2007-04-07 12:05:56 · 22 answers · asked by Keesha E 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Are you communicating?
What have you accomplished in that time?
Have you any real goals for marriage?
Are you even trying?
Do you see a future with spouse?
If any or all those are not being done I would say it's 50/50, because no effort was made to begin with except getting separated!
If all those things were tried you know you answer and would not post it here.
Sorry for the truth!
Good LUCK TO YOU!
2007-04-07 12:14:54 · answer #1 · answered by Free-Lance 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
According to whats going on. You should have never let it go on for so long you should think of what you want and go for it. If the other person in the relationship is wanting to try again then try your hand at some marriage counseling it just might work.
Marriages are not be abandoned so easily you have to always keep trying otherwise you might just lose out. Work on your relationship and see what would happen.
2007-04-07 14:23:49 · answer #2 · answered by *Pretty In Pink* 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally I think your marriage was over before the separation...Why....because when things started to get bad you did not go to marriage counseling to seek help and the statistics of couples getting back together after separation is not good
2007-04-07 12:17:31 · answer #3 · answered by miester44 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not necessarily, We were separated for almost 2 years, Kept trying, are back together, bought another house, have gotten through a lot of stuff, still have a lot of stuff to work on, I say we make it. Never say never.
2007-04-07 12:35:17 · answer #4 · answered by The Central Scrutinizer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well are you seeing other people? If so it is over and you need to get a divorce.
Or if the 2 of you are having sex and seeing only each other all you need is a therapist.
2007-04-07 12:21:46 · answer #5 · answered by jaa9636 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on what the seperation was from have you had any contact since the separation? Your question was very vague I need back ground and details .
2007-04-07 12:11:06 · answer #6 · answered by Friday 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's over when both of you decide it's over. Are you trying to work it out or just living your separate lives. If it is separate lives with no attempt to reconcile, I would say it is over.
2007-04-07 12:31:10 · answer #7 · answered by eharrah1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it will depend if the spouse has distanced their self from u, if they have it usually is over with. if they are not calling and showing some kind of interest it usually meas they have interest in something else.
2007-04-07 12:12:09 · answer #8 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You'd have to ask the spouse, but it's looking that way.
2007-04-07 12:31:10 · answer #9 · answered by Vicki B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not necessary,maybe the two of you just needed time&space away from one another.It's over when one of you file for divorce&the papers get signed.
2007-04-07 15:00:12 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋