I have liked this guy for about 3 years off & on.All of my frinds would say that i should ask him out that we make a cute couple.I mean i can talk to him no problem.But then this girl named Brittney is gong out with him and she is suppose to be my friend,she always told me to ask him out,and that we make a cute couple.and she knows i cant have a boyfriend b/c of my Quince(sweet 15).When we were at a pep-seshion* a freind told me that they were pretending to go out to make some1 who likes him too mad.I'm like ok w/e.Then l8er in the week they were always together.So i asked a friend what was going on and she said"that they were not pretending nemore"i was so mad i mean this girl was suppose to be one of my friends.I have told my mom she said it wont last.b/c she changes boyfriends alot but they have been going out 4 2 months.I always get mad when he gets another girlfriend.Do I really Love him.& should I be mad at my friend 4 goin out with him when she knows i like him or b happy?Help!
2007-04-07 02:58:30 · 13 answers · asked by ♥Erika♥Matt i Love you!!!♥ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
first thing this girl who stole ur crush is deffinetely not ur friend. and this boy, get over him. u can get another guy without trouble. dont get too attached. this guy is deffintely just a player
2007-04-07 03:02:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sounds to me what Sean did to Corey in Boy meets world, he dated Topanga to get corey jealous and give him the courage to make a move. But it sounds like you're in a twisted verison. I say you have every right to be mad at the friend, she's did something that is hard to forgive, and maybe you need to break away from this situation and find some other guy and another good friend to hang out with until all this drama passes over. Best of luck!
2007-04-07 03:04:09 · answer #2 · answered by R.R 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you have a right to be mad at your friend but at the same time if you really liked this guy you should have done something about it instead of waiting around. If they break up dont hold a grudge agianst her just talk to her and find out what was going on and why she felt she could something like that to you.
2007-04-07 03:08:06 · answer #3 · answered by amanda 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
All's fair in love and war. You didn't make your move. You lost your chance. Your friend took hers, and she's pulled it off. So, too bad. Lots of fish left in the sea though. The next time you find a guy you likeLIKE, throw in the net or catch him with your teeth and nails if you have to. And make sure your friends aren't standing behind you, ready to pounce at your man. Or if you really like this guy, wait til they break up, then steal him right back. Ha ha! Like I said, all's fair... :p
2007-04-07 03:26:21 · answer #4 · answered by eissy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No! You shouldn't be mad at him or her. You've liked this boy for 3 years and haven't made a move on him yet so somebody else did and it ended up being your friend. So until you are ready to really be with him then you have no say in anything or anyone he gets involved with. Simple as that! =]
2007-04-07 03:04:28 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes u should be madd at ur friend because she knew u liked him and she had no right to betray u like that, as for being mad when he has diff girlfriends if u really do feel like u love him and u keep always going bak 2 liking him then i guess u can be jealous i wouldnt excatly call it mad cuz u 2 have never dated yet but i would call it jealousy
2007-04-07 03:06:31 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont be mad, if they are happy together, then be happy for them.. they are ur friends after all..
when the time is right and he is alone again, dont waist time.. ask him and see what will happen.. you could be serprised to find that he too liked you all this time but was too shy to ask
good luck
M.R.
2007-04-07 03:05:45 · answer #7 · answered by Mego R. 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, but you should not say something like that if you considered her your friend, 1st thing 1st, you must understand, when you are still thining wheather to tell the guy you like him or not, some one else would have snapped him up, if he is good enough for you to consider chasing him, he is good enough for other people to chase, no matter who she is, ( be it your sister, or just friends) you have no right to say something so bad behind her, esp to your mom. Plus if you truly is her friend, you will not talk behind her. I suppose you did not love him enough (or brave enough) to go up to him, your friend is, wheather or not they are going to last is up to them, please, either get a life of your own or chase after him when they break up, either way, do something sensible....
2007-04-07 03:15:08 · answer #8 · answered by jade s 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
your young and boys will come and go. But as for her I would be mad there is a unspoken rule among females thou shall not date a guy thy friend likes and thou should not date any friends ex boyfriends. she has no respect for your feelings because she was the one telling you to ask him out and then turns around and goes out with him. What you are experiencing is a crush. they come and go. Be happy you can talk to your mom so openly about boys.
2007-04-07 03:04:46 · answer #9 · answered by bbinqueens33 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Get a life!!
2007-04-07 03:01:01 · answer #10 · answered by luckford2004 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋