i am a stay at home dad of 3 boys since they were born,my wife just left with her friends to go to a party and when i looked in her car there were 4 bottles of unopened vodka, i guess i will be coloring easter eggs with the kids by myself, she didnt show up for our 4 year old kindergarten sign up orientation because she was partying and for christmas while we were making ginger bread houses she was in las vegas partying, what would you do if your spouse acted this way
2007-04-07 12:59:19 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
This is obviously a very big issue in your life- do you really want to ask complete strangers how to take the next step that could be life altering???
You need to take some time to seriously consider your options. You have received some good replies on your various posts, but I recommend considering ALL your options, not just the ones you see here. Only you know this woman and what you (and she) are willing to do to make your relationship work.
Find your strength, and make a change! And Good Luck!
2007-04-07 13:10:26 · answer #1 · answered by wynd 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You dont have a marriage or any kind of relationship for that matter but she does have a glorified live in babysitter here. You guys dont need her and her drinking problem so tell her unless she gets professional help and kicks the habit, that you and the kids are leaving for a better world. Called tough love but you cant keep going on like this with a part time wife/mother. Time to decide if youre better off with or without her and then move on. Good luck
2007-04-07 20:24:20 · answer #2 · answered by Arthur W 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Divorce. Immediately.
2007-04-07 20:06:01 · answer #3 · answered by Yep 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to her, and make her understand that if you need a husband and familia, she should act like marry women and stop acting as if she is 20 years old.
2007-04-07 20:11:02 · answer #4 · answered by maria 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Though it may be hard for you to let her go. DUMP HER!! I am sure there are many women that will be willing to accept you and your kids as her own.
2007-04-07 20:19:36 · answer #5 · answered by Bunny 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
only way is to win her by luv let it be towards u or towards the children.she is a mother no mater wat right jus let her be reminded of that fact n no mater wat she wil not do this again let her understand the responsibility towards the kids n this action that u do shud be a custom made one coz it may be different for a different person thats al
2007-04-07 20:05:04 · answer #6 · answered by wolverine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to talk to a councilor, you need help with the kids, she also needs help with drinking.
2007-04-07 20:03:10 · answer #7 · answered by sad 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋