2007-04-07 06:33:12 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
because she was very persisant and told me that she has not really made any money, plus she like my cologne(Burberry Touch) and she looked like Gweneth Paltrow and perfect silicone t.....
2007-04-07 06:38:54 · update #1
If you have to question it, something's wrong.
2007-04-07 06:37:00 · answer #1 · answered by MaknMeCrzy 2 · 4⤊ 3⤋
There's really not an absolute answer to that, I think. Personally, I don't think it is, but that is because I see nothing wrong with a man going to a strip club.
OTH, if the man's SO doesn't believe that, and lets the guy know how she feels about it and he still goes out to a strip club and gets the lap dance, then it could be seen as cheating at the most, but definitely disrespectful to the his SO in the least.
2007-04-07 06:38:48 · answer #2 · answered by littlevivi 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
What I consider cheating is when it is something you would not do if your partner was there. So when you are out on your own you should act the same way you would if your partner was there. If you wouldn't do it with your partner there with you, then it is cheating. Another way to look at it, would you like your partner doing what you are doing? Always put your self in your partners shoes and see how it would make you feel if your partner was doing what you are doing. It is that simple. So to answer your question, would you get a lap dance while your partner was there watching?
2007-04-07 06:41:00 · answer #3 · answered by Dance 4 · 5⤊ 0⤋
Not cheating , but anytime a man lets another
woman get him excited other than his wife well
in my opinion that's disrespect towards his wife,
why becasue the man could have taken control of
the situation, and if a man does not get excited
from a woman lap dancing him then he is really
not a 100percent man.
2007-04-07 14:39:59 · answer #4 · answered by RudiA 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I totally agree w/Dance's answer. That hit the nail on the head. If it's something you wouldn't do in front of your girlfriend/wife, then it is definitely cheating. How would you feel if some guy was rubbing his manhood all over her? And, she was enjoying it!!!! I bet you would be p*ssed off! Your woman deserves better than you.....I can't believe you would even think about doing this to her. How disrespectful!
2007-04-07 07:00:44 · answer #5 · answered by bamagirl 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
First of all if you are not married you are allready having relations with someone that you should not be having. In fact if you just look upon a woman to lust upon her you are commiting adultery in your heart. God's word is sure!
Second, yes getting a private dance from a stripper is adultery...it's amazing the excuses we use to indulge in sin, I'm not excluding myself: before I was saved I was a stripper and I engaged in fornication.
2007-04-09 08:45:40 · answer #6 · answered by bluemurdoch 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Haha my albanian brother, no technically it's not cheating but your wife or girlfriend is goin to say otherwise just don't tell her man and you'll be okay. Plenty of men go to the strip club.
2007-04-07 10:51:18 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If this was something that you wouldn't do in front of your wife, then it's wrong.
If you're wanting to justify your behavior and say it isn't cheating to give yourself permission to do this more often, than you are being dishonest with yourself and her.
Would you like a male stripper to rub his "male ego" all over your wife on a regular basis?
2007-04-07 06:41:47 · answer #8 · answered by Ella 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Nope. If you go to the strip club frequently then that is surely a problem (unless you and your partner have a peaceful understanding). If you do anything with the stripper like make-out, have sex, perform other sexual acts then that's cheating, but not if she's just giving you a jiggle for five bucks :-D
2007-04-07 06:36:50 · answer #9 · answered by throughthebackyards 5 · 3⤊ 2⤋
I consider it cheating, because your giving a woman that your not married to sexual attention. If your married, you shouldn't be looking at ANY other woman like that other than your wife.
I strongly consider that adultery, even having lustful thoughts about another woman other than your wife is adultery.
So yes I define that as cheating.
I know some people are going to think I'm closed minded about that, but I look at it this way, my wife satsifies me, and if there's something that's not satisfied, I deal with it. I don't give into the temptation to look at other women.
2007-04-07 06:51:36 · answer #10 · answered by Bryan M 5 · 2⤊ 4⤋
No it's not cheating, but, would you allow your wife to receive a lap dance from a man?????? If you answer no, then you are wrong for doing it!
2007-04-07 06:42:21 · answer #11 · answered by Joey D. 2 · 4⤊ 1⤋