heres this guy in my class who keeps staring at me . he even sits behind me in class just to stare at me . initially i ignored him but later wen i couldnt take it anymore , i started giving him angry looks only to find that he continued to stare at me shamelessly .
one day i was alone at the bus stand . the whole area at that time was DESERTED ! . there wasnt even a vehicle in the road . then he arrived at the scene . it was just him & me there .
as he came closer , i became scared but did not show any signs of fear . i made eye contact only once and saw that he was giving me that dirty look again . i gathered the courage to give him one very angry look . to my surprise , i found that his expression changed--- he became a bit scared or was he sad i dunno , he simply walked away with his head down
since den , he avoids me , doesent look at me , , even though he has a lotta friends . he only stares at me wen i talk to other guys
WATS UP WID HIM ?
2007-04-07 03:04:01 · 10 answers · asked by Grateful 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You hurt that guys feeling and you know it. Maybe that's how he got his last girlfriend, staring her to death. The guy just seems weird or unwilling to make a certain first move? You sound relieved that the starring stopped though.
2007-04-07 03:17:01 · answer #1 · answered by djlilrob2003 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he has a crush on you and doesn't know how to let you know. Do you know anything about him other than the staring? Is he someone that might turn out to be a friend if you get to know him? He only stares at you when you talk to other guys but at the bus stop when no one else was around, he stared at you. When you gave him an angry look his expression changed and he walked away. Now he avoids you.
It may be that he spent a lot of time gathering his courage to talk to you and seeing you alone felt it may be a good opportunity to get to know you. Your angry look told him he didn't have a chance. If you believe that was what happened and if you feel it's appropriate, the next time you see him, maybe approach him and let him know he makes you feel uncomfortable with his staring. Give him an opportunity to explain himself. You never know, you may find a new friend.
2007-04-07 10:19:07 · answer #2 · answered by innerradiancecoaching 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he likes you but doesn't know how to tell you or act. But when you did what you did at the bus stop and he left walking with his head down --- then obviously you hurt his feelings.
Be careful how you treat others sweety. Its called: what goes around - comes back around. Listen to Justin honey - he knows what he's talking about.
You might end up liking someone and wouldn't know how to act or approach him. And he might end up hurting your feelings - just like you did that other guy.
You could always just talk to that guy and tell him in a nice way that your not interested. But at least you've spoken to him. Good luck to you.
2007-04-07 10:10:13 · answer #3 · answered by apache_lizz 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
im not quite sure lol. sounds very wierd though. ive just had the image of icecube in are we there yet doing that look he does to scare people off. lol. id just make sure that you arnt alone with him he sounds quite disturbed. good luck with it though.
2007-04-07 10:10:31 · answer #4 · answered by nicolae 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
although he has a weird way of showing it he likes u...........wen u acted lik dat face to face he lost all hope of u evr liking him bac.......now he avoids u becuz he doesnt want to be reminded of that.....try being nice to him like a friend......and although he may like u again u can easily disagree witout hurting his fellings....good luck!
2007-04-07 10:12:09 · answer #5 · answered by an unknown friend 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A happy ending! Is in't it?? now, stop bothering.
2007-04-07 10:08:05 · answer #6 · answered by sreejaya 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's got that you want him to leave you alone. that's what he's doing. simple as. maybe he's not happy about it, but he's doing what he thinks you want him to do. and what i thought you wanted him to do... what's the problem?
2007-04-07 10:14:38 · answer #7 · answered by smethansmee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You scared him badly :) He definitely likes you...
2007-04-07 10:09:43 · answer #8 · answered by vlktt 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he's a wierdo
2007-04-07 10:08:16 · answer #9 · answered by luckford2004 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he likes you and maybe you seem unapproachable
2007-04-07 10:09:38 · answer #10 · answered by panda 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋