Family & Relationships - 7 April 2007

about a year ago i met the guy of my dreams. sadly we live on opposite ends of the country. im moving this fall to be closer to him. i am also meeting his kids before i move. im worried about how they're going feel about it. i want them to know that i feel they should always come first, with me and especially their dad, that i want them to feel that they can talk to me, but i dont want them to feel pressured into talking or even really liking me right now. i dont want to be their disciplinarian, or for them to accept me as part of their family. i just want to get to know them for the wonderful kids i get the impression that they are. they have a great relationship with their dad and i dont want them to feel that im trying to come between that. this is the only time our age difference worries me. he is about ten years older than me and i am eight years older than his oldest. i dont want them to feel that i am not serious about their dad, or that im trying to take him away from them.

2007-04-07 03:48:28 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-04-07 03:47:25 · 16 answers · asked by bella-d46 3 in Marriage & Divorce

my fiance and i have been going out for two years, i love him sooo much. He's perfect, sweet, kind, loving understanding and a genius in Columbia medical school currently doing residence at 24. He is goreuous 6'9, broad sholders, tan, black hair, blue eyes, in amazing shape. One problem he is a virgin, by choice philosophical/religous reasons.I lied to him and said i was. He is Catholic, doesn't act holier than thou and very understanding. A friend of mine dated him for a while she told him that she wasn't a virgin from the start, they were together for awhile, she said he was wonderful, understanding and always a gentlemen she said he said it happens, id be lying if i said i didnt wish you were, but love you and thats what matters, she wants him back and she knows i lied. Anyway, we were dating for two months and he told me I though he was kidding and said i was. its true friends told me, and i lied more i was scared. I love him so much. this week made me feel awful

2007-04-07 03:43:07 · 8 answers · asked by blondebabe24x 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Before that we were dating and we agreed on a no sex policy until we reach a certain age. However we broke up for 5 month. After she wanted us to reconciled (which we did) but this time she was no virgin. We had sex twice (after making up) but havnt done it for almost 10 months. I tried to bring up the subject but she insist that the time will come .Is this ok?

2007-04-07 03:39:04 · 7 answers · asked by islandboy 1 in Singles & Dating

Especially during those days when sodomy was considered a grievous sin against God?

2007-04-07 03:39:01 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I mean it has become natural these days but isn't relationship building through better understanding, love and forgiving more important than just sex? Frankly, is it an act of love or just an act of lust.

Just think about it. How many times do couple seriously get down to show more concern for each other than to be more desire to have sex instead. And how successful does it lead to marriage?

2007-04-07 03:33:13 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

If so please describe in detail, perhaps even poetic detail ur experiences....on a spiritual level. Someday I WILL experience this awesome connection (mind,body spiritual connection sexually)
I really would like to know in your words what you felt..I bet it's even hard to describe that sort of heavenly bonding w/the opposite sex, yes?[if u've yet to experience like myself.....so far] It must be so beautiful.......

2007-04-07 03:28:07 · 9 answers · asked by deirdrefaith 4 in Singles & Dating

about 4 years ago i had met my hubby we had only had 1 date we werent in a serious relationship at that point we had just met and i had slept with someone else i had spent the past 3 and a half years trying to tell him but when every i try he seems to cut me off and i get side tracked VERY easily anyways we got married june 2006 recently i finally just broke down one day and blurted it out that i had slept with this guy a long time ago i hate hiding things from my hubby were always very honest with each other now he does not trust me and im not aloud to call or even see this guy (this guy has been one of my closest friends for ever we were very intoxicated ) my hubby gets very angry when i even mention this guy i do regret what i did but i wasnt even going out with my hubby then i just felt he should know what should i do i want to keep my friend and my hubby serious answers only please

2007-04-07 03:27:55 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My parents are willing to pay for my college. Great right? Problem is they want to govern exactly where I go. It has to be a christian school , and even then one that they believe is just right. My choices, according to them is Pensacola Christian College, Bob Jones, (plus afew that I never will got to). All of them are Christian schools ,and all of them are ones I don't want to go to. I suppose PCC wouldn't be too bad, but I don't think I would get the best education there. I want to major in pre-med or in a visual arts major with a concentration in commercial arts. If I choose a different college though, I won't be able to pay and my only other option would be joining the military so they could pay for college. Don't get me wrong, I love the military. GO ARMY! But I just don't think that would be best for me. Scholarships are there, but I doubt I'd get one.

2007-04-07 03:26:44 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

there was this guy that i dated for a while then he didnt return my phones calls or anything he didn't even egnoilgue me so i broke up with him this is what happend in my last realtionship what should i do now for like finding another guy?

2007-04-07 03:26:00 · 19 answers · asked by amber w 1 in Singles & Dating

She thinks Im only in it for the sex but I just want to be w/ her, I love her; Shes thinking about breaking up over it, how do I tell/show her its not all about that?

2007-04-07 03:25:55 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Do Dutch or German men like Asian women? I am staying for a short time in Amsterdam. Some Dutch men in my class talk to me and invite me out. I am not sure if they like me though. It is hard to tell. When I was in Germany, the men were less shy but I think saw me more like exotic something. It's hard to tell as I find Dutch and German men very cute but not so easy to figure out like English men. English men let you know their intentions quickly.

2007-04-07 03:24:07 · 12 answers · asked by nina 2 in Singles & Dating

~Revised Post~
After using the restroom, a man I just met follows me back to the lab (I'm on campus) and starts taking to me. He seemed a bit odd, but ,reluctantly, I start paying attention. Suddenly, out of the blue ... he starts telling me about his two kids and how his wife passed away in an car accident .... then he asked if I wanted to see something he often shared with his wife ...

… so he shows me a picture of his lower region (!!!!) on his cell phone .... then he asked some other inappropriate questions …..

He asked all these insane question after showing his private area to me!!!! OMG, my day was ruined :( Sorry, but not every girl gets turned on my disgusting gestures like that.

Yesterday, I told my advisor what happened and he was as shocked as I was. Should I report this man? Or should I Avoid him like the plague?

2007-04-07 03:23:37 · 15 answers · asked by rosie768 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-04-07 03:22:53 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-04-07 03:21:33 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I asked this a few weeks ago, in another room, and I guess it was the wrong room.
i was at the gym not too long ago, and I saw a BBW in spandex shorts. It was a great site. I could not take my eyes off her. Why don't more larger women do this?

2007-04-07 03:21:18 · 4 answers · asked by balletguy 4 in Singles & Dating

the Russian prostitute i hired for the week....she doesnt speak english & keeps noding her head &smiles when i tell her to get out.

2007-04-07 03:19:06 · 40 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Ive had two women who were 38 and 40 yrs old and man they were hot!! I call them yummy mummys!! Do you think that after my mother past over ( I was 8yrs) and having to grow up fast had any thing to do with me attracting them..Ive been told I have a old head on a young body...Im 28yrs old now...I just think older ladies do it for me, what do you reckon?

2007-04-07 03:17:48 · 6 answers · asked by Jamie79 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-04-07 03:16:31 · 8 answers · asked by emily j 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

long story kinda


i was crushing on a 15 year old and he liked me back but i havnt seen him in a week. so i was hangin out with my friend who is 12. last week me and my friend had our arms around and stuff and like flirtin playfully and what not. on thursday i was sittin real close and like leaning on him and telling him how good he smelt and hugged him b4 he left. i have been thinking about him instead of the 15 year old lately. i never thought of him as more than a friend until now. i am 14 btw. and the 12 year old ha s a girlfriend but he flirts right back and puts his arm around me and stuff.

is he to young for this kinda thing?

why am i thinkin about him like this?

is it wrong cuz he has a girlfriend?

do i like him?

2007-04-07 03:15:21 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-04-07 03:14:11 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-04-07 03:12:37 · 11 answers · asked by guinevere 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-04-07 03:11:39 · 19 answers · asked by guinevere 1 in Singles & Dating

The guy that I like, loves pirates, and we both love the japanese culture and medivial times. Are there places to go in either NY or surrounding states, that deals with these?

2007-04-07 03:10:13 · 6 answers · asked by seerakingu 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-04-07 03:09:58 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-04-07 03:09:36 · 7 answers · asked by SHAIKH PS 60 1 in Singles & Dating

If ur husband came home late at say 1am after saying he'd be home by 10pm after night out. Doesn't let you know he's stayin a bit longer. Worried u 4n him several times at 12 midnight, no reply. Ignores ur 4n calls. When you ask him he says he lost track of time. Next couple of days he still ignores you when u 4n him or text him even to just say hi.

2007-04-07 03:07:52 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-04-07 03:06:45 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

this time last year this girl and i who were good friends, and i fell for her during a trip with the school. i really liked this girl, and was so nervous at these new feelings (i mean i liked a couple girls before but not like this) and i ultimately messed up my courtship of her (real stupid of me and will never do so again) and i also told her how i felt to soon after her break up. she asked for time which i gave her but never got an answer(which i took to mena meant she didnt feel the same way and a friend later confirmed that she just didnt know how to tell me) anyhow this made our relationship very awkward for a while but since then it has gotten dramatically better and we are going to our prom togeather. this being said when were alone there is still this awkwardness between us sometimes...why is that i mean yes i still think it could have been great between us, but i also know that im not exactly the type of guy shes into, and that we may never see each other again after prom...

2007-04-07 03:04:19 · 3 answers · asked by nascarfan 2 in Singles & Dating

heres this guy in my class who keeps staring at me . he even sits behind me in class just to stare at me . initially i ignored him but later wen i couldnt take it anymore , i started giving him angry looks only to find that he continued to stare at me shamelessly .
one day i was alone at the bus stand . the whole area at that time was DESERTED ! . there wasnt even a vehicle in the road . then he arrived at the scene . it was just him & me there .
as he came closer , i became scared but did not show any signs of fear . i made eye contact only once and saw that he was giving me that dirty look again . i gathered the courage to give him one very angry look . to my surprise , i found that his expression changed--- he became a bit scared or was he sad i dunno , he simply walked away with his head down
since den , he avoids me , doesent look at me , , even though he has a lotta friends . he only stares at me wen i talk to other guys
WATS UP WID HIM ?

2007-04-07 03:04:01 · 10 answers · asked by Grateful 1 in Singles & Dating