Family & Relationships - 7 April 2007

2007-04-07 12:36:16 · 15 answers · asked by Brian E 1 in Singles & Dating

anyone care to share?

2007-04-07 12:28:48 · 21 answers · asked by chyeahbasketball<3 2 in Singles & Dating

ok, i have been with this guy for 4 years.
Recently, we have been having problems for the past month and it's gotten so bad that we broke up cuz of some hurtful things that have been said.
He's said that right now, with everything in his life, he just can't deal with having problems with me.
He's scared to get back w/ me b/c he doesn't want to get hurt anymore and his "what if it happen's again in the future?"
Now he just wants to be friends. Half of him wants to stay, the other half wants to leave.
We are friends with feelings, he still loves me, and says that as friends, maybe in the future, maybe we can work it out.
I dont know how to deal with this, a part of me is holding onto him. I dont know how to be friends w/ someone that i have feelings for. But he made it clear that just b/c he chose to walk away, it doesn't mean that it's forever. He still wants to hang out, be there for each other like before minus g/f b/f status.
I'm having so much trouble dealing. pls help.

2007-04-07 12:27:46 · 7 answers · asked by appleflo21 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-04-07 12:26:36 · 6 answers · asked by Ashley C 2 in Friends

my sister has six kids she is always working (she is a single mom) i have four kids maried and have 3 jobs ! she makes me and i mean makes me because she is older watch her kids and clean her house she literly puts a guilt trip on me because she has not a husband! i dont know what she is crying about having a husband is not a bed of rosses! anyways what can i do or say to make her not make me feel like i owe her something because i dont!! i have 6 sisters and i am the baby and they all put guilt trips on me to make me do stuff that i dont want to do!! any advice is greatly appreciated thank you :) and i dont care if you dont like the fact that i didnt use spell check !!!!

2007-04-07 12:24:07 · 31 answers · asked by notyochic 6 in Marriage & Divorce

Theres this boy in ma school, in my year, and we have a very attractive head of year, french, very hot. And this boy is really confident, and once at a trip he grabbed a big cylinder like cusion and pretended that it was his penis, putting down that area and holding it, she said "oi, give me that, you wish it was that big" he said "you'll find out someday" she said "i know i will, but you'll be long gone" (we're leaving sxchool in a few weeks), he says "i'll come looking for you", she says "fine". Does this mean anything?

2007-04-07 12:23:31 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

im going to texas this summer with my dad..i can get it done there..but should i??

2007-04-07 12:23:25 · 15 answers · asked by K-Rad 2 in Family

any make out tips;)

2007-04-07 12:22:09 · 3 answers · asked by Marcy N 1 in Singles & Dating

I've moved out of state from Louisiana to Maryland and my family is trying to make plans for me to go back and live there. I don't want to hurt feelings or step on toes or make anyone feel UNWANTED! I just don't want the negative vibes left over since the hurricane (they want me to move on the north shore, which isn't far enough to me). I love seeing the snow and feeling the cool air and no more 8-10 months of summer. They don't want to accept these facts and twist it into something personal.

Is there more that I can add? It ISN'T personal! I just like it more away from the south. I'm happier overall living north than in the south!

2007-04-07 12:21:18 · 13 answers · asked by ? 2 in Family

I have a 21 year old sister who is highly addicted to drugs and alcohol to the point that she no longer lives a normal life. She just exists for drugs and drinks. My family is torn about the situation and can not seem to find DECENT, low cost or free rehab programs? Believe me, I have called Crisis Hotlines and checked the internet. All of the free/low cost places also house ex cons, mental disorder patients and the homeless. I feel like I am helpless to provide her with any resources. She claims she wants help, but I don't know how to help her. To cope, I avoid her phone calls (she calls drunk and crying, which stresses me out). I am at my wit's end. Any advice or word's of encouragement?

2007-04-07 12:20:49 · 7 answers · asked by TwinkaTee 6 in Family

GUYS PLEASE HELP ME OUT- How Can I Get My Ex Boyfriend (Who Im Going Back Out With Soon) To Be Totally Clingy (WHEN I SAY CLINGY I MEAN CALL ME ALOT AND WANT TO HOLD ME ALL THE TIME AND WANT TO SPEND ALOT OF TIME WITH ME) - I'm 10 Pounds Overweight (Which Im Going On A Strict Diet To Lose) And I'm Trying Different Styles On My Hair- PLEASE POST BACK GUYS- THANK YOU- AND HAVE A NICE DAY GUYS:)
IM 27 AND HES 23

2007-04-07 12:18:52 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I was just wondering. We hear about so many famous woman marrying much younger men than themselves, some 20 years younger and it always raises such outrage or even curiosity. Hmmm, so if I fell for a lady who was lets say 11 years older than me, would that be so bad? I am in my late 30's and lets say for example she turns 50. Is that considdered "EWWWW!" Or "weird"? I know it very much would not be accepted if lets say I was 40 and married an 18 year old woman. Society would crucify me over it. But what about two people middle aged but yet much younger and one much older? Its not like a crime was committed or anything? Hmmm, Its so weird because if I were 50 and she was 38 then it'd be accepted but OH ho ho, I am the younger one and the tables have turned. Hmmm, So is this sooo risky or contriversial?

2007-04-07 12:17:51 · 35 answers · asked by John S 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-04-07 12:16:40 · 14 answers · asked by alivia s 1 in Singles & Dating

I HATE MY MOM!!! She is an annoying b**** sometimes. But I'm a total mommys girl she gets me everything I want and when I'm not with her for longer then 4 days i cry really bad!!! What should i do??

2007-04-07 12:14:13 · 50 answers · asked by Ashley C 2 in Friends

Is this normal and are there girls out there who are the same.

2007-04-07 12:11:00 · 11 answers · asked by silk101 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Is it after living together for 6 months is considered as common in law marriage correct?

2007-04-07 12:09:29 · 2 answers · asked by Shellie ann 1 in Marriage & Divorce

he wants to have sex but i don't he says common i thought you love me. so basically he think just be cuz were going out mean i have to give it to him. he basically puts his hands unders my shirt. im not fond of his mom leaving us alone she dose it all the time then he want to get freaky with me. Now should'nt parent stay with there son / daughter everytime he she has a boy girl friend over? he want s to kiss in front of his mom i don't like that.he tickle my inner thigh. Im not trying to be rude but i do want to set up some ground rules. everytime he want to do something he never has money today i had to pay for his *** i wonder why he never has money? Can someone plse tell me what wrong?

2007-04-07 12:06:00 · 1 answers · asked by k m 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-04-07 12:05:56 · 22 answers · asked by Keesha E 1 in Marriage & Divorce

A friend told me that she used three really long sub sandwhiches and cut them up for her reception. Is this too cheap of an idea? We are having a small wedding/reception and a big dance. My fiance and I both love subs, as do our families. Just wondering if this is "too cheap." We'd have three different sub types. Thanks

2007-04-07 12:05:39 · 22 answers · asked by RoniLea 2 in Weddings

Briefs were too snug, didn't like cotton boxers. Took him to pick out his own body fitting ones-complete with aliens and spaceships. He's about 8 and his younger brother is the same.

2007-04-07 11:57:14 · 5 answers · asked by kriend 7 in Other - Family & Relationships

companionship.. Is there something wrong with the idea of getting married again and perhaps even having a child (I don't have any) Someone please explain to me why that is such a terrible thing. Don't people enjoy being in relationships? I enjoy having a best friend that is also my companion, my partner, someone to come home to, etc. Why do people run away at the first sign of commitment. I'm not asking for marriage on the first date or anything but why are people afraid of working towards that? Please don't make fun of me. I just enjoy companionship and don't want to spend the rest of my live being alone. Serious answers really appreciated. Thank you so much!

2007-04-07 11:54:10 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-04-07 11:48:14 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-04-07 11:27:10 · 3 answers · asked by daisy 1 in Friends

he is 14 yo and i have been his mom since he was 2yo. i love him alot but im starting to NOT like him very much. he is a smart mouth galore,half a--es everything, sloppy and wants all the best but dont take care of anything nor does he appreciate a thing.... im at my witts end. i get tired of fighting with him and telling him the same thing over and over.i my self never had children but i,ve thought about leaving numerous times just because he,s there. however, i adore my husband. we,ve known each other since we were 18yo. we talk about the family problems and i would NEVER say ( i dont want the kid here) but i am miserable!!!!! HELP!!!

2007-04-07 11:24:48 · 26 answers · asked by Tracy 2 in Marriage & Divorce

She claims she doesn't "know" me and wants to "talk with me" I say she should trust the kids father's judgment - Why would he let them be around someone that would hurt them?
I've told her NO, I will not grant her an interview and she should trust their Dad. Anybody got any suggestions?

2007-04-07 11:20:40 · 18 answers · asked by Kaybee 4 in Marriage & Divorce

I looked through is phone the other night and found a number in it and asked him what it was. And he said" I dont know" so i called it and it was his ex. He said that they had only talked that once just to catch up. and that he lied to me because he was afraid of how I would react. I know he loves me and wouldnt cheat on me, and i know they are just friends. But i dont want him talking to her at all. Am I being dramaic here or what?? I just believe when you get married the past is the past and leave it alone.

2007-04-07 11:19:57 · 12 answers · asked by Paralegal1982 3 in Marriage & Divorce

iv bin wiv this boy 4 2 years & iv just had his baby, since having her i feel like im goin crazy. i kno he cheatd in the past but we werent actually going out then but i still think about the way he treatd me & nd cud he hav really changed. iv always felt outsider 2 becoz him & his frends speak anotha language & neva include me in conversations so they cud b tlkin about grls & i wudnt kno. to the point neway i got so stressd about it the otha day i lookd onhis fone & found loads of messages frm anotha grl, i askd him he sed it was his frend using his fone, but there were sum frm wen he was at wrk & his frend wasnt on that shift. im so not sure wat 2 do or feel, im gettin 2 the point now where im walkin down the street 'thinkin is that her'. i hav postnatal depression neway which doesnt make it betta but im so hurt by the fact that iv jus had his baby nd he cud b cheating. please help!!

2007-04-07 11:16:27 · 33 answers · asked by honeyxx 1 in Singles & Dating

Well my bio dad has not been in my life since i was 3. About three years ago (im 16 now) my mom married the best guy literally in the whole world. But they just got divorced. I love my step dad to death and he has totally been there for me. Its really hard to live w/ my mom because she has anger issues and has been diaganosed w/ bi polar dissorder. Yet she refuses to take any type of medication.
Now my mom wants to move and take me away from everyone i love, including my step dad. which is completely unbearable for me. Do you know if there is anyway i colud live w/ him? like dont you get to choose when you become a certant age.?
And technically i dont think my mom totally qualifies as a "fit" parent, she wont work, and mentally has abused me since i was little, like i would as for somthing in the store and she would threatin to put me up for adoption. This kinda thing is still going on. Is there anyway i can live w/ my step dad?

2007-04-07 11:16:25 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

here is the situation, I have a bad head cold and don't feel that great, my mom is expecting me to come to her house tommorow for easter dinner, I don't really want to go but I know if I don't my mom will never let me forget it and I don't want her mad at me, if you were in this situation what would you do, stay home where you feel better being and have your mom mad at you or go and feel miserable but make your mom happy?

My mom is going to be 76 next month and has a way of making you feel like every visit could be the last.

2007-04-07 10:58:24 · 11 answers · asked by pumpkin2 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-04-07 10:58:21 · 18 answers · asked by bossy 2 in Weddings