Family & Relationships - 7 April 2007

2007-04-07 17:42:21 · 1 answers · asked by Sush 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok so my friend recently confided in me that she's faking being pregnant to hang on to her boyfriend,from what i get on his side of the story is he just wants to be there for his child but he doesn't love her .He has been drafted in the NFL by some team and I wanna tell him so bad that she is a fraud I want to know should I betray her and let this young man move on with his life without letting her hinder him or should I support her in her web of lies I told her I am very uncomfortable with the whole thing and on top of that the baby is supposedly Due at the end of May what's a friend to do?

2007-04-07 17:39:30 · 24 answers · asked by CaliMa 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Date a girl who is:
1) Big up top but flat down below
2) Big around the waist but flat up there
3) Big all around
4) Flat all around

Everyone likes different things - so I'm just curious

2007-04-07 17:34:49 · 23 answers · asked by asdghgjkl 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-04-07 17:31:20 · 19 answers · asked by tic22 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-04-07 17:30:45 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm a high school freshman, and my cousin is a junior. The guy I like is a senior.
Just recently, my cousin moved closer to me and now goes to the same school as me. We've always hung out a lot, and we are really close, but I have always felt like she is better than me at everything....literally, everything. Now the real problem. She is dating the guy I like. Since I go over her house almost every day, I always see them kissing and holding hands. I know I might be a little young for him, but it still makes me want to cry whenever I see them together. I feel so inferior to her....she's good at everything and I'm good at nothing....and I guess this thing with my crush is just the last straw. I've taken a backseat to her for so long....What do I do??

2007-04-07 17:30:31 · 5 answers · asked by Dr Fernando 4 in Family

me and my friend mira got in this fight. we were at a dance and she never talked to me. i went to the dance just for her and she completely ignored me. i emailed herthat night and asked y we didnt say anything to each other. i said we on everything and didnt blame her for anything. so she kept saying things that made me feel bad. so i didnt email her back i just left her alone. that was on friday a week ago then last monday didnt look at me at all at school cause we had testing but yesterday we had all of our classes and she talked to me.

i dont know if we are friends again. and i dont know whut to say to her??? she is acting like notin happented and ijust dont understand it. wut should i do

2007-04-07 17:29:15 · 6 answers · asked by bush sucks nutz! 2 in Friends

Hey! Ok, I'm 19. And I go to college, I have a good job, and everything in my life is pretty stable and just good. I don't have a boyfriend, in fact I do not need one. But I am really attracted to one man. He is my doctor. Gosh, he is really handsome and smart. As far as I know he is single, and he is about 35-37 years old. Is it ok for me to be almost in love with him?

2007-04-07 17:28:32 · 18 answers · asked by Jennifer 1 in Singles & Dating

We are in our mid twenties.
Dating over 2 months.
Seemed to have some common interests.
Conversations would flow well, no random quietness (although I hadn't really opened up to him too much with personal stuff yet, too early for me).
He was always was interested in the physical stuff between the two of us. (We hadn't had sex yet, but everything else was great.)

Could it be that i hadn't opened up much to him yet? What do I do now?

2007-04-07 17:23:38 · 14 answers · asked by katiebeth 3 in Singles & Dating

My brother thinks he knows everything about life at 22 years old what do u think of this?

My brother thinks he knows everything about life at 22 years old what do u think of this he is very arrogant because he thinks he know how peoples minds work and how to manipulate them he hasent got his high school diploma he smokes alot of marijuana, how do i get him to get his ego a bit in check and stop thinking he knows it all i am only 20 and even i know i dont no everything infact in the big picture of things i might not know nothing

2007-04-07 17:22:42 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

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2007-04-07 17:20:37 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Like i hate when one day when i don't feel that great and look that fabulous the guys aren't that into me. But when I do look good they're all over me. UIhhm my personality hasen't changed.
Idiots.

How do you know when a guy likes you for your inner beauty not outer?

Thanks <3

2007-04-07 17:18:23 · 23 answers · asked by cutie.pie_xo 3 in Singles & Dating

because I want to know if there lying or not

2007-04-07 17:16:17 · 38 answers · asked by MYSTERY 1 in Singles & Dating

if your husband could not get or maintain an erection or satisfy you sexually no matter what pills he tried (viagra,cialis,levitra) and you found out he had been looking at internet porn and going to dating sites behind your back what would you do?i dont want to cheat but i really cannot imagine never having a decent sex life again.i have had a love life for most of 35 years i aint dead yet you know.its hard to approach him this way anymore because of all the issues and he is intrested but not able i really dont know how long i can go on like this without becoming totally unintrested.i will not be used by allowing him to ruin my life and thinking he would gain anything it wont happen.i am just so unsure what to do next.any advice?

2007-04-07 17:15:53 · 2 answers · asked by dixie58 7 in Marriage & Divorce

I have had three long term relationships with all three of my kids fathers I have ended all of them for one reason or another (one cheated, the other just could not commit to me only, and this one has admitttied to using me so I have parted ways with him). I have a number a reason I would love to get married, the reasons include having someone share the same goals as I. A good role model for my children and someone to help lighten the load. An adult to conversate with about dreams, fears, likes/dislikes, basically a best friend who loves me and is honest and I can do the same in return. I just turned thirty, an african american female , I consider myself a cutie, a very hard worker, finishing up my bachlors degree. I think I have a lot to bring to the table, why am I still unmarried or cannot locate someone with decent qualities. Many men I encounter are attracted to the physical and could care less about your mind or thoughts that want noting more than a sex partner.

2007-04-07 17:13:08 · 14 answers · asked by nene 3 in Marriage & Divorce

My mom has said to have seen a couple of guys (probably ages around 20-30) . She says it all started out as her seeing them just standong up in corners on her way to work. Then she started seeing them following her TO work by taking the same trains as her. She told me this and I got scared for her. But then it cooled down a little bit. But NOW, she said she saw the SAME boys infront of her work building just leaning against the metal grill. She said they looked suspicious. Luckily, a guy she knew was also outside and that probably saved her. But now I"m scared for her life. I really don't want her going to work tomorrow. Its making me so scared and I'm like crying. Why are these guys following her? will the police be able to help out? What should she do? She wont listen to me in staying home tomorrow! ='[

2007-04-07 17:04:01 · 12 answers · asked by . 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

i have a friend that lives on the other side of the us from me. i live in texas and she is in massachusetts. her and her boyfriend are friends of mine and they have been together for many years. when i talk to my friend (her boyfriend) on the phone he hits on me. it's very uncomfortable. i usually try to change the subject. i don't feel comfortable enough to say something to her because she's not a best friend and i also don't want to start any drama. i know how some girls can be and i don't want her or him mad at me. i will be moving up there soon and i want to keep them as friends because i don't have many up there (all my family is in trinidad and oklahoma). can someone please give me some non-affending advice on this?

2007-04-07 17:03:57 · 4 answers · asked by portuguese_tease 2 in Friends

i have a friend who used to be hip hop &cool but now she is bisexual and she hangs out at weird parties where kids get drunnk, and she is getting her lip pierced. so tell me this, how do i get her to be hip and hang out with me again?

2007-04-07 17:02:08 · 2 answers · asked by FooFoo 2 in Friends

Every time I come home from my friend's house like drive home. I throw my bag on the floor and i either see them cuddling in a movie or cudding in the candlelight or something else romantic ahh too lame to say them all. It's kind of weird one time I came in and they were having a candlelight dinner. Its a little bit freaky. Are they? and what should I do

2007-04-07 17:02:07 · 12 answers · asked by robbie s 1 in Family

We started to suspect after we would catch him on his cell phone talking in an affected way. We only heard him talk this way with my mother. Then we would hear him have arguments, saying things like your not going to mess up my family. Finally we got on the internet and used his cell phone number and ssn to get the calling history off his cell phone. We looked at the number he called often and late at night into the morning.We got up the nerve to call the number and a lady answered. When we asked her how she knew our father, she said she rather not tell. How do we let our father know, we know everything. Including the lady's name and her daughters name. I can't even look at him. i have no respect for him. All I can think about is the hurt my mother would feel if she knew. I don't even know if she knows. There is not doubt he is cheating. I have meny more examples but not enough room to type.

2007-04-07 17:01:47 · 16 answers · asked by qushy2 1 in Family

I feel uncomfortable with my 54 yr old boyfriend being in my daughters bedroom while she is sleeping. She was uncomfortable too and said when she woke up he was standing beside her. He told her if she needed a ride to work to call him. I just feel strange about him being in her room.
Am I just being paranoid or is there something weird about this ? My daughter is very petite and very pretty and maybe I am just being over protective. I was already gone to work for several hours. We watched a movie and both fell asleep, so he was still at my house and I left him sleeping when I left for work really early this morning at about 0530.

2007-04-07 16:58:34 · 13 answers · asked by happydawg 6 in Family

What do you do if you are in a loveless marriage. You and your spouse can never get along. You dont have a life together, you just live in the same house. He never pays you any attention and you are constantly struggling to keep the house clean but he just lay around and mess up all day.

2007-04-07 16:55:34 · 6 answers · asked by tasha l 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Ok, well first of I should mention I'm sort of shy ( not too much though). I first met her at camp and it seemed every time she got the chance she talked to me, she would just randomly come up and sit beside me. Well I picked up pretty fast, anytime she was around I would try and talk to her. She goes to a different school than me but I see her at church a lot. At one time one of her friends told me she liked me, but I think I waited to long to ask her out. When I finally did she said she was sorry but she had a bf. She still talks to me whenever I am around her, and she is single, but I'm not still if she still likes me or not. It's really starting to effect my life in many ways. I can't concentrate on anything because I'm always thinking about her. Well thanks for taking the time to read this, I hope someone has some advice for me, thanks.

2007-04-07 16:54:36 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Six months ago I had a great life. I was in love with my boyfriend of two years, Logan. Six months ago he was in a car accident involving a drunk driver. I was devastated when I heard he was barely alive. I stayed with him night and day. Lost my job and many friends. A month after the accident he woke from a coma. He didnt recognize me or know my name. My heart broke because I knew he wasnt my Logan. Two weeks later he developed swelling in his brain and died. My heart broke into a million pieces. I died with him. For the past six months I have been in a nightmare praying to wake up. Last week his parents asked me to go threw his apartment. I was wary but finally agreed. Just being there tore me up. While I was going threw his bedroom I found a ring. An engagement ring engraved "My Love". This ring was meant for me. I know I should move on. But I can't! Will I ever love again?

2007-04-07 16:51:26 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have a friend. When I hangout with my other friend. She is jelious. And she is mad. : | And I don't know what to do. What do you think. : ) <3

2007-04-07 16:48:33 · 12 answers · asked by Danielle D 2 in Friends

on me and points out my faults and I say I am sorry but he doesnt feel he has any faults and that he is always right..What can I do??

2007-04-07 16:46:22 · 12 answers · asked by ? 4 in Marriage & Divorce

I really love my father more than my mother, byt I don't hate her. She always falls for my brother's sweet and sensitive acts, but I'm nicer than him. Plus my dad loves me more than my brother. Should I tell how I feel about this to my parents? Children should be treated equally.

2007-04-07 16:44:40 · 8 answers · asked by The Mermaid 2 in Family

let me start the question in this way..there is a girl who lives 3000miles away from me..she got friends as i do.....as we are committed so far and trying to think to be in a relation of husband and wife...but there is a think that i dont know how you guys and girls gonna react. she has friends and sometimes go out with them..i mean so guy friends..i dont know what she does how she meets but she has told me so many times that "TRUST ME AM NOT GONNA LET U DOWN"..i know she isn't like that but whats the point to go out with more than one guy friend? i don't realy understand when i ask her she replies like i am not cheating with u but on top of that none of her guy friends know about me. she was in disneyland for a trip and her one of guy friend works for delta airline and he just helped her out for getting a cheapest ticket and hotel room. and sorry to say she and he was in the same room..I ain't got any idea what she wanted to say by telling me all this

2007-04-07 16:42:25 · 19 answers · asked by linkin' Dezire 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Not that I was expecting money, that's not the point. But they could have at least left a card, right? It wasn't cheap for food and alcohol. Do I still send a card thanking them for coming?

2007-04-07 16:38:22 · 27 answers · asked by pchiz 3 in Weddings

I Have a guy friend who has a girlfriend and they are having problems. He says their on bad terms but are trying to work things out, but in the mean time he has been seeing someone else for a over a year. He can't answer the question why is he seeing this other person if he knows he has no intentions on leaving his girlfriend.

2007-04-07 16:34:20 · 11 answers · asked by celina h 1 in Other - Family & Relationships