ok here is the funny thing, i was typing out other questions and i received a call from my ex, she was asking how was i and stuff, no i dont have feelings for her anymore, we talk like brothers and sisters, sounds grouse huh ? well that is how we talk no hushy mushy stuffs, and i ussually ask her how is life and all ,, is it wrong ? i used to feel wrong last time maybe because i had some feelings or sexual thingy but not anymore, i dont have anything in my heart,, what is your opinion ?
2007-04-07 01:52:53 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
It's not wrong, don't beat yourself up. All your doing is talking right? And it's a friendly conversation right? As long as it's nothing sexual then everything is fine. You two are just friends.
2007-04-07 02:01:07 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sure her husband wouldn't like it, so yes it would be wrong.
If you two had something important to talk about then no, but just to chit chat then yes. It seems that you still have some small feelings for her, even if they are just sexual. That probably goes for her too since the two of you are still friends. Sex between ex spouses is very common, and not just after the divorce. Stay away from her unless you want to wreck her marriage.
2007-04-07 02:01:08 · answer #2 · answered by Just a friend. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK you said it all now what do you want us all to do spank your hands and take you to someone that will wash your brain of all those bad thoughts you might have had? lol So it was a one time thing was your or gf mad about it did you not tell her or is this all guilt for even just having a conversation with her don't let this other women keep ringing in your ear if it bothers you that much. And my opinion... don't let this go too far. lol
2007-04-07 02:02:35 · answer #3 · answered by bustnloose_2000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, there's nothing wrong with just talking with your ex, especially if you only talk about life and how the two of you are doing. I don't know about "talking like brothers and sisters", but it sounds like the two of you definitely talk as *friends*, and being friends with someone is hardly a bad thing, especially if it stays as "just friends and nothing more".
2007-04-07 02:03:14 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
nothings wrong with keeping in touch with an ex as long as no (more) strings attached. same things happening to me now.its been 5 years & he just pops up to say hello, infact, still says "miss you/love yous'" but once you truly gotten over the feelings-no worries of ever gettin hitch again (with him).
i don't adhere to the old saying that "friends can be lovers but not the other way around" cuz mine is a full proof that as long as you separated with mutual consents & no hard feelings, (former) lovers can still be (even best) friends.
wouldn't be nice to see all of us who have choosen to seek or found new happiness stay friends with the exe's? afterall, we did love them at one time.
2007-04-07 02:05:34 · answer #5 · answered by jables 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing wrong if it is just friendly and the husband does not care. Hell, It is actually a good thing. I e-mail a few of my exes who are all remarried.
2007-04-07 01:58:47 · answer #6 · answered by orcarius 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's fine as long as the lines are very clear and your new wife is OK with it. Don't assume that your wife is fine with it just because she hasn't said anything. Ask her if it bothers her, if it does then stop, if it doesn't then it's no problem.
2007-04-07 02:03:55 · answer #7 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it is fine to talk with them as long as neither of you has a partner that would be made jealous or uncomfortable. And also as long as neither of you feels tempted to do more than talk. Other than that, I don't see a problem.
2007-04-07 01:57:15 · answer #8 · answered by Sharon M 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no its not wrong. shes just another human being so why would it be wrong? you can talk to her if you want as long as it doesnt go into something romantic or sexual. shes just a friend.
2007-04-07 01:58:10 · answer #9 · answered by shadyfridge4 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good you are over her!And good that you and your ex are maintaining a trouble free relationship.Keep it that way all long.
2007-04-07 01:57:41 · answer #10 · answered by cool_honeybabe 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋