Family & Relationships - 7 April 2007

I ran into an old friend about a month ago. We hadn't seen eachother is about 12 years. We have been talking everyday on the phone since we ran into eachother. Our conversations these past few days have been about sex and we have been really honest about what we like and want. We talked about how we could be good in bed together and now he wants to try it. Is sex all that he is after?? (by the way he lives about 500 miles away)

2007-04-07 07:01:20 · 21 answers · asked by asking away 3 in Singles & Dating

would you let your husband go out all night with his friends and not come home untill the next morning if you were pregnant? if you wouldnt let him but he did anyway what would you do?

2007-04-07 06:57:45 · 19 answers · asked by Gina B 2 in Marriage & Divorce

if he loves me, why is he still going on a holiday with his gf? if he loves me, why do i feel neglected when he's back in town? i only feel *wanted* when he's far away from home and when he writes me letters.... if he does not love me, why does he still flirt with me? what should i do?

2007-04-07 06:56:41 · 19 answers · asked by counterculturalist 3 in Singles & Dating

so okey, i have bought this super sexy french maid outfit i'm gonna suprise my husband with. I've never been a person to into that kinda stuff but i figured i'll give it a try. I just dunno how to approach him in it, without feeling ridiclous. Any ideas? Should i just tell him to go sit on the bed? lol, i dunno. i'm lost..

Guys, what would you like for me to do?

2007-04-07 06:53:41 · 7 answers · asked by Mizz_couture 1 in Singles & Dating

i was away on vacation from work , i came back and this guy who sometimes flirts with me and sometimes is kind of annoying/rude said" i thought you got hit by a bus" and he tends to joke like that, i replied , "i was in myrtle beach, " then he said "some wishful thinking" to the cook that was standing by him i asked him what he ment by that and he didn't reply..so do you have any guesses on what he ment? he is engaged, 25 years old and i just turned 20 -my guess is that he wanted to know why i wasn't at work for a long time,i also dont think he heard me when i asked him what he meant by that

2007-04-07 06:49:21 · 8 answers · asked by preciousisback 1 in Singles & Dating

I've been with my boyfriend for 5 years now. From day one he's always told me that he could see us getting married, and we were going to one day, and have kids the whole shabang. He knew from the very first weeks of knowing me that my dream was to get married and have kids. I have a medical condition and if I don't have kids by the time I'm 30, my chances of being able to conceive drops 70%. I'm getting ready to turn 27 (2 weeks actually). This has been weighing on my mind and finally I talked to him.He told me he never sees himself getting married. He wants to stay together and still have kids, but not get married. He says he loves me, and can't imagine life without me, but I don't understand the big hang up on marriage then. I don't want to be one of those girls that says "Marry me, or else", but I feel betrayed, and lied to. I love this man with all my heart. He is my dream man, and everything else is great except for this. Time to cut my losses, and take a gamble?

2007-04-07 06:49:05 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

He is the type that doesn't care, and can dish it out, but can't take it. And please no smart answers like I probably am, I need serious answers only.

2007-04-07 06:38:55 · 18 answers · asked by mutt 6 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-04-07 06:33:12 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i am finding all of his faults really disturbing, i really don't want to be around him all that much. we broke up before and well eveything seems to be going back like before

2007-04-07 06:30:25 · 20 answers · asked by jennula 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I let a friend of mine stay at my house last night in our guest room after a night out partying. My husband has been out of town for a long time. My friend came into my room and started to cuddle with me and then he kissed me. I started kissing him back. I stopped it before it went to far but I feel so horrible. I just do not know what to do! Do I tell my husband? Do I spare his feelings being it did not go far? Please help me! I know this is such a horrible thing to do to him. I love him with all of my heart and I really have no idea why I started kissing my friend back. I had been drinking but I do not use that as an excuse. I did stop him. What is the best thing to do?

2007-04-07 06:29:23 · 24 answers · asked by Submissive 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Cut all ties with their family. If so why and did you ever again include them in your life, any regrets?

2007-04-07 06:25:21 · 9 answers · asked by GoodGirl 3 in Marriage & Divorce

do you believe in it? also, do you think its just lust because you fall in love with that person's physical after all... you dont know the person but when you see him/her you just fall... is it really love or deep lust? i have to say from personal experience that it does exist it happened to me once... but i didnt even see her body i just looked at her in the eyes and i just fell for her.. it wasnt even because of her physical...but many say love at first sight is just love for the physical, in other words lust, what do you think? love or lust and why

2007-04-07 06:23:24 · 5 answers · asked by nickname 4 in Singles & Dating

they were watching a movie and she said the guy in the anime was hot. so my friend broke up with her. is it bad?

2007-04-07 06:14:45 · 7 answers · asked by Kilee920 1 in Friends

How should I tell my family I am moving? I am 27ish years old and have been living at home for the past 7 months since I broke up with my boyfriend. I feel like I am in a rut living here at home, and have only a part time job because I have been planning this move for a while.
My parents keep bugging me to get a full time job with health insurance and all that stuff. I've just been humoring them because I know I'll be leaving soon.
I moved out of state when I graduated from college and when I did they were upset with me and took bets on when I would come back. I know it'll be the same this time, I just dont know how to break it to them gently.
Please any suggestions?

2007-04-07 06:13:45 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

My husband recently got a high profile job in the entertainment business, and now women call him all the time looking for a job, or trying to get in good with him. When we go to a restaurant we can't even have a private meal without people coming to the table to talk. He was in charge of hiring models during one event, and now he gets barraged with offers to be the new models. I am just not sure how to handle all this attention. I get attention on my own, its not that. It just I am not used to being in the spotlight and being looked at and talked about. I am shy. I just feel like some of these women just see dollar signs when they see him. Any advice would be appreciated.

2007-04-07 06:13:04 · 11 answers · asked by casey308 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Does anyone have a fairy tale like story about how you fell in love, or even a funny story about how you fell in love? What happenned?

2007-04-07 06:11:53 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok this is what i believe; i believe love is choice. not something that just "happens" i think if the chemistry is right it helps; but love is more of a choice. anyways, i am rather straightforward when it comes to relationship; because before i even ask for a relationship i have feelings for someone. (i try to get good friend with the someone first) and after i am in a realationship for about 2 weeks to a month, my feelings really start to play in, i tell them i love them; and i get rather serious about the relationship. it seems to me that it is either friends or a serious relationship. how can i just let off? is it a good thing that i am so serious?

2007-04-07 06:06:07 · 13 answers · asked by SwordDancer 5 in Singles & Dating

i tried to defend myself about something that my husband accused me of doing. but he didn't wanna listen to me, so raise my voice up. my son was there. so he asked me to leave the house.

2007-04-07 05:57:13 · 17 answers · asked by vic 1 in Marriage & Divorce

he wanted to have sex nd i was busy talkin with my sister (she live in another country) he get pissed nd locked the door. he didnt forget to throw me a pilow nd a blanket to sleep in the living room i never been treated that way before. before we get married he used to tell u are a great artist and i will always encourage you to draw what u feel. last night he told me there is no need to show people ur drawings ( in a website) nd if u stopped drawing it would be better. he is a great guy i love him very much i know hes good BUT WHY THE HELL HE ALWAYS ARGUE WITH ME ABOUT NOTHING sometime he pisses me off cuz he acts like a kid

2007-04-07 05:54:09 · 2 answers · asked by mimi ^____^ 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I have 2 married daughters....one in another state and one only an hour and 15 minute drive from me (the youngest). She won't visit me but on Christmas as she blames me for not being a good mother. I think I did the best I could under the circumstances.....I got a card recently saying she forgives me but I dont' think anything will change....what can I do as I won't live forever.

2007-04-07 05:53:53 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

my 21 year old son drinks way to much beer, Now he is in jail for giving beer to minors, Im not working due to a accident and dont have insurance but, he needs help where can I get the help he needs without paying for it? Im not going to bail him out of jail this time ,if he would only understand how much drinking has cost him I think he would quit but he just dont seem to get it

2007-04-07 05:53:10 · 15 answers · asked by gary c just let it play out if u 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My girlfriend and I have our 4 year anniversary coming up on April 17th and I wanted it to be special, anyone has any good ideals of where I can take her or surprise her please help me! We live right by philly also if thats helps!~..

2007-04-07 05:51:05 · 9 answers · asked by gspaypal 2 in Singles & Dating

We ( my husband and I ) can't afford to fly to their homes all the time and I work so I cannot take the time off work.....But we hate spending holidays alone...Any Recommendations? What do other couples do?

2007-04-07 05:44:16 · 20 answers · asked by calming 2 in Family

I have caused problems in the marriage, but I usually am not the one to point it out. My wife has always had divorce on the tip of her tongue when trying to get through to me. I wanted to know how other people's relationships end. Do the women usually suggest the divorce? Or is it a mutual thing, or even is the man just tired and wants to get out? And if my wife wanted a divorce, is it right that I lay down and agree, or is it a test?

2007-04-07 05:44:03 · 11 answers · asked by Pachinko Machine 2 in Marriage & Divorce

instead of marriage what other ways could be special to show a commitment to each other.both 35 year old got kids with previous partners etc. looking for an unique and special gesture of love and commitment to share.

2007-04-07 05:36:54 · 18 answers · asked by purepleasureuk 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I am 27 yrs old and my hubby is 35 we have been married 6 yrs not so happily he cheated and i cheated to get back at him (but he did not know that till recently).The affair calls into question the paternity of my 2 kids (twins) .Been seperated from hubby 1.5 yrs now and not spoken in 4 months.He came home to attack me (black eye swollen face) because he found out about the affair.The man i had an affair with is an ex.bf from HS who is a mechanic from another town owns a shop.I have no clue how hubby found out because my ex.bf for his own personal reasons never told.So it would have to be one of the men that works their?I want to find out who so he gets fired!

2007-04-07 05:33:39 · 14 answers · asked by Carrie L 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i have a boyfriend and we love each other a lot, but he said that he would break up with me if we dont have sex. i dont know if ui should have sex or not. help me!

2007-04-07 05:30:31 · 25 answers · asked by Angela A 2 in Singles & Dating

To cut it short..He dumped me a few months ago, we still talked then he eventually blocked me, recently ive found a new guy and anyway he keeps like unblocking me and when i block him he goes offline..and he has been posting things on this forum like what idiots i look in some video i put on youtube with my mate he also claimed i always email him when i dont..then he came on msn and randomly goes stupid *****. He said to me earlier shall we stop messaging each other but i dont understand why he still feels the need to insult me and mentions me on the forum saying im immature when im not, he has got a grudge against me and i dont know if its because ive recently found another guy?! It upsets me that he keeps insulting me though, is he looking for attention?

2007-04-07 05:25:50 · 25 answers · asked by x_x_sweetlove_x_x 1 in Singles & Dating

I've been involved with this white man for 5 years and we have a lilttle girl together. Now he wants to settle down with me and move in together. But...
From his past behavior and issues between us, I'm unsure if I want to settle down with him. However I want my child to grow up with both parents in the household. I'm confused. I've talked with family and Friends. Some say yes and some say no. Should I set aside my feelings and do what's best for my daughter?

2007-04-07 05:23:43 · 15 answers · asked by It must be said 3 in Family

My boyfriend and I have been together for 8 months, and recently his mom looked through his cell phone and all his text messages, what we had been talking about wasn't very appropriate and she read all of it. It was something you would never want your mother to read and was totally embarassing. She got very upset and now she doesn't like me at all. I'm really sorry that we even talked about what we did and I completely regret it and I wish that she would like me again because that's very important to me but I don't know what to do!

2007-04-07 05:21:49 · 19 answers · asked by eleanor rigby 3 in Singles & Dating