i have a friend that lives on the other side of the us from me. i live in texas and she is in massachusetts. her and her boyfriend are friends of mine and they have been together for many years. when i talk to my friend (her boyfriend) on the phone he hits on me. it's very uncomfortable. i usually try to change the subject. i don't feel comfortable enough to say something to her because she's not a best friend and i also don't want to start any drama. i know how some girls can be and i don't want her or him mad at me. i will be moving up there soon and i want to keep them as friends because i don't have many up there (all my family is in trinidad and oklahoma). can someone please give me some non-affending advice on this?
2007-04-07 17:03:57 · 4 answers · asked by portuguese_tease 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Just shoot the guy down, hard. If he still persists after you make it plain you're not interested, then stop talking to him. If he still won't let it go, you have to tell your friend because if he's trying that hard, he wants to cheat.
2007-04-07 17:14:55 · answer #1 · answered by rohak1212 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When this guys starts hitting on you, Why can't you be straight out with him, Tell him how uncomfortable it makes you feel, and that you just don't appreciate it him doing that. And you would like him to stop.
2007-04-07 17:08:50 · answer #2 · answered by shygirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get him alone and tell him to stop. make him understand you like him as a friend but dont like that kind of attention from him. dont tell your girlfriend unless he gets worse or she finds out. either way calmly look her in the eye and tell her what happened and stress you did your best to discourage it. with luck she should take your side. good luck.
2007-04-07 17:25:43 · answer #3 · answered by evil Hesh 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, you should definitely tell her regardless of anything. :)
2007-04-07 17:08:18 · answer #4 · answered by . 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋