she was stressed out cuz of family problems n wanned drugs to drown out the pain. i was terrified so i called up her sis n told her to talk her out of it. istead things out really ugly wen she got home. her family was furious. now she thinks its all my fault n hates me. but i did it only fer her own safety cuz i knw she is suicidal n self destructive. i dunno why she cant c tht i did it fer her. we r frends fer 8 yrs n it pains how she rejects me wthout thinking rationally. if i were her i'd b grateful. since thn we havent talked. i feel i shudnt call her unless her moral senses give her a wake up call n she calls me.wat shud i do? keep her or lose a good friend becuz of nuthing?n wat kinda frend wud doubt my motives?
2007-04-07 13:33:18 · 7 answers · asked by Sike O 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Oh honey..you ARE a friend!! That girl could have killed herself, and being such a "good" friend, you would have sat by and done nothing...then you would have gotten a phone call about your friend O.D.ing, and then what would you have thought about THAT kind of friendship??? YOU DID THE RIGHT THING!!!
She on the other hand, is angry with the fact that NOW her family knows she has a problem and she cant do the drugging thing anymore..You may have lost a friend, but you saved a life!!!
2007-04-07 13:48:37 · answer #1 · answered by angeleyes 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I see both sides because it happened to me,My friend told on me,and my father called the cops on me.This happened when I was very young and the person who told on me,was never my friend after that.But what I did was for fun not to hurt myself.I'm not saying what you did was right or wrong but we think our friends are someone you can trust and tell anything to.May be what you should of done was sit her down and let her no your there for her and you are afraid she is going to hurt herself if she got a hold of sleeping pills.As she sees it you betrayed her and your friendship .Never assume you no what someone is thinking or going to do .You made her look very stupid in front of her family I think may be you lost her as a friend when you pick up the phone and told her sister what she wanted to do.But isn't it better to lose her as a friend then lose her all together.
2007-04-07 16:00:09 · answer #2 · answered by Teenie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do not ditch her. 8 years is a long friendship. you have to tqlk it out with her. she will realize soon that it is good to have a life and not to just throw it away becuase of one problem. you did the right thing but i think you should give her time to think and then you can talk it out with her and explain that you didnt want her to get hurt and you were just being there for her. if she is a good friend she will understand
2007-04-07 13:59:50 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
she is not thinking clearly.. her mind is clouded with pain and anger and confusion.. back away and don't talk to her for awhile.. she may come around.. and if not then you did what was right for her.. if you had not have called her sister she may have took the pills.. she could have got them at any store and enough would have done what she wanted ..
2007-04-07 13:42:41 · answer #4 · answered by vis 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmm.. i think of you do not could desire to offer her a sound asleep pill. it is undesirable you recognize. in basic terms ask her ideal. communicate on your father. permit your father clarify to her. issues could be extra appropriate.
2016-10-02 08:30:59 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sleeping pills are not the answer to having problems. It's good advice. Give her one.
2007-04-07 13:39:51 · answer #6 · answered by Reycen 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well tel her 2 go 2 a clinic and get some SPECIAL help
2007-04-07 13:37:06 · answer #7 · answered by PG 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋