I really love my father more than my mother, byt I don't hate her. She always falls for my brother's sweet and sensitive acts, but I'm nicer than him. Plus my dad loves me more than my brother. Should I tell how I feel about this to my parents? Children should be treated equally.
2007-04-07 16:44:40 · 8 answers · asked by The Mermaid 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
I have three sons and one daughter. My daughter was spoiled rotten (she was the baby), and she was closer to her dad than me; although we also have a fantastic relationship. My boys and I have very close relationships and they are very protective of their ol' mom.
What you are experiencing is right a rain. It is how most families bond. Your dad loves you differently than your brother. When you and your brother get older, don't be surprised to see the relationships change. Your mom and you will become closer as will your brother and dad. It's weird, but it's the way of the world!
If you feel a need to share this with your folks, then do. They will only love you more for your concerns. You have a sweet spirit kiddo! Have a wonderful tomorrow! Annie
2007-04-07 17:11:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should stop comparing everyone ie. your brothers and mothers relationship.maybe it just so happens you and your father relate better and the same with bro and mom.I have 4 children and i have a different relationship with each,one is not loved more than the other .I would bet that your dad does not love you more (sorry),and would u really want this to be the case?yes children should all be loved the same but for some reason u do not think this should apply to u?shouldnt parents also be treated equally? so the answer is no do not say anything ,but rather u should stop comparing and love all your family and allow everyone to be individuals and be treated as such.good luck.
2007-04-08 00:01:05 · answer #2 · answered by rosalind 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should study Freud. He was a whacko psychiatrist who had some really different idea's about fathers relationships with their daughters and mothers relationship with their sons. It sounds crazy, but his idea's fit. Read up on the Oedipus and Electra complex's. Its just a theory, but it is very logical if you can think outside the box so to speak.
I adored my dad. I did not like my mother so much all of the time. Dad was my best friend and I would have done anything for him. I have 4 sisters and 2 brothers. The boys were closer to our mother.
2007-04-08 00:02:00 · answer #3 · answered by happydawg 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats how i was with my dad he was my favorite parent, I think its the whole "i'm not going to get into your business and let you be" thing lol
but than my dad had a heart attack 2 months ago and died.
he's still my favorite parent though.
2007-04-08 01:57:47 · answer #4 · answered by Kelly 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's almost like you're in an unannounced competition with your mom, females are just naturally like that, I was like that with my mom, she just annoyed me. I totally got along better with my dad, he was just more mellow, level headed, etc. You could mention it to your parents, but they ALWAYS dismiss things like this as nothing, "oh you're just imagining things, it's not like that" my mom would say!
whatever happens, good luck to you!
2007-04-08 00:04:37 · answer #5 · answered by Quest135 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
God knows that I love my mom, but I am so a daddy's little girl, and I am 20 I love my papa.
2007-04-07 23:52:57 · answer #6 · answered by jozlilnanjos 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOL not me i hate my dad
2007-04-08 01:44:43 · answer #7 · answered by lady26 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's alway's been....daddy's girl.....
2007-04-07 23:48:07 · answer #8 · answered by James k 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋