Especially to the husbands out there. Do you dare to have office flings? Is it possible? What happens afther the short stint? Do you know what I mean?
At least once right? What happens after?Guilt?
2007-04-07 01:44:03 · 13 answers · asked by Amy R 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I've seen it happen...it's not hard to pick up when two of your co-workers are having one.
They both work at the same place, they talk in a different manner towards each other. Their actions speak louder than words.
I worked at this place once and they both and good jobs. I knew they were doing each other...both married with kids. He came to me one time (he was a friend and we went drinking one night) and admitted he was having a affair with her.
I told him he was stupid and I already knew. A few days later they had a argument in the break room...I walked in on it.
Their performance at work fell because they wouldn't work together. His wife found out about it and they are now divorced. She was brought into the divorce and as far as I know, she is divorced now.
So, the moral of this is that a office fling is just stupid! You're going to get caught and then you will pay for it the rest of your life. You got married for a reason because that is someone you want to spend your life with. You took a vow.
2007-04-07 02:07:27 · answer #1 · answered by Magicman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is always possible, just as the same possibilities as being able to have a fling anywhere else. WOULD I DARE.....NO WAY UNDER THE SKY ABOVE WOULD I DREAM OF IT. I have a very loving girlfriend that is very supportive of me. Have I witnessed what happens after, 2 of my fellow employees have done it with co-workers. With the 1st one, the lady got irritated and mad, told the wife, and he got divorced and taken to the cleaners. On the second one, it was a short lived fling, and then they were very uneasy around each other after it had ended; she ended up quiting about 4 weeks after it ended.
As for everyone else, myself included, it made it a very different as far as work goes and how I get along with those two. I have found myself second guessing them on the side, and wondering IF I could ever really trust them on business matters when they cannot even be faithful and straight in their own personal life. Don't get me wrong, what one does in their personal life is fine by me, BUT you don't mix work and pleasure--ever.
2007-04-07 08:53:23 · answer #2 · answered by lorencehill 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I always had a policy that I did NOT crap where I ate. MY source of incoming could be wiped out, so it was not worth it. Neither was any sexual urges which were not love and could threaten my marriage. However, my ex wife felt the opposite and that is why we are divorced, and I must say, I have not been happier far from her. and her various abuses.
Many do not feel guilt according to several pals. They just say when opportunity knocks, you grab it. I feel they are stuck in low morals, and if their wives found out, their marriages would end.
2007-04-07 08:49:50 · answer #3 · answered by Legandivori 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband says to tell you that he doesn't even have an office to have a fling in. Not many worth flinging with in construction. He doesn't fling that way.
2007-04-07 08:48:19 · answer #4 · answered by zil28ennov 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask yourself "how would I feel if she did this", do you want her to possibly find out and feel this way. Remember something of this magnatude would not be forgotten by her. And every emotion she has for you would then be filtered through that feeling. We're men, which means we like to roll the dice. Just think about worse possible scenario, and is it ok w/ you.? If so roll those dice.
2007-04-07 12:38:28 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh hell no! but to be totally honest i cheated on her once and got caught! i vowed to her and myself never to make this mistake again, that was 15 years ago.yes you want to talk about guilt, i've never felt so bad in my entire life!the old saying once a cheater always a cheater not true! at least not with me!
2007-04-07 08:48:58 · answer #6 · answered by gands4ever 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
not a good idea....
unless you plan on leaving the company.
work is work...yes..you can meet someone in the workplace..
but if you are just looking for an affair..keep it out of the office.
2007-04-07 09:04:13 · answer #7 · answered by manhattanmaryanne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Office flings always end in tears - don't s*** on your own doorstep.
2007-04-07 08:48:03 · answer #8 · answered by Barry S 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't do office flings, its too complicated. I can do it if I feel I have to get fired from my job...it might be cool
2007-04-07 08:47:31 · answer #9 · answered by howardlee1977 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It can be done. In my younger (and stupider) days I would have tried it. Guilt? No, guys aren't wired that way.
2007-04-07 08:47:01 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋