Family & Relationships - 7 April 2007

Theres been a lot of guys that have liked me,but they all get turned off because they say that I'm "frigid". They all say that I'm to innocent but I dont want to be like that. I dont know how not to be like that. I get freaked out to hug them or kiss any boy, or when they touch me. I am in highschool now and I shouldnt be like that. I have lost a lot of guys because they havent thought I was interested in them. Please help me with this.

2007-04-07 13:41:59 · 12 answers · asked by Carson M 1 in Singles & Dating

My Fiance and I picked up are wedding rings today and I would like to start wearing them before we get married ,Whats the scope on this ? Why are why souldnt we wear them yet

2007-04-07 13:41:41 · 9 answers · asked by Terry S 5 in Weddings

why do people get married?

2007-04-07 13:38:23 · 8 answers · asked by bznsman 1 in Marriage & Divorce

she was stressed out cuz of family problems n wanned drugs to drown out the pain. i was terrified so i called up her sis n told her to talk her out of it. istead things out really ugly wen she got home. her family was furious. now she thinks its all my fault n hates me. but i did it only fer her own safety cuz i knw she is suicidal n self destructive. i dunno why she cant c tht i did it fer her. we r frends fer 8 yrs n it pains how she rejects me wthout thinking rationally. if i were her i'd b grateful. since thn we havent talked. i feel i shudnt call her unless her moral senses give her a wake up call n she calls me.wat shud i do? keep her or lose a good friend becuz of nuthing?n wat kinda frend wud doubt my motives?

2007-04-07 13:33:18 · 7 answers · asked by Sike O 1 in Friends

She comes over and at times disrespects my stuff. She takes my ferrets out of the cage without asking as Im telling her "dont take them out, dont take them out". Then she tests my limits and puts them back in the cage, while poking at them with her fingers through the bars. Then when she helps clean up her mess, she carrys about 7 glasses all stacked up on eachother and as they are tipping over with liquid in them, and Im telling her "put them down" she is screeching and laughing (ear piercing shreeks". She interrupts me and asks all these questions without even waiting for the answers...anad jumps from subject to subject without carrying on a normal conversation. I want to still have her over, but its getting to be too much ?? Does she have ADD?? Is she just not disciplined enough at home. Please help!

2007-04-07 13:32:58 · 13 answers · asked by B 5 in Family

Well we've been friends for almost 3 years now, and this year we've been closer than ever. We give each other hugs all the time, and hangout all the time. We went on this school trip a few days ago and he kept flirting with me, saying he wanted to give me ahug so bad, and we werent apart the whole day. Everytime his girlfriend tried to hangout with him, hed hangout with me. (she asked him out) We Ran together across the Golden Gate bridge and his girlfriend started getting ticked. She's getting jealous of me, because her bf and i are really really close friends. She even came up and said i couldnt hang out with anymore at all. And now her bf is getting ticked. He acts like him and i are going out, and him and his real girlfriend are just friends(not even that). They never hangout, and don't even sit next to each other at lunch. Why is he doing this?? If anything his girlfriend should be getting mad at him, but instead at me. So why is he acting like this?

2007-04-07 13:23:40 · 10 answers · asked by sausalito 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-04-07 13:22:19 · 13 answers · asked by brandon_w_2001 1 in Family

Also, i am being myself and still, the insults are coming. Please help a loser like myself!

2007-04-07 13:20:59 · 7 answers · asked by rsfan 1 in Friends

I met this boy a while back and he liked me then, but my brother and my mother didn't want us together....So I made them happy and didn't see him. Now, 5 years later me and that same boy have started back talking.. I love him.......and I know what he's feeling and he knows what I'm feeling. But my mama andf brother still don't feel the same way after all these years. I made a mistake of not going after him 5 years ago but should I do it again now and make my mama and brother happy? What should I do?

2007-04-07 13:19:23 · 20 answers · asked by butterfly62992 1 in Singles & Dating

She didn't know about us and we didn't know about her - but now that he is here in Texas to save our marriage (tuff on me, let me tell ya!), she won't stop calling and texting. He says he feels sorry for her and doesn't want to hurt her but - it seems like I am hurting so she doesn't have to. She doesn't know he is home - she thinks he is staying with his daughter. This is sick and tearing me apart. We have been married 27 years - I don't want to just throw it away if he was just in a mid life crisis we might be able to work through. I love him.

2007-04-07 13:18:24 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My husband is addicted to Dungeons and Dragons online. He plays for hours at a time. I understand he can't just quit when he wants, but he spends most of his free time on the game. He stays up really late playing and doesn't get enough sleep which puts him into a bad mood.

2007-04-07 13:18:17 · 14 answers · asked by popijones 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-04-07 13:15:14 · 18 answers · asked by Autt 2 in Singles & Dating

ive always wondered why...

2007-04-07 13:14:03 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i have this friend, and she says to me she sees people in the shadows, and that when she looked at me, my face was changed and my eyes were black. she also said that my face continued to change. i could tell she was scared. we were at my house and it was a sleepover, and we were the only ones who stayed up later than anyone else. then, i told her to close her eyes and picture the real me, and she said that she sees me but she also sees other people...black figures. she's still scared so i said, "don't look at them. they're not going to hurt you" and then i started to just talk with her and calm her down until she fell asleep. i don't what to do, i don't know if she was lying or not, but i do know that she sees a shrink. so i don't know maybe she does see dead people. i was being a good friend wasn't i? but can someone please tell me what they think i should do?

2007-04-07 13:10:53 · 8 answers · asked by E singa_babe 1 in Friends

The entire family still treats the ex-wife like she is a daughter and encourages her to attend and participate in all family functions. We spend all our holidays with his grandparents and she lives there and spends her holidays with them as well. Everything the kids get has to be split between the parents because she is always there and no one other than me seems to see a problem with all of this. I do not share my time, holidays, parties for kids with my ex-husband and this is expected. Am I the crazy one for wanting to be the only wife at the family affairs. The ex-wife is very loud, out spoken and has been with the family for over 5 years and ensures she is the center of attention when they are all together. I am reserved and quiet and do not crave the center of attention attraction therefore I do not jump in the middle of every conversation that is taking place. I feel very uncomfortable at the family functions because she is there and even dread the idea of being there.

2007-04-07 13:08:41 · 19 answers · asked by Erica 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Let me make this quick. I am a 28 yr old male and I got married in Oct of 06. Things were great at the begining, I have a 5 yr old I brought into the marriage and my wife doesnt see eye to eye with her. She doesnt think I am supportive when it comes to discipline. But she is also 3 months pregnant and 2 weeks ago she kicked me out, giving reasons that I am too distant with her (starting my own business) i spend to much time working and I dont support her with my daughter like I should. At first when I move she said it was temporary, she needed time apart, I called her alot and now she she says it is over, for me to move on, she regreats getting married and all that. I have cried and poured my heart out and she doesnt care, she sad its not the pregnancy or her mom putting stuff in her head, its not wanting to be with me anymore. One day she will be fine and the next she hates me,, but over the last few days she has had her mind set that she can not stand me???? Im confused

2007-04-07 13:05:58 · 16 answers · asked by Eric S 2 in Marriage & Divorce

1) blond hair, blue eyes
2) brown hair, tan, blue eyes
3) black hair, green eyes
4) reddish ( but not too red) hair, brown eyes, nice smile

2007-04-07 13:05:35 · 35 answers · asked by Sara Paxton 1 in Singles & Dating

Im a female early to mid 20s and I go and buy myself a brand new luxury sports car. Whenever I tell someone online or someone I dont know they say 'Who bought ya that'? or Where'd ya get that from? And make it look like I couldnt of possibly bought it myself because im a female and it seems they are amazed that I could afford a 44,000 dollar vehicle by myself. Why is that? Why do men say wherd ya get that from? What guy bought ya that? then when they find out I bought it myself they get silent.

2007-04-07 13:01:53 · 9 answers · asked by henry 1 in Singles & Dating

Do you think when two people are having an affair outside of marriage that their relationship could end up being more than what was expected at first? If both people are not receiving intimacy/sex with their married partner could it be possible for the affair to end up both people leaving their marriage?

2007-04-07 13:00:46 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i am a stay at home dad of 3 boys since they were born,my wife just left with her friends to go to a party and when i looked in her car there were 4 bottles of unopened vodka, i guess i will be coloring easter eggs with the kids by myself, she didnt show up for our 4 year old kindergarten sign up orientation because she was partying and for christmas while we were making ginger bread houses she was in las vegas partying, what would you do if your spouse acted this way

2007-04-07 12:59:32 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

i am a stay at home dad of 3 boys since they were born,my wife just left with her friends to go to a party and when i looked in her car there were 4 bottles of unopened vodka, i guess i will be coloring easter eggs with the kids by myself, she didnt show up for our 4 year old kindergarten sign up orientation because she was partying and for christmas while we were making ginger bread houses she was in las vegas partying, what would you do if your spouse acted this way

2007-04-07 12:59:19 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

im a 17 year old guy and my mom is driving me nuts, most recently with annyoing questions about the prom and it feels awkard all teh time.......i wish she would butt out and let me tell her stuff in my own time....by teh way i have aboslutely nothing to hide, i just dont like these conversations..............
anyhow is it normal for moms to do this and are there anyways to get out of these situations

2007-04-07 12:58:47 · 8 answers · asked by nascarfan 2 in Family

im a blonde FYI, but ive always wondered..

2007-04-07 12:53:32 · 8 answers · asked by chyeahbasketball<3 2 in Singles & Dating

We're only 25yo & have been best-friends & lovers for 7yrs. I can't stand to think about my life without him in it, but things have been less than good for a while. Communication, understanding & sex have gone out the window & we're not coping. I'm desperatley seeking new experiences & I'm keen to meet new people but he doesn't seem to know how important this is to me. Anyway I'm a horrible person & I cheated on him for the first time last week. Before I realised what I'd done it was too late. It made me feel alive & I think I'd do it again, but I doubt I could live with the guilt. Do I still love my boyfriend?

2007-04-07 12:53:20 · 3 answers · asked by Tiffany T 1 in Singles & Dating

should any married cheater or someone sleeping with someone they know is married have their ring finger cut off? they can't finish the marriage before cheating? with no ring finger everyone will see they can't be trusted with matters of the heart and respect to others... just a thought.

2007-04-07 12:51:04 · 17 answers · asked by sufferingnomad 5 in Marriage & Divorce

I have a 4 year old son and a 5 year old daughter. There father was around for the first 2 years of there life and he was abusive. He left state for 2 years and told me he had changed. I told him that he had alot to do before he earned my trust back. It's been a year since he's been back and seems to be doing well with his anger. But I feel that he is messing with my kids heads because he only sees them 1 time a week. My daughter asks about him all the time but my son doesn't want anything to do with him. He now wants to leave state again and have the kids go with him. I said no way are my kids leaving state with you. Should I let him see the kids even though I think he is going to screw them up in the long run...or am I just being stubborn?

2007-04-07 12:49:34 · 9 answers · asked by Gellibene 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I have an older sister who is the favorite in my family...
she was told that she could only have 1 car and shes been through 3 already, and in 3 years... she has her own house that my parents paid for and take care of, she leaves it a pit, she played tennis when she was a teenager and my father said that we only got one sport to play and now shes taking golf lessons....
and it upsets me to see everything that happens and i barely get anything and am treated like a slave by him, and im always in trouble no matter what i do,
should i just forget about everything and just not think about it or should i talk to someone about it

2007-04-07 12:49:14 · 19 answers · asked by Airy09 2 in Family

Really, how much does your spouse can cheer you up? What do they do if you feel down? Or is the right way is to sort it out for yourself and not expect your spouse to cheer you up? For example, my husband would rather let me watch a movie, than try to talk to me and cheer me up.

2007-04-07 12:39:16 · 15 answers · asked by Alyssa Macey 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-04-07 12:38:50 · 11 answers · asked by marie 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-04-07 12:38:13 · 6 answers · asked by Danielle S 1 in Marriage & Divorce