Family & Relationships - 7 April 2007

2007-04-07 02:23:31 · 13 answers · asked by b 1 in Singles & Dating

i am (unhappily) married and in love with a guy i work with who has a girlfriend. He has told me that he is very sexually attracted to me, as i am to him. He has a girlfriend that he sees and talks to every once in awhile. He tells everyone that he is unhappy in his relationship, but doesn't want to be without her (they've been together for 10yrs), but don't live together. he has said he is afraid to have a long term commitment type relationship because of his divorce and of this relationship with his girlfriend. i'm not sure how to handle this...i want a relationship with him, but he doesn't....for now. how to i handle this situation??? we are really interested in each other...we talk everyday at work, and at nite online. Only serious answers please.

2007-04-07 02:23:03 · 12 answers · asked by Verge 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i'm in love with a guy and he says he loves me back but everytime we get together he bails out n hurts me. He cheated on me but i still took him back. he also said he quit drinking and smoking but turns out he didn't. but thats not the half of it two of my really good friends dated him and told me not to go out with him n to cut off any form of communication with him. i was told not to forgive him by my friends should i listen to them for once lol???

2007-04-07 02:18:42 · 16 answers · asked by chloe w 1 in Singles & Dating

Do you just pay child support, or also play some important role in childs life, how do u manage two lifes, dont u feel like going back to hr, what about kid how do u deal with that and what about ur current gf and all that.

Please advice me how to deal with such a situation, how painful it is to break up with ur pregnant but cheater gf.

2007-04-07 02:17:07 · 4 answers · asked by Krish d 1 in Marriage & Divorce

he says he does.
we're engaged but i am soooo insecure due to v bad past relationships.
i find it so hard to belive that anyone could love me as i really don't love myself. help?

2007-04-07 02:09:49 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok, I went out with this one boy and then this other boy "Jack" broke us up, and then Jack asked me out and i said yes, well i really didn't like him so we broke up 3 days later, but he still likes me. He writes me notes like "I want to get back together" and "I still love you". So i asked him why he likes me so much and he said that he didn't know, that he just does. How do I tell him that it's really over, but that i want to stay friends. HE BROKE ME AND MY REAL LOVER UP SO HE COULD GO OUT WITH ME. HE TOLD MY BFF THAT. Excuses will work too. Even lame ones.

2007-04-07 02:07:45 · 11 answers · asked by nikki18218 1 in Singles & Dating

My BF and I would have/have been together for a year at the end of this month. In Dec. his ex. gave birth to a duaghter and said it was his. The paternity results came back about a week ago and she IS his.

His ex was so in love with him, and ironically said she didnt know sh was preg. until she gave birth ( a month early, she was due in jan 07).

This has put a tremendous strain on our realationshiop. Last night he was babysitting his daughter for the first time alone last night. I was there for about 15 min then left. I called him up and said that being with him hurt me more, so i'd rather be withouth.

I love him SO MUCh and he does the same. But this is SO hard for me to deal with this. The ex. has a new BF and seems to be living the life while our relati. is pretty much in the hole.

I also had an abortion in Oct. 06 and every since that day ive had a hard time dealing with it. And then this new baby comes and it even more difficutlt.

Please SERIOUS REPSONSES

2007-04-07 02:02:37 · 10 answers · asked by SouthCackalacky 1 in Marriage & Divorce

just something i was thinking about.........whilst on porn

2007-04-07 01:58:50 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-04-07 01:58:20 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

ok here is the funny thing, i was typing out other questions and i received a call from my ex, she was asking how was i and stuff, no i dont have feelings for her anymore, we talk like brothers and sisters, sounds grouse huh ? well that is how we talk no hushy mushy stuffs, and i ussually ask her how is life and all ,, is it wrong ? i used to feel wrong last time maybe because i had some feelings or sexual thingy but not anymore, i dont have anything in my heart,, what is your opinion ?

2007-04-07 01:52:53 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-04-07 01:46:06 · 22 answers · asked by wiser 1 3 in Singles & Dating

I heard lots of men hate women with red hair and as you can see from my avator I have red hair! Just wondered what hair colour men prefer and why?

2007-04-07 01:45:50 · 49 answers · asked by Leah 2 in Singles & Dating

Especially to the husbands out there. Do you dare to have office flings? Is it possible? What happens afther the short stint? Do you know what I mean?
At least once right? What happens after?Guilt?

2007-04-07 01:44:03 · 13 answers · asked by Amy R 1 in Marriage & Divorce

anyone know greg cook he would be roughly 34 years old and lived in geelong anyone know him or his brother Rod Cook please let me know and get a msg to them for me

2007-04-07 01:29:57 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

My cousin and I grew up together. The thing is I don't want her to be in my wedding, because of the way she acts. She is so disrespectful. She doesn't have any manners. The reason I don't want her in my wedding is that I think she will mess it up. Plus she doesn't want to pay for her attire. Am I wrong for not wanting her in my wedding even though we grew up together? (I really don't want her at the ceremony)
Am I wrong or just being mean?

2007-04-07 01:06:53 · 13 answers · asked by Lady L 2 in Weddings

Rhetorical question really.
But it is difficult to combine the two.

2007-04-07 00:39:17 · 4 answers · asked by DAVE 6 in Other - Family & Relationships