anyways so yesterday i asked a quesion that in volved this guy and why he didn't respond after i poured my heart out to him, anyways he sent me a message on myspace telling me how sorrry he was for not responding, and he said the message i sent to him, left him utterly speechless, and that's why he didn't respond anyways , what does that mean? he told me he'll let me know if he has anything to say to me, bcuz he told me he might not be able to tell me on monday cuz he might not have thought of anything to say, but i told him i will be patient, what should i do? should i play hard to get now?
2007-04-07 02:27:06 · 13 answers · asked by astrid 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He's nervous
Just give him some time, eventually he'll respond with something. He probably didnt respond cuz its a situation he doesn't know how to deal with. Probably unexperienced with =/
If you play hard to get, he might just drop the whole idea of it. Its too risky.. since it'll be that much harder for him to confront you and take a approach.
Its just a matter of time, if he likes you then he will come to you. If he doesn't then he would have talked to you already. But that doesn't seem to be the situation ^.^
So give him time and compliment him from time to time. Try not to overdue anything. Don't force anythin on him plz. Too much pressure then, and it'll probably be akward -.-
Show him your interested =)
2007-04-07 02:54:49 · answer #1 · answered by =HIO= 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't play hard to get now - you have already declared yourself 'got'! The fact that the message left him speechless means that 1)either he doesn't have strong feelings for you, because if he did, there would have been an immediate response telling you how happy your message made him or 2) he never really thought about you that way and now he's stunned and trying to think about you that way which might be hard for him.
Number 2 is more likely because he thinks it's going to take awhile to put his response together. All you can do is wait. Why even think about strategizing at this point; you've put yourself in the driver's seat in this situation. The only thing you should be concerned about is his answer - and worry that HE will play hard to get and make you wait a long long time for an answer. Whatever his answer is, he will have taken time to give it thought so believe whatever he has to say, take it to be true and act accordingly. If he says he just doesn't feel the same way but wants to be friends, he's not playing games, for example - you should try to get over your feelings for him and try to be a good friend or don't - make the choice about friendship but realize that it is friendship he wants (not a code name for something else).
2007-04-07 09:42:50 · answer #2 · answered by kathyw 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't say play hard to get. But definitely continue being patient - the ball is in his court - you have done your part. Just go out and do something else and not worry about him until he responds.
2007-04-07 09:30:41 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
He's a player that doesn't care. You do NOT want a guy like that around you. You do not have to wait for ANYBODY! Free your heart of him and make room for a guy that will respect you and settle for nothing less. Period. Good luck!
2007-04-07 09:36:50 · answer #4 · answered by stargazer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends on the subject of the question. he might need a few days to digest a major question and return with an appropriate response. or it could be hes just a dick and you need to move on :)
2007-04-07 09:43:15 · answer #5 · answered by J Nasty 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is intersting. very intersting. maybe he's playing hard to get. don't go for it, see if he comes to you. don't waste your time on the guy; he's not behaving in a normal 'want you' kinda way... which tends to mean they don't want you. give him a little time if you want, he might be genuinely collating his thoughts. but don't get your hopes up and don't wait around forever.
2007-04-07 09:36:06 · answer #6 · answered by smethansmee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well...if he is really interested...trust me he would blow up your phone all the time.....just keep an open mind, don't sit and ponder over the what if's?...It's really not worth it...I am sure you have better things to do with your time.
2007-04-07 09:41:45 · answer #7 · answered by atx_love1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hell yeah!!..You must of felt that you trusted him enough to pour your heart out to him..girls normally dont do that...you may of scared him a bit perhaps..be patient otherwise just move on
2007-04-07 09:31:52 · answer #8 · answered by Jamie79 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on... he is jerking you around...he wont respond to you because he doesnt care..."he will let you know if he has anything to say"??? I mean COME ON... dont hold your breath for this player..
2007-04-07 09:32:59 · answer #9 · answered by nease174 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what is the use? you "poured your heart out to him" and now he doesn't know what to say! he already knows how you feel so why try to hide it?
2007-04-07 09:31:12 · answer #10 · answered by C.W. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋