Family & Relationships - 7 April 2007

i have a crush on this boy i havnt seen in a while so i havnt been thinking about him but saw my one friend thursday and i have been thinkin about him and i dont know why. btw he is 12. i'm 14. hes 2 grades lower than me and i stilll dont know why i'm thinkin about him. i never thought of him as more than a friend until recently. usually i'm like all over him sittin close leanin on him tellin him how good he smells sharin an ipod and stuff. playfully flirtin. but is he too young for all this? and why am i all the sudden thinkin about him? am i sending him the wrong message cuz i dont know if i like him yet?


plz answer all 3 questions every lil bit helps =]

2007-04-07 03:02:32 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Do you see that when there is plenty of money for shopping then your wife is super happy.

But when theres not enough to shop with, she's corrilla davilla?

2007-04-07 03:00:53 · 9 answers · asked by ? 4 in Family

I messed up with this boy I like. We both knew we liked each other and everything but we weren't going out or even dating yet. I told him that I didn't have sex without a relationship and then he found out that two weeks earlier I hookup with one of my friends at a party (alcohol was involved) Now he says he just doesnt know if he can trust me. I tried to explain that I told him that because I didn't want him to think of my as easy and that I really did want a relationship with him. The other guy meant nothing...I just don't know what to do to prove to him he can trust me. He told me last night that we would talk tomorrow and that he would call me...I just hope he does. :(

2007-04-07 03:00:11 · 13 answers · asked by Rachel K 2 in Singles & Dating

I have liked this guy for about 3 years off & on.All of my frinds would say that i should ask him out that we make a cute couple.I mean i can talk to him no problem.But then this girl named Brittney is gong out with him and she is suppose to be my friend,she always told me to ask him out,and that we make a cute couple.and she knows i cant have a boyfriend b/c of my Quince(sweet 15).When we were at a pep-seshion* a freind told me that they were pretending to go out to make some1 who likes him too mad.I'm like ok w/e.Then l8er in the week they were always together.So i asked a friend what was going on and she said"that they were not pretending nemore"i was so mad i mean this girl was suppose to be one of my friends.I have told my mom she said it wont last.b/c she changes boyfriends alot but they have been going out 4 2 months.I always get mad when he gets another girlfriend.Do I really Love him.& should I be mad at my friend 4 goin out with him when she knows i like him or b happy?Help!

2007-04-07 02:58:30 · 13 answers · asked by ♥Erika♥Matt i Love you!!!♥ 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

what shud i do,continue or break up??????plz help me.or shud i take hi out 4 a date????being a girl

2007-04-07 02:57:53 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I heard from friends in the gang that close friend get married and I am the last to know how they are ordinary friends close and I know that I do not know because I am Balancassar Savtaqdeha and I am the last to know

2007-04-07 02:57:26 · 4 answers · asked by Cute p!nk 1 in Friends

im 20 and my feance is 43.i no big age gap.i love him so mutch we have been together for 4 years now.he has a kid that is 12 years old.she comes to stay on a weekend and everytime she brakes something on perpouse.she allso steels things out of our home.and wees the bed really bad all the time.iv not giveing her drinks at a serten time.iv tryed getting her nappies but there is none that come in her size.and im the one who has tow sort it out.he will neva tell her of so she keeps on doing it.she only wont money or meterial things of her dad.shes so anoying.i used to adore kids now i hate them.i no i will never have kids now.u dont understand they make me feel sick.i feel really bad about the way i think about kids now.just makes me wonna cry all the time.i always wonted kids but no she just put me of having them.does anyone no how im feeling.i feel alone in this box in my head.

2007-04-07 02:53:47 · 8 answers · asked by JLT 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

So what do you think of marriage right out of high school? Like if you are both truly in love with each other and want to be together forever and start a family.

2007-04-07 02:52:36 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-04-07 02:51:48 · 21 answers · asked by shruti shah 1 in Singles & Dating

I would like to know what is the law in a muslim country when a non muslim man converts to islam so that he can take advantage of the islamic sharia law to his advantage. The man is hindu married to non muslim but now he would like to convert to islam so that he does not have to pay alimony and have two wives. Originally married under the indian marriage act. Does this mean that the sharia law will apply now that he has converted? Doesn't the original law apply ie the law of indian marriage act to the woman. Which law would apply to the non muslim first wife? Under what basis can she fight her case? The husband is having an affair with a muslim lady in a muslim country. Is it true that he can easily divorce his first wife and pay only for three months of maintainence? Is it easy to convert to islam?

2007-04-07 02:50:00 · 7 answers · asked by Lady D 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I just answered a question .... where a lady had just found out that her husband had built up a £15k debt..... and she was thinking about leaving him.....

I just found it a bit sick as they have 2 kids and had been together for 8 years ..... to throw it all away because of £15k....doesnt seem rational to me.....

surely love is more important than money....isnt it...?

2007-04-07 02:49:48 · 22 answers · asked by Fox Hunter 4 in Marriage & Divorce

A little background first, I quit drinking a year ago because my wife cannot handle her alcohol and we were fighting all the time when we drank.

Last weekend she wanted me to go to a party with her and her coworkers and I said no. I asked her to please not get drunk and drive. She said ok, of course she got drunk and crashed on our friends couch and then drove home in the morning. .

Last night she got home and said I have to go to a party with my coworkers and would you please go. I said no again, I have my son this weekend. I was woke up at 6 this morning with her crying and saying she had a problem. She reeked of booze and said I was raped at the party. I am suspicious, she didn't call, she went to the hospital supposedly and a rape kit was done, she says the guy was arrested, she has a small black eye, no other sign of struggle, she's very defensive, I am not getting much info. Yes she has lied to me before but not on this level. How should I handle this?

2007-04-07 02:48:23 · 15 answers · asked by Cliffy 2 in Marriage & Divorce

If so, just what was it that you were suppose to be full of?

2007-04-07 02:48:00 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I am about ready to lose my mind!! My fiance' and I are having a destination wedding in another state and my family is all pissed off about it. My mom and dad are mad and my sisters all keep saying "well you must not want anybody there". NO! Thats not why we're doing it this way! Why cant anybody understand that just because its a destination wedding, it doesnt mean we dont want them there. There are plenty of good reasons why we are doing it this way and also, we really want to!! I dont want to have the same exact wedding as all my older sisters. Then its not even special ya know?
I'd like to get to a point where I start enjoying my engagement and look forward to my wedding but right now, I just feel like crap.
Are there any other brides out there that have gone thru this? Why do people take weddings so personally!?

2007-04-07 02:46:51 · 9 answers · asked by snailysnal 4 in Weddings

2007-04-07 02:46:11 · 10 answers · asked by Free Dog Bounty Hunter 1 in Singles & Dating

why do girls asks for a break in a relationship? if my girl friends ask for a break after 7 month of good relationship and i decided to leave her, but after one month of breaking up our relation, she is always trying to make me jalous. (she have his own bf now). why?

2007-04-07 02:45:00 · 5 answers · asked by mango k 1 in Singles & Dating

if anyone has problems in love contact me

2007-04-07 02:43:00 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

If u could measure ...what percentage of your relationship is based on Physical needs & what percentage on your emotional needs....

2007-04-07 02:42:25 · 9 answers · asked by Hot Guy 5 in Singles & Dating

i have this boyfriend and i like him a lot but he is sorta shy and i dont know wat i can say to start him 2 talk

2007-04-07 02:41:18 · 15 answers · asked by Kaylin S 1 in Singles & Dating

My Mom started spanking me when I got into my childhood. Mom claims that Im an adult between the ages of birth-30 years old, and Im a child from 30 and on. When growing up I could do whatever I want and never got in trouble for a thing.
I got married at 14 to a guy that was an illeagal alien, and my Mom signed the papers so we could be married and so he could be here legal. I had a daughter shortly after...
As soon as I got to be 30 years old, Mom said that I had to move in w/ her and get a divorce because Im a child and 2 young to be married and I put Sarah up for adoption. She started putting diapers on me at night so I wont wet the bed. I cant work. I have to have permission from Mama to go anywhere or do anything. Mama spanks me if I go somewhere w/o asking, she says she has to know wherever I go and do. Mama spanks me if I back mouth her 2.
I cant wear anything that shows cleavage.

2007-04-07 02:40:05 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

if i saw a prety girl in a restaurant or a coffe shop, and i want to take her phone number, what should i do? and how should i behave?

2007-04-07 02:39:17 · 8 answers · asked by mango k 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok so I'm 29 years old, and I should know this, but I am not sure if it's friendly flirting....or if he's actually hitting on me....his wife even works with us as well now. He makes hidden moves, like .....touching, talks all the time, but he's also a christian so .....i'm not for sure what to think here .....he'll be quitting in a few weeks.....maybe I am just ermmm not thinking clearly.......but two different people have told me two different things when I asked them what they thought it was...so now I'm looking at asking others as well...perhaps someone can give me a helpful suggestion.

2007-04-07 02:35:11 · 10 answers · asked by SandDancing 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-04-07 02:30:06 · 16 answers · asked by ......... 1 in Family

Last week I was invited to go out to dinner with a few friends, one of which is my "best friend" Well, I accepted the invite, and im supposed to be going tonight. However, my "best friend" recently decided she wanted to start talking about me behind my back, saying nasty things to my other friends...i confronted her on the situation and told her I was hurt. Well now she's mad at me for the "way I brought up the situation to her" she said I could have confronted her more "respectfully"...so we are cold towards each other now. I talked to her yesterday and asked her if I should still attend dinner, I said I wanted to know the truth so it wouldnt be uncomfortable for us....she said "I dont know if its going to be uncomfortable for you, IM going to have a fun time, I wont tryyy to ignore you, but whether you feel comfortable or not is entirely your choice...." So, I hung up. My question is, Should I attend dinner tonight? Please help...

2007-04-07 02:28:35 · 36 answers · asked by Ash 4 in Singles & Dating

ok its spring break. my bf was grounded till yesterday who then called me but could only talk for about 50 mins. he didnt seem happy or anything when i called, and he didnt even seem like he missed me. he says he does but idk. he never calls me back on time, sometimes not at all. but he has come to my house, then gotten in trouble for it later, and hes offered me money, but i declined cuz im not a gold digger. he comes to my youth group with me, and hes gone to all of my performances. in school he talks to me whenever he can. but lately im not sure if he cares. what do you think?

2007-04-07 02:27:54 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

anyways so yesterday i asked a quesion that in volved this guy and why he didn't respond after i poured my heart out to him, anyways he sent me a message on myspace telling me how sorrry he was for not responding, and he said the message i sent to him, left him utterly speechless, and that's why he didn't respond anyways , what does that mean? he told me he'll let me know if he has anything to say to me, bcuz he told me he might not be able to tell me on monday cuz he might not have thought of anything to say, but i told him i will be patient, what should i do? should i play hard to get now?

2007-04-07 02:27:06 · 13 answers · asked by astrid 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-04-07 02:27:04 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

well i wanna buy something for a special friend that i known for 2 years she has bring the best outa me. what would a 16 year old girl like? that would last..? or something..i was planing on buying a ipod and dedicate 3 songs for her :) but what would a girl like you like?

2007-04-07 02:26:12 · 8 answers · asked by Chewy 1 in Friends

It's really annoying. He keeps trying to touch my ears and that is the most disgusting thing ever so I yelled at him and laughed him. He just laughed, so I licked my finger and stuck it in his ear, then he held me down and touched my ears. What am I to do?

2007-04-07 02:26:00 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i had a girl friend we been together for 3 years 6 month... weeks ago i get to know a girl i had some feeling on her and she had the feeling on me too. we been out for days already. where i get to meet my girlfriend i just feel so bad. my girlfriend is such a nice and kind person wat ever i say she will say ok. any one can pls tell me wat i'm going to do?

2007-04-07 02:23:38 · 10 answers · asked by Rong Sheng c 1 in Other - Family & Relationships