my bf and I moved in together and have not been getting along the last few days and I feel he has been picking

Question

on me and points out my faults and I say I am sorry but he doesnt feel he has any faults and that he is always right..What can I do??

Answer 1

Ask him if he's changed his mind on you living together. Ask him what's bothering him. Tell him if this is how it's going to be because if it is, you have to reconsider moving in.

Answer 2

Tell him to write down on a piece of paper things he does not like about you or your faults, when he does this, in another room write down your likes ( NO faults with him that you have even though you may have some) tell him he has 15 minutes to write them tell him your writing also ( but don't tell him the same thing tell him nothing) then tell him you will exchange in 15 min when you exchange them he will look at yours and feel like an A#@ and stop doing that to you

Answer 3

It's all part of adjusting to a new living situation, you two have to talk. Did he actually tell you that he doesn't have any faults and that he is always right, or do you assume he thinks that by the way he acts. Sit down and try to compromise.

Answer 4

ok so i know exactly how you feel me and my boyfriend moved in together not that long ago and he has done some what of the same thing to me i have noticed that we got into a lot more fights then we had ever been in be4 we moved in together but we get thru them.. for you case i would explain to him how you feel and dont be sorry all the time you can help that you have faults your human your not perfect and neither is he and if he wants to think he is and keeps putting you down maybe its time to move on.

Answer 5

Well you are now seeing that the 2 of you may not be compatible. Yes he too has his own faults.....but you need to stop kissing his butt by saying that you are sorry. Don't change who you are for him, by doing so you are loosing your identity and therefore the person that he supposedly fell in love with. But don't you apologize anymore for who you are, well unless what ever it is ....is gross, or you stuff is unkept and making a mess of your home by not taking care of your things and keeping your stuff picked up and in its appropriate place.

Answer 6

Alot of things change when you move in together. some of the fighting starts when you spend to much time together. So try getting some apart time. Then if that don't work move back to your own place you do not want to live with someone who thinks they are perfect.

Answer 7

moving in with someone is big adjustment.if all these little things bother him now"DON'T i repeat "DON'T contemplate getting married because it'll only get worse especially if he refuses to aknowledge his own faults.you don't want to spend the next few yrs.going tit for tat when it come to who has the worse faults you'll wake up one morning a wonder why in the hell you wasted so much of your life in a dead end relationship.

Answer 8

Move out on your own, keep dating him and you will find that you get along much better. Wait for a commitment of marriage before living with a dude.

Answer 9

You guys might want to live apart again maybe he feels that he is the the man of the house so he has to always be right. Talk to him about the situation it might help.

Answer 10

Point out his faults. If he wants to dish it out then he needs to be man enough to take it.

Answer 11

Why are you apologizing for being you?
You are a separate individual, complete with unique and valuable thoughts and feelings worthy of dignity! Be strong!