To cut it short..He dumped me a few months ago, we still talked then he eventually blocked me, recently ive found a new guy and anyway he keeps like unblocking me and when i block him he goes offline..and he has been posting things on this forum like what idiots i look in some video i put on youtube with my mate he also claimed i always email him when i dont..then he came on msn and randomly goes stupid *****. He said to me earlier shall we stop messaging each other but i dont understand why he still feels the need to insult me and mentions me on the forum saying im immature when im not, he has got a grudge against me and i dont know if its because ive recently found another guy?! It upsets me that he keeps insulting me though, is he looking for attention?
2007-04-07 05:25:50 · 25 answers · asked by x_x_sweetlove_x_x 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He is playing games and is mad because you have moved on with your life and are now dating someone else. the best way to deal with him is ignore him. Let him post all the stupid things he wants don't respond to him. If you do you are falling into his game. By ignoringhim and showinghim it is not bothering you he will stop. People will see he is the one who is immature and will not pay any mind to what he is saying. I know its upsetting but if you respond to him he knows he is getting to you and will continue to do this by acting the mature one he will give up and see what a *** he is making out of himself. Do not respond to him at all including im, calls etc.
2007-04-07 05:31:09 · answer #1 · answered by bbinqueens33 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is the one that is immature you cld go about this 3 different ways you cld do to him what he is doing to you (which wld prob. just make him get worse)- you cld get your now boyfriend to say something - or the best way is just send him one last mess. telling him sorry things did not work out hope he finds someone that makes him happy just as you have and let him know he needs to move on because you have and you will never look back - leave it at that if he continues just be the bigger person he knows you are gonna respond thats why he does it as soon as you stop he will stop good luck
2007-04-07 05:43:10 · answer #2 · answered by RED 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmmmm
It would appear that the guy is a bit of a nob!
While it maybe upsetting when he say nasty things about you, he is just trying to stop you from moving on.
If i was you, I would remove all contact details (why are you blocking then unblocking him?)
Delete, remove and move on.
You should be only thinking of the guy you are with now.
Can you image what it is doing to him, your getting upset over an ex.
I wonder how old you are.
2007-04-07 05:33:14 · answer #3 · answered by DAVID B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont give the jerk any satisfaction!! Block HIM...and dont undo the block! He is an immature idiot. Dont give him the chanc to keep hurting you. You have moved on...and keep moving forward. Dont look back!! Honey, us girls are all with ya..we have all had to deal with one jerk or another of the male species. Block him!! Best wishes for ya sweetie! Dont let him hurt you..
2007-04-07 05:33:40 · answer #4 · answered by ruadisneyfan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tit for Tat would be wrong so ignore him & move on delete all his files you have & if need be change your ID on the internet.You can always rattle his cage at a later date if the messages don`t stop!!
2007-04-07 05:34:22 · answer #5 · answered by edison 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's probably really jealous of this new guy. he feels like even though you two arent together, you shouldnt be able to move on. he's being immature and if you just rise above it and be nice to him it might work. screaming your head off at him might also work. infact thats what worked when i was in this situation. so yeah, scream at him. haha. he might have some feelings left for you.
good luck!!
2007-04-07 05:39:48 · answer #6 · answered by IsThisLove? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-27 01:16:18 · answer #7 · answered by swarn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The Guys an idiot............block and delete him..........then ignore anything on forum he writes about you, if he is looking for attention, it's working!
2007-04-07 05:30:14 · answer #8 · answered by smudger79 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to move on with your life, and do not contact him any more. Yes he is jealous of you finding someone else, who cares what he says, just thank God that you do not have to deal with him any more!
2007-04-07 05:32:46 · answer #9 · answered by roseannetb@verizon.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ignore him, laugh it off - he can't help bing a total tosspot - and if he reads this I would say it to his face - you are a tosspot - grow up and get a life
2007-04-07 05:31:11 · answer #10 · answered by jamand 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋