My mom has said to have seen a couple of guys (probably ages around 20-30) . She says it all started out as her seeing them just standong up in corners on her way to work. Then she started seeing them following her TO work by taking the same trains as her. She told me this and I got scared for her. But then it cooled down a little bit. But NOW, she said she saw the SAME boys infront of her work building just leaning against the metal grill. She said they looked suspicious. Luckily, a guy she knew was also outside and that probably saved her. But now I"m scared for her life. I really don't want her going to work tomorrow. Its making me so scared and I'm like crying. Why are these guys following her? will the police be able to help out? What should she do? She wont listen to me in staying home tomorrow! ='[
2007-04-07 17:04:01 · 12 answers · asked by . 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I'm thinking of letting her over sleep and not waking her in time for work because I have a really bad gut feeling inside.
2007-04-07 17:05:44 · update #1
Its not a bad thing to be scared, heck i would be to...Your mom should notify the police, a report should be mad and hopefully they will come check this out...They could be following her to rob her, or even worse...Protect your mama ....
2007-04-07 17:09:32 · answer #1 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I don't know what you can really do with this. Your mom has to go to work. Maybe she can miss a day or two, but it's not like she can just quit. The police won't be able to do anything, because so far no crime has been committed. You can't even prove that these guys are following your mom, she might have just never quite noticed them before.
The only thing I can suggest is if there is a securtiy guard at her building, get your mom to ask him to check out front before she leaves, and clear those guys out if they are there.
2007-04-07 17:11:13 · answer #2 · answered by rohak1212 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Share your fears w/ your mom. If she can't stay home from work - ask her to agree to have someone escort her in & out of her office building. And, yes, she should contact the police & at least to let them know she's being followed. I'm not sure that there's anything they can do at this point. But, they should at least be notified. Try not to worry!! I know it's hard. Does she have a cell phone? If so & she can't get an escort tell her to call & talk to someone on the phone while walking in & out of buildings, etc. People are less likely to approach her if they know she's on the phone w/ someone that can call for help. I'll make sure to say a prayer for her tonight!
2007-04-07 17:10:00 · answer #3 · answered by Mrs.know.It.All 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your mother needs to call the police and deal with this now.
I know you are very upset but you have to let your mom get up for work on time tomorrow morning.
Does she have a cell phone?You can keep in touch while she's on her way to work and home again.She could call you along the way so you'd know she is safe and call you when she's heading home.
Tell your mom how frightened you are and mention the cell phone to her.Don't be afraid to talk to your mom.
She can let the people she works with know about this too and someone could be with her when she's waiting for the train. She has to tell everyone she can.
Good Luck Sweetie and take care.
2007-04-07 17:14:09 · answer #4 · answered by sonnyboy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, that's a scary situation. The police should be notified, and if your mom insists on going to work tomorrow, she ABSOLUTLY should have someone with her the whole time! You should try to convince her not to go, though! Call the police right now!
2007-04-07 17:14:09 · answer #5 · answered by Dr Fernando 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have someone take her to work, or go with her.
You can call the police, but they probably won't be able to do anything, until after the fact. I would call them so they can write their report, but I'd still go with her or have someone I know escort her to work.
2007-04-07 17:09:07 · answer #6 · answered by lucianna_0317 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her to buy some pepper spray or carry a knife. Tell her to let them see her take a picture(s) of them (from a safe distance, of course). That might make them forget anything they MIGHT have planned, because they know she's got their pictures. And of course, tell her to make sure she walks in and out of her job with atleast one other person.
2007-04-07 17:26:26 · answer #7 · answered by a person 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Confusing! How old is your mom that she dates 20 and 30 year olds but old enough to have you worrying about her? You call them boys also?
2007-04-07 17:09:29 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if i were you i would really tell the police...about this have a police go to work w/ her or summin my step mom had a stalker and we tod the police about it and we wanted them to follw her to work and to places lik that..or to be in the car w/ her or summin and they found out the stalker guy was a rapeist...and he was going to rape my step mom and then me.....so ya u should see what the police can do...and hurry
2007-04-07 17:19:27 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i suggest go to the cops because that sounds very scary to me also call the cops
2007-04-07 17:08:24 · answer #10 · answered by Flavor Flav!! 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋