your mind. Take time and think about what you really want. **Reminder** Think with your heart and not your d**k!
2007-04-10 10:28:14 · answer #5 · answered by Lovable 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Then don't do it. Sex isn't mandatory, you know? If she doesn't want to have sex with you find someone else who does, if it's that important to you. Nothing worse than an unbalanced sexually incompatible relationship. You're doomed if you don't work this out to both your liking.
2007-04-10 10:24:47 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't sound too sure of yourself here. How can you be using her if you are genuinely in love with her. Leave her alone until you feel confident about the matter.
2007-04-10 10:26:53 · answer #7 · answered by slipper 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Then don't have sex with her. It seems like you are not ready to go to the next step with her, so don't push it.
2007-04-10 10:25:29 · answer #8 · answered by Emiline 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you a Holy man? why do you not ask her if you have sex with her would you be using her? Maybe she wants to use you.. you never know?
2007-04-10 10:27:02 · answer #9 · answered by MJ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing
2007-04-10 10:25:36 · answer #10 · answered by KT 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋