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he wants to have sex but i don't he says common i thought you love me. so basically he think just be cuz were going out mean i have to give it to him. he basically puts his hands unders my shirt. im not fond of his mom leaving us alone she dose it all the time then he want to get freaky with me. Now should'nt parent stay with there son / daughter everytime he she has a boy girl friend over? he want s to kiss in front of his mom i don't like that.he tickle my inner thigh. Im not trying to be rude but i do want to set up some ground rules. everytime he want to do something he never has money today i had to pay for his *** i wonder why he never has money? Can someone plse tell me what wrong?

2007-04-07 12:06:00 · 1 answers · asked by k m 1 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

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What is wrong boils down to three words: LACK OF RESPECT.

If your boyfriend respected you, he would respect your feelings, your wishes, your desires, your comfort zone and, most importantly, you! Do you think that he would stay with you if he knew that there would be no chance of getting any sex from you until you were married? If not, he does not respect you.

I would recommend that you have a talk with him and let him know your feelings. Tell him your truthful feelings about him and tell him what you are willing to give to the relationship. Also make it clear what you are not willing to give in this relationship. If he really loves you and respects you, he will honor your feelings. If he is more interested in sex, he will give you a hard time and possibly leave you. If that happens, he never really loved you - he was looking for sex.

It is a good idea to set your ground rules. Tell him in a respectful and caring way so he is not put on the defensive and let him know what you like and what you don't like. Also tell him that if he does things to you that you do not want (I.E.Putting his hands under your shirt) you view it as a lack of respect for you.

I wish you both all the best.

2007-04-07 18:33:20 · answer #1 · answered by mgctouch 7 · 0 0

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