Im a female early to mid 20s and I go and buy myself a brand new luxury sports car. Whenever I tell someone online or someone I dont know they say 'Who bought ya that'? or Where'd ya get that from? And make it look like I couldnt of possibly bought it myself because im a female and it seems they are amazed that I could afford a 44,000 dollar vehicle by myself. Why is that? Why do men say wherd ya get that from? What guy bought ya that? then when they find out I bought it myself they get silent.
2007-04-07 13:01:53 · 9 answers · asked by henry 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Maybe it has sumpin to do with that 87 year old man you married.
This is Anna Nicole, isn't it?
Haa. I don't think anyone means anything by that. It's just surprising for someone your age to be successful enough to buy that expensive automobile.
2007-04-07 13:08:39 · answer #1 · answered by Toeless_Joe_Jackson 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What kind of people are you meeting that can't stand to hear that you bought yourself a car?
This kind of sexism is beyond me. Maybe this is why I don't date. Really, the idea that you shouldn't by yourself a car!
Anyway, congratulations on being your own woman and getting out and getting for yourself what you want. May you find a man worthy of you. My guess is that you'll find this man not online, but in your real life--office? church? family friend? community?--and he'll see the "whole package", the whole woman, not just the car.
2007-04-07 20:07:47 · answer #2 · answered by MNL_1221 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Any how, congratulation for your new car,whether you paid for it or somebody else.
Some people thinks that if you get paid for doing sex is easy income,but they don't know that it is a hard job were you have to accept peoples while they are unacceptable, and even sometimes you should share sex with dirty people. This job Consider it to be a very hard job. So,if you bought this car by making sex or not ,I am sure that you worked hard to earn the 44.000 dollars
Finally, I would tell you if I am a woman ,I would do same yours
2007-04-07 20:16:10 · answer #3 · answered by walid k 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
their men they don't want to accept the fact that your 20 with a $44,000 car and they will probably never be able to afford one ever. So it's easier for them to accept that another male (dad, uncle, grandfather, etc) bought it for you as opposed to a female (you, mom, grandma, aunt). They just have gender issues
2007-04-07 20:10:54 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
They didn't know that u bought it.. like u say.. they think that u are a girl and how can u possibly just buy a luxury sports car by yourself.. so... u can admit yourself to it and maybe they can stop asking... if not, u can ignore them.
hope my advices helps...
2007-04-07 20:08:04 · answer #5 · answered by CELiNE:] 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sure some are sexist, but in all fairness some of them may be asking because of your age. Either way it's a stereotype, but don't assume all men are sexist. That would be....sexist.
By the way, what kind of car? And can I get a ride, please?
2007-04-07 20:31:24 · answer #6 · answered by rohak1212 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its sexist and its a stereotype that men bring in the bacon... it matters what you do... if you say that your a special ed teacher and then you say you bought a car liek that then it can be unbelievable which is a total different stereotype
2007-04-07 20:07:06 · answer #7 · answered by linkin_brandon973 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They're probably jealous that they couldn't buy one for themselves and if its real sporty they may just be surprised that a girl would want that sporty of a car -you go girl !!
2007-04-07 20:07:23 · answer #8 · answered by Jules 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its because there are many easy women who freeload off men and many ppl think that all women are like that, WHICH IS TOTALLY WRONG. I give you props. Kudos to you!
2007-04-07 20:06:54 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋