Family & Relationships - 7 April 2007

i switched schools recently (11th gr) and this guy had seen me around school (also 11th) and finally came up and talked to me; i immediately took to him, he was way cool. then he hung out with me at lunch the next day and when he could've gone home for 6th period, i had to stay cuz i TA, so he stayed and kept me company and we hung outside the class. the same thing happened the next day, but when we were hxc flirting, he unexpectedly kissed me; thenn i knew i fell for him hardd and fastt. he seemed like he was interested and then spring break happened and he was impossible to get ahold of, i was calling him trying to hang out (i know, dumb idea) andd i thought it was all over, but then he left a note outside my front door on the eve of his birthday that just said "today's my birthday (etc etc) and ended with night kairi! xoxo ---" and i was like okay maybe he does like me. but i feel like he is just responding to me, like he isn't pursuing me. & i need help on how to turn this around!!

2007-04-07 10:52:27 · 16 answers · asked by kairi 1 in Singles & Dating

My dermatalogist/brother got married to one of his patients, after months of begging. He even adopted her faith and asked for her father’s permission since she's Pakistani and pretty traditional. My brother is a good looking guy and I can clearly see why he went through so so much to marry her, she's insanely gorgeous and an extremely devoted wife. She happily quit law to become a housewife and mother, she cooks feast, irons his clothes, takes care of the baby, and is constantly pampering him. I understand that his wife is influenced from her culture and my wife can never be like her but I come home to an empty house while my brother comes home to a warm dinner prepared by a gorgeous wife.My wife and I had a great friendship until I wanted to start a family and she refused.I thought a career woman was for me but I envy my brother's traditional wife and the devotion he gets from her. I cant stop thinking about her,I go over to their house all the time just to stare at he how do i stop?

2007-04-07 10:38:31 · 57 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-04-07 10:36:41 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My father cheated on my mother and it has affected me more than my other simblings. I looked at my father as someone who could do no wrong. Since he did that, I have questioned my boyfriend about cheating. I love my boyfriend so much, we share a beautiful son together, he is the man I want to marry. But, I feel like he will eventually cheat on me, because my dad cheated on my mom. My boyfriend professes his love for me in every way, he does not want me to think like this anymore but i can not help it. I think that eventually its going to happen so i get mad at him.(boyfriend) I will pick arguements especially on the days that i go back and think about what my father did. What should I do??? I want nothing more than to be with him forever. Its not that I think he is going to cheat on me, its that i just cant help but relate that time in my life with my current life now. I need advice! Help. Please.

2007-04-07 10:35:29 · 39 answers · asked by alyssa27marie 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm bisexual and i believe in GOD, but on the subject at hand i'm very confused on, i don't think it's a SIN to LOVE!!! But many ppl say it is a SIN. I don't know what to think anymore, i want to think GOD LOVEs me for who i am as a person and not for what i do in life, no matter how wrong others see it!!!
Give me your insight!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2007-04-07 10:07:01 · 17 answers · asked by Joe B 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm a single dad and they're mom left us. I need help getting my daughter through this, she is my world!!!

2007-04-07 09:59:15 · 13 answers · asked by Manuel N 1 in Family

Let's say you're on a crowded subway or bus, and you notice that a female is groping you. How would you react to this? What would you think about this type of behavior? I asked a similar question to girls only, now I'm curious how guys would react.
Let's say the girl was a knockout.

2007-04-07 09:58:31 · 24 answers · asked by Nicoletta 3 in Singles & Dating

Normally porn doesn't bother me. It's something that I've come to settle with. However when I found out that he had pornographic pictures of someone we both know (they were older and before our romance began) I asked him to take them down. So he did. About a month later I found a file containing pictures of the same girl. Only difference being these were here 'modeling' photos. It is true that she's a fetish model. I too am one but this really irked me. Any suggestions?

2007-04-07 09:46:28 · 15 answers · asked by mcvoysa 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Immature love says, I love you because I need you. Mature love says, I need you because I love you.

2007-04-07 09:44:45 · 21 answers · asked by Pinky 6 in Singles & Dating

my boyfriend rele shy and everything we do eg hold hands hug i have to make the first moveand i always put my tounge in first sort of thing how can i stop this i would like him to come up 2 me n give me a kiss x ?

also i am bored with just kissing and want to go a little bit further not all the way like sex but just some inocent foreplay but being the boy he is he wont make the first move and i dont want to make first move and he dont want to do anything yet so how do i kno when he wants t2 ? and how do i let him kno i want to ?

2007-04-07 09:41:41 · 7 answers · asked by twinkle 2 in Singles & Dating

one of my friends who used to like me a lot still flirts with me sometimes. during the time in which he still liked me, he always thought I liked someone else who I repeatedly denied liking. then yesterday, my friend asked me if I liked HIM? why would he ask me if I liked him even though we're just friends. when I asked him why, he said, 'just wondering' - he asked me on IM.

2007-04-07 09:40:38 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

guys: What do you REALLY like when a girl is making out with you

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girls: What have you done that REALLY turned a guy on when making out?

2007-04-07 09:39:15 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Going thru a separation.......this is my second marriage, getting ready to move out soon, daughter is about to graduate and have two teenage boys 15,and 13....house is not paid for that i'm getting ready to move back into...my job i'm working now is contract until further notice, the area I'm moving into the job market pay is very low.........the only bill I will have is house note,car and utilities.....scared I will not be able to make it own my own....I will be able to get any child support, because my boys are from a previous marriage, and we have not been married long enough for me to get alimony....but things are getting bad, and I have to go....what are some things that I can do that will encourage me not to be scared to be on my own again...(financially)....he already does not give me anything, but I only hate that my job (contract) is not permanent....I also will not be able to get assistance because we have assests that are in my name also(unpaid for)

2007-04-07 09:39:03 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i mean i like the popularity but i could do with out the boys.. what do you suggest?

2007-04-07 09:36:14 · 18 answers · asked by shamrock shake 2 in Singles & Dating

I have been married for about ten years now and have never messed around on my husband. I don't drive and live in a rural community. Yet he continues to check my email and phone. I am a professional with a college degree so I am allowed that outlet. I don't have a drivers license due to past issues with depression so I am wondering how to get out of this rut? Makes me very angry that he doesn't trust me or is it his insecurities?

2007-04-07 09:32:17 · 16 answers · asked by happygirl23 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I accused my wife of being a flirt for years. She has always denied it but has just recently admitted that maybe I'm right. There is a thin line between socializing and flirting. How can she distinguish the difference and show me that she wants to make a change.

2007-04-07 09:30:34 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-04-07 09:28:37 · 30 answers · asked by BROOKLYN 1 in Singles & Dating

when i go through a breakup or need to turn someone down, i would tell them that. But why do guys do this "ignoring you" thing as a way of breaking up? is it another girl ? i know i didnt do anything wrong

2007-04-07 09:27:13 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-04-07 09:26:38 · 34 answers · asked by A Real Fan 2 in Marriage & Divorce

OK, so for some reason I think that my boyfriend is cheating on me. HIs best freind who is girl is always flirting with hima nd she is always hanging out with him. HE goes to the same school as her but I go to a completly different school. I don't know how to tell if he is cheating on me for her. He hardly even talks to me and when I try to ask him if he hang out with girl he gets mad at me and signs off. He is always taking pictures with her. He says that he wants to take pictures with me put when I ask him to he just gets mad at for it. I dont know what to do. I am so confused. I have been putting up with this for about 6 months and I have been going out with him for over a year. I am afraid that if I break up with him that I am just going to end up running right back to him and that its going to happen all over again. Need help!

2007-04-07 09:26:26 · 8 answers · asked by Ashie 1 in Singles & Dating

About 8 yrs ago me and my hubby used to watch porn together. That was fine untill I was working 10-12 hr days to come home and find he had been watching porn all day. This bugged me so I made a decision to pull all the porn out of the house.. I thought the problem was gone intill a few days ago I found some really nasty movies in his drawer. I watched about 2 min's of one and was so turned off at how they were degrading the girls whom looked to be about 15 yrs old..
I mentioned it to my hubby that I found the movies and his reply was that they were not his. He said his co-worker burns the movies and sales them. I do not believe him but oh well..
please give me some feedback should I just let it go and forget it or should I leave him???

pornful in cali...

2007-04-07 09:25:32 · 9 answers · asked by sissybombay 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I haven't been able to work for about a week now due to being sick and having injured my back. I just found out that my sister has been telling people that I'm faking it & that she "knows" me & my boyfriend are having sex, and I'm probably pregnant. My mom just told me this, and she said that she told my sister that me & my boyfriend can't have kids because of some medication my bf is on.

My boyfriend's not on any meds, but we're not having sex either. If my sis talks to him before I do (he's at work right now), this could be a disaster. What do I do?????

2007-04-07 09:20:19 · 13 answers · asked by KC 2 in Family

ummm, I am in love with someone and I kno he likes me back but, a problem. He is my brother's best friend. Help me please!

2007-04-07 09:17:53 · 11 answers · asked by TiasaurousGoesRawr! ♥ 3 in Singles & Dating

Well, say your girlfriend starts talking to a guy at a party, who is a friend of friends. Then you start seeing lots of messages on facebook from him to her. She tells him she has a boyfriend whe he asks to study with her and he says ok. Then you go to a party at his house with all your friends and he is talking to your gf all night and they eventually go down to his room and talk. You walk in the room and say im leaving and walk off, but she stays there. You go back 5 mins later and they are still talking so you tell her to leave or you will knock the guy out, so she leaves. She insists they were just talking about university etc, but you know the guy likes her. You have been with her for nearly 2 years and get on well. What would you think?

2007-04-07 09:17:14 · 10 answers · asked by jamin_surfer 2 in Singles & Dating

heres this guy in my class who keeps staring at me . he even sits behind me in class just to stare at me . initially i ignored him but later wen i couldnt take it anymore , i started giving him angry looks only to find that he continued to stare at me shamelessly .
one day i was alone at the bus stand . the whole area at that time was DESERTED ! . there wasnt even a vehicle in the road . then he arrived at the scene . it was just him & me there .
as he came closer , i became scared but did not show any signs of fear . i made eye contact only once and saw that he was giving me that dirty look again . i gathered the courage to give him one very angry look . to my surprise , i found that his expression changed--- he became a bit scared or was he sad i dunno , he simply walked away with his head down
since den , he avoids me , doesent look at me , , even though he has a lotta friends . he only stares at me wen i talk to other guys
WATS UP WID HIM ?

2007-04-07 09:09:39 · 25 answers · asked by Grateful 1 in Singles & Dating

Get up and clean the entire house so you could relax all weekend?

2007-04-07 09:08:47 · 5 answers · asked by ♥SummerRain♥ 6 in Marriage & Divorce

If you came home early from work and walked in on your g/f, wife, or fiancee with someone else in you bedroom, how would you react?

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The other person it your friend

2007-04-07 09:03:34 · 13 answers · asked by Nicoletta 3 in Singles & Dating

Should I wait a year when she turns 18 to date her or should I just forget about her and move on. I really like her, I think she is interested in me too. I have not really told her how I feel because she is not 18 yet. What should I do?

2007-04-07 09:01:18 · 34 answers · asked by sfumato 1 in Singles & Dating

My brother is a very successful businessman. The problem is his wife. She's become horridly overweight and looks terrible. It's not big bones or hormones or anything, she's just weak willed and lazy. It looks bad for the whole family because at the golf club for instance they all laugh at my brother behind his back for the shape of his wife. I'm almost to the point where I'd like to tell him to leave her, or at least have him give her an ultimatum. Loose weight or your GONE! Does anyone else have this problem? What do you think?

2007-04-07 08:59:37 · 7 answers · asked by Kelly B 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Currently i am living with my hubby in texas (not my idea we moved for his job in insurance)but i have a degree in marine biology that i cant use really here and i hate it here!Hubby said it was temporary but now says it perminent. I am working as a secretary at the moment bored out of my mind!He does not get why i am so mad!?I was offered a job as a seal trainer at a zoo in tri-state area also studying the seals and i want to take the job.Considering a divorce at moment.
Read last post if you want the reason.

2007-04-07 08:58:29 · 11 answers · asked by Elle L 1 in Marriage & Divorce