Good grooming and acting like a gentleman!
2007-04-07 02:26:32
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answer #1
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answered by Sandy 4
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First: dont try to "impress" the ladies! Most women can sense when you are trying to impress them, as in bending over backwards like a lap dog and its a turn off....
Dont be a doormat. Have a backbone, and use it. Women respect a guy they can respect!
Dont be needy and clingy.
Have something interesting to say and do. KNOW what you want to do on a date...BE DECISIVE (not caveman, but decisive)
Be confident and just a bit laid back. Remember, YOU SHOULD BE BRINGING something to the table, too, in terms of personality and being interesting. In other words, you are offering her something, too. So dont act like its a one way street and you have to act like an entertainment monkey to impress her. You also SHOULD NOT think you can buy a woman's attraction by taking her out on the most lavish date possible. Talk to her on the phone first and then if she is truly interested, a Starbucks or bookstore date should suffice for the first time out unless she is golddigging. There will be plenty of time for the very nice dinner date (never, ever, take a woman to the movies on the first date....no opportunity for interaction and talking which, ultimately, is the idea, right?).
Add to the above VERY good (by guys standards...lol) grooming. By that I mean NOT just the obvious stuff like clean clothes, shower, shave (unless ur going for the 12 oclock shadow look) up to date stuff, but ALSO understand women KNOW clothes, fashion and grooming and they PAY attention to details, stuff that most of us guys take for granted at times. So clean those nails, file them, POLISH YOUR SHOES....i know it sound silly but, WEAR A BELT (seen guys go without and get called on it), match some things....and if you really want to be hot, learn some fashion hints. go to Askmen.com if you want more in depth information on this kind of stuff...
2007-04-07 09:39:42
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answered by qdmr007 2
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Impress the only one woman/lady that you are interested in and whom you think you want to have a relationship with...and that's sufficient...too many ladies are too difficult to handle and it spells trouble...well, be yourself, gaze at her (but don't wink) and gives her the signal that you like her, dress smart and neatly, keep your hair short (cut it if you got a long hair), show your gesture of friendliness by smiling at her and giving her a warm handshake (if you got the opportunity; if not, grab one), be well-mannered and polite when you start a conversation with her and concentrate on her when you talk...
do not let your eyes wander...
2007-04-07 09:39:42
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answered by superb2dmax 3
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1. take care of your body. you don't want a fat girl and she isn't after a fat guy.
2. grooming. shower regularly, brush your teeth, comb your hair.
3. dress nice for the occasion. dress shirt and slacks instead of jeans and a t-shirt. loose the baseball cap unless you are going to the game.
4. watch your words. the fewer the better. and be sure what comes out is what you meant to say. don't get the footinmouthitis disease. that makes them never want to see you again.
5. act like you don't need them. if you seem desperate, they aren't interested. kind of like banks and getting a loan. If you need the money you don't get it. You have plenty of money, you get the loan.
that's it. your ride doesn't matter.
2007-04-07 09:30:08
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answered by oldsoftee2001 6
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Be a gentleman, by that i mean, dont go changing partners every 5 seconds, dont cheat, be kind, dont flirt, be sensible be generous and have faith. If not the ladies, me.
2007-04-07 09:30:11
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answer #5
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answered by Amira A 2
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well smell good
be nice and kind to them
when on a date open doors and pay for thier meals
make sure that u say "babe ur right" females are always right! remember that!!!
Be urself!!!
Make sure ur car is clean and ur house women love a man who keeps his house and car clean
cook for her females also loves a man who can cook
listen to ur girl for example= if she mentions something that she really really wants and u buy it for her and surprise her.
Dont mention sex on the first date wait for her to make the first move she will be ready to give herself to u when she knows or feels comfortable with u DONT RUSH A WOMEN.
When u and ur girl get to know each other rub her back and her feet women love to be paperd.
2007-04-07 09:44:41
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answered by Anonymous
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try actually refering to them instead as a general reference as "the ladies"? be polite if you think that is the kind of person she would want. if she likes a rough and tumble guy then be that
2007-04-07 09:27:05
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answered by C.W. 2
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heare are some tips from a lady
- dont acked like you know everything
- dond ackt as if you own the world
- respect them
- look hot
- dont tell them they look hot
- start a conversation
- dont be stupid
- just be yourself
2007-04-07 09:27:46
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answered by Dolly R 1
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1)look good
2) smell good
3) be nice and complement them
4) pay for the lunch/dinner
5) flirt with them and tell them how much you like them
2007-04-07 09:27:08
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answered by Anonymous
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Be yourself, be sensitive and make sure you listen to them when they need that....some girls like that.
2007-04-07 09:28:00
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answered by Jamie79 3
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