Ok so my friend recently confided in me that she's faking being pregnant to hang on to her boyfriend,from what i get on his side of the story is he just wants to be there for his child but he doesn't love her .He has been drafted in the NFL by some team and I wanna tell him so bad that she is a fraud I want to know should I betray her and let this young man move on with his life without letting her hinder him or should I support her in her web of lies I told her I am very uncomfortable with the whole thing and on top of that the baby is supposedly Due at the end of May what's a friend to do?
2007-04-07 17:39:30 · 24 answers · asked by CaliMa 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Thanks for the support guys I have decided to tell him and not because I am jealous like she claims I am but I am telling him because morally it is unfair she brags about driving his practically brand new BMW that she's using to get to and from the Dr. appts. but I am about to burst her bubble,I did tell her that he will Not marry her but she thinks I am just jealous but I am NOT this is plain Foul.
2007-04-07 18:18:21 · update #1
It drives me nuts when girls fake the whole "pregnancy" thing to hold on to a guy! It's totally not fair! He has the opportunity of a lifetime for him and she's going to ruin it!
He's going to end up finding out that she's lying when he sees no real baby.
TELL HIM NOW, before it's too late! Because, you could help him out, and plus put yourself in his position!
He'll appreciate it. Also, talk to your friend and ask her what she would do if someone lied to her just to keep their relationship going...
2007-04-07 17:47:05 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I see a liar liar pants on fire. There a couple of ways you can crack this lie open. First, ask her boyfriend if he got her pregnant. If no, she's guilty for two crimes either: She cheated on her boyfriend and got pregnant with another guy, and lying to get attention either way she's gonna get it. Plus ask her if she's experiencing the effects. And besides if she was annoyed with you and the baby stuff then that's another sign because she would like to get ideas for a baby name as well. Remember honey. This world has plenty of people, and you can find more friends. She is not a true friend. What happens in her life does not concern you, whether she loses some people or not it does not concern you because that attitude of hers will get her to be place anyways one day without the lying pregnant thing. Good Luck :)
2016-05-19 22:45:30 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I never got people like that. What kind of person would fake being pregnant? That gets her nowhere in the long run and it wont keep him around anyway. He'll eventually find out what a liar she is and leave eventually. Thats a major dillemma you got there, tell him and betray friend. Do what you think is right. Is it worth it? I think you know the answer.
2007-04-07 17:45:05 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tough one....tell her what she is doing is wrong. It's wrong to play with people like that. One day someone will play a game like this with her, but it will be worst. Just remind her that you are her friend, but you wont lie for her. This game will be over soon, but it looks like the ending will be ugly. Lying to keep a man will never work, it is time to say goodbye. Also think about getting some new friends if you can. This girl sounds like she can not be trusted if she is playing a game like this.
2007-04-07 17:55:05 · answer #4 · answered by puffgirl2000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your friend is being manipulative and dishonest. You should tell her boyfriend, so he can go on with his life. This is not a lie she can get away with. He can insist on a blood test to prove her pregnancy and he does not have to tell her you told. Encourage her to let him go, because trapping a guy will only cause bitterness, not bring them together. He will not marry her because of a pregnancy. He can be a father with or without her and she does not deserve him. Be honest, this is not the type of girl you can trust.
2007-04-07 18:03:59 · answer #5 · answered by Shanna h 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to decide which is more valuable: letting this man have a dream career in the NFL or salvaging a friendship with a selfish, deceitful witch. Some choice.
2007-04-07 17:47:50 · answer #6 · answered by Alice K 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow I cant believe she has pulled this off for that long! I believe you need to tell him. His future is at stake here. What she is doing is wrong and deceitful and he deserves someone way better than that. I mean why would she want to be with him if he doesn't love her?? She has a few screws loose if you ask me. I think you should be honest with him definately. Could you live with yourself for not being truthful?
2007-04-07 17:45:53 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's crazy! She's trying to ruin this mans life and he'd obviously find out anyways when no baby appears. It's due in a month and she doesn't look pregnant anyways, so he's going to find out the next time he sees her! Just tell him.
2007-04-07 17:48:01 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You as a friend should explain to her that she shouldnt be faking like that just to keep a man because eventually the truth will come out
2007-04-07 18:39:47 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't tell him stay out of it but just ask her how do it makes her feel to know that this man don't real want her he's only with her because of a lie.because if he don't want her thats not going to make him not cheat on her and remind her of ray caruth(he was a nfl player) he killed his baby mama beacuse he didn't want her baby,she needs to know that when he do find out the truth i feel soory for her sike no I don't and you as her friend need to remember a lair is a lair if she lie to him she would damm sure lie to you-she's bad for you get out while you can
2007-04-07 17:48:34 · answer #10 · answered by Sabrina B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋