I met this boy a while back and he liked me then, but my brother and my mother didn't want us together....So I made them happy and didn't see him. Now, 5 years later me and that same boy have started back talking.. I love him.......and I know what he's feeling and he knows what I'm feeling. But my mama andf brother still don't feel the same way after all these years. I made a mistake of not going after him 5 years ago but should I do it again now and make my mama and brother happy? What should I do?
2007-04-07 13:19:23 · 20 answers · asked by butterfly62992 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Its your life they have they own.You go with your hart.Don't wait till your old and wish you had.Your brother and mother will go on with they life and you will be left behind. Find your happiness will you can.
2007-04-07 13:33:27 · answer #1 · answered by freddy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would like to know your mother and brother's reasons for not liking him.
Allow me say this before I advise you about the situation.
If your mother doesn't like someone (assuming it isn't racism involved) then you should rethink this guy. Normally mothers can sense things daughters can't.
But if in fact your family is just trippin' then be with the guy. You know what kind of guy he is and also I'm sure you know that you only get one life. One!!! Which means that you should be happy and be with who you want. Fate brung you two back together for a reason and fate doesn't make mistakes!!!
2007-04-07 20:25:08 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you? If you are of legal age, no one has the right to make a choice for you to love or not love, okay? If you think this guy is serious in making a relationship with you and you have feelings for him them give him a chance to make things work out for both of you. Find out with your mother and brother what it is they don't like with this guy. If it's valid, then give it some thought.
2007-04-07 20:27:56 · answer #3 · answered by Reycen 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hun. i know how you feel. I think that if you love him and he loves you, dont let him get a way like before. It is your life, not your mothers and brothers.. Just understand why they didnt, and dont like him.. and if you dont know..ask them. I think that you two should continue talking and take it from there.. Kindly explain to your mother and brother that he makes you happy, and he has what you want. Tell you mother.. You married dad because you loved him and he made you happy, well if your mother didnt like him would you have not gotten married to him, just walk away from him?? Make her step inot your shoes and see it in her own eyes. All that matters is that he makes you happy, and that you bothlove each other. good luck
2007-04-07 20:27:40 · answer #4 · answered by r56frt78ft6y8ft66t 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are old enough to make your own decisions and live with the consequences, then do what YOU want to do. It's great to respect your family, but you should not live your life for them. It's your choice and your heart...if all goes well hopefully they will accept this guy (finally)...if things don't go well then hopefully they'll still be there to support you, no matter what.
Be true to yourself. Live your life so you can look back and have as few regrets as possible...don't live it wondering "what if"
2007-04-07 20:22:54 · answer #5 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Follow your heart.
Eventually, if your mother and brother, see that your heart belongs to him, they will try to support you, and even if they don't. You deserve to be happy in your life. Your not living, if you haven't risked it all for love at least once in your life.
2007-04-07 21:24:41 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you always try to please everyone but yourself you are going to be one miserable person for the rest of your life. Do what you want don't let anyone choose for you. If your family loves you then whether they like him or not they will be happy that your happy
2007-04-07 20:24:01 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you don't say WHY they dint care for this guy. Sometimes we want something because it is taboo. Now that you are older and I hope wiser, if you still want to get together with this guy, you are going to do it, but stay on the side of caution.
2007-04-07 20:27:49 · answer #8 · answered by angeleyes 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetheart true we want ot always please or mother and those we love but your mother or brother can't live your life for you, you have to do what makes you happy
2007-04-07 20:23:35 · answer #9 · answered by toosexy4thisshit 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am in the same situtation as you! I would still go out with him. If you love hime then they should unserstand. In the end their still going to be your family & they will love you.
2007-04-07 20:23:02 · answer #10 · answered by Lindsey R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋