i am thinking about breaking up with my boyfreind, but find myself not going through with it help?

Question

i am finding all of his faults really disturbing, i really don't want to be around him all that much. we broke up before and well eveything seems to be going back like before

Answer 1

just get away

Answer 2

Call it quits and tell him exactly why and keep occupied. Take up a course or be with friends. Avoid him to the best of your ability and dont go anywhere at night by yourself. If he's disturbing you that much, be safe. Youll be much happier without him. No one should stay with someone out of habit. Be strong, see support from friends, and just tell him what you told us. Breaking his heart now is better then stomping on it in the long run. After the post break up blues, you'll find yourself much happier and im sure this time around you'll know what to watch for. Dont think you can change a man though - if they act strange or negatively it isnt a rare occurance, they are showing you their true colours. Good luck, you have my support all the way.

Answer 3

it might be hard but all i can say is fallow ur heart if ur heart says break up wit him then do it this happened 2 me but i broke up wit him and i was really happy but i still think about him somtimes but i knew it was the right thing 2 do and that i can find a really good guy cause there r plenty of fish in the sea and i did so try doing what i did it helped me so hopfully it will do the same for u!

Answer 4

Difficult if it is his faults or are you contributing to them? could be worth sitting down & discussing what is going wrong & if you can`t come to any real solution then in the same breath you can tell him how you feel & at least he will think more of you for being open & honest rather than doing anything behind his back.

Answer 5

How can you not go through it? If there's really nothing left of you and your boyfriend to talk over or make amends, then I strongly suggest you break up with him. Unfortunately, no one can help you in that area. You have to do it on your own. Only you have the power to break the relationship. If you don't do it now, you might regret it forever. Take courage to be the one to end it.

Answer 6

girlfriend everyone has faults we are not perfect but most times those faults disturb us very much so i think if u want to break up with him seriously go ahead and tell him that it is not working like you thought it would, im sure you will go through it if you have the courage to do so.

Answer 7

Think of him as a holey blanket. He serves no function and should just be thrown away. You'll find life a lot more enjoyable without him. And just keep remembering afterward that you deserve a nice new blanket!

Answer 8

there is no easy way to do except to step up and say hey this isnt working out, you know how many relationships last a life time because people are afraid of the breakup? youd be surprised. and this is your life, if you do not want to subject yourself to being with this guy then step out while its early and you dont regret staying.

Answer 9

Write him a letter telling him that YOU are not the girl for him. It take the onus off your feelings about him without lying and might spare him the ultimate in heartbreak. Much less convincing and hollow is telling him that the problem is not you, it is not me, it is us.

Answer 10

Staying together is not doing either one of you any good and no fun any more so you really need to end it and move on to happier times with someone else when you are ready for someone.

Answer 11

You should tell him that you need some space and time for girl things and maybe we should see other people and stuff like that.But also act like you are in charge so that he wont want to keep coming back and trying to get you back. :D