Six months ago I had a great life. I was in love with my boyfriend of two years, Logan. Six months ago he was in a car accident involving a drunk driver. I was devastated when I heard he was barely alive. I stayed with him night and day. Lost my job and many friends. A month after the accident he woke from a coma. He didnt recognize me or know my name. My heart broke because I knew he wasnt my Logan. Two weeks later he developed swelling in his brain and died. My heart broke into a million pieces. I died with him. For the past six months I have been in a nightmare praying to wake up. Last week his parents asked me to go threw his apartment. I was wary but finally agreed. Just being there tore me up. While I was going threw his bedroom I found a ring. An engagement ring engraved "My Love". This ring was meant for me. I know I should move on. But I can't! Will I ever love again?
2007-04-07 16:51:26 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Oh gosh your story made me cry! A friend of mine lost a boyfriend of 1 year when we were younger in a motorbike accident. I would say that she never forgot him but she went on to have three beautiful children with another guy she fell in love with.
You have to get over this horrible twist in your life and I imagine it will take a long time. Everyone is different, I have never had exactly the same experience but I can answer that you will love again but only when you are ready.
All the best :)
2007-04-07 16:58:55 · answer #1 · answered by Tinker 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will love again. It's just going to take you a lot of time to heal this wound. What's especially tough is when you lose someone so suddenly--it leaves you wondering what to do next. The best you can do for yourself is to go to grief counseling. Even hearing how other people deal with it can be beneficial to you.
You will always love him and he will always be a part of your life. It's okay to remember him. You might try to take up some new hobbies or interests and focus on that for now. Don't worry about ever loving again at this point. It's not time for it. I am so sorry about Logan. Please think about going to therapy. I know this seems like a drastic step, but you need help in expressing your grief in a healthy way, a way that allows you to take baby steps into your new future.
God bless hon.
2007-04-07 16:59:51 · answer #2 · answered by Smooch The Pooch 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes! Time is a great healer. It may take years. Concentrate upon the good times & be thankful for those times and believe Logan is ok. Life never stops we just move to various levels. Take things day by day anticipating good things for your life. Love will come again!
2007-04-07 17:15:54 · answer #3 · answered by cynthia2817@sbcglobal.net 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dated this one guy off and on from when we were in 5TH GRADE until I was a SENIOR in high school! We dated like 6 different times and every single time he either cheated on me or broke up with me and broke my heart and he did that 5 of the 6 times.. over and over. And I thought i loved him, but then I met the guy I am now engaged to, and he blew the other guy completely out of the picture. For the first tiem I broke up with him, becasue I realized I didn't love him as much as the other guy, and I should be with who makes me happiest. It takes a LOT of time to get over someone you loved, but it is possible, and you'll start to see that when you find another guy you fall in love with. Falling in love again is the best medicine for getting over someone who broke your heart.
2016-04-01 03:02:28 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its take time but now I think not because you know that in your heart he is still there and you still waiting for him.
Loving him is so great. There are only few people are like him. You are lucky being a part of him.
I want you to know that just realize that I know that he will be happy if you set him free.
I know that you still not move on. But this is not mean that you need to forget all your memories being together to just move on. I just want you to be happy in your life and always remember that GOD had a great plan for you.
I just want you to remember this message always and I want you to apply this in yur life.
"How much does GOD love you?
So much that he turns his ear to you constantly.
He answers your request all the time. Maybe not always with a YES, but always with what is BEST.
2007-04-07 17:18:17 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am soooo sorry for your loss. I know it's really hard right now. I am sure that you will be able to move on eventually. I wouldn't rush trying to fall in love again. Give yourself time to heal. It wouldn't be fair to you or to your next boyfriend if you were to move on too quickly. You'll get through it. Have you thought about seeing a therapist? It would probably help you to deal with your emotions and help you to overcome this. Again, I am so sorry for your loss. Good luck with everything.
2007-04-07 16:58:21 · answer #6 · answered by aerofare 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes dear you will. It will take time - lots of time. Allow yourself to grieve and seek some counseling(seriously). I lost my wife after almost sixteen years and I needed to seek help, but toughed it out. You will start to become yourself again trust me. I would give you a big hug if I could - my heart goes out to you.
2007-04-07 16:58:07 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It will take time. Only time will heal. The grieving process can take two years. Give yourself a break and know you are not alone. Take time to grieve.
2007-04-07 16:56:11 · answer #8 · answered by scarlettboca 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good story
2007-04-07 17:02:49 · answer #9 · answered by Village Player 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lets see here well life goes on its a matter of time that uwill find a new person that u will love. just remember that he will always be with u and no matter wat he'll be seeing everything and he would want u to be happy=)
2007-04-07 16:59:43 · answer #10 · answered by sad eyes 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋