2007-04-07 02:51:48 · 21 answers · asked by shruti shah 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Act casual? wtf??? It's like that scene in shoot to kill where the protagonists encounter a bear roaring in the woods, "what do we do??" "Act casual!"
2007-04-07 02:54:47 · answer #1 · answered by noonenowhere23 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What do you mean by casual? What's he doing?
And, if he's acting the way I assume he's acting, then he wants you to admit it first. Either that or he's protecting himself from any more emotional damage you might cause him. I mean, the man's loved you for two years. He won't say it against without having a clear conception of your feelings for him. It would be emotional painful for him.
If you love him, then tell him. He respected you enough to tell you years ago didn't he? Do the same for him, if you love him equally.
2007-04-07 09:57:29 · answer #2 · answered by Elle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U played too hard sweety! when u know tat d guy was n love then y u didnt accept him b4?? most of d times its happen like this.
As u say that he is acting casually then I think he came to know that u r interested now. so , try to hold ur feelings and ignore him for d timebings. Flirt infront of him wid someone else. M sure if he still love u then he will stop u n propose u .n if not then u know d answer.
Best of luck.
2007-04-07 11:18:02 · answer #3 · answered by sherry 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, you better be a girl. Secondly, love comes in all kinds of variations. If he loves you, he could only love you as a sister and not as the love you are looking for. If he has grown casual about the love then ignore him for a while.
2007-04-07 09:54:53 · answer #4 · answered by Adam S 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sometimes we become more demanding in a relationship and we expect our partner to be more enthusiastic. sometimes it helps and othertimes it breaks {ego, overdemanding things like that}.the main cause of such thing is lack of comunication between the two, u both have been a relationship for 2 yrs its unlikely to have lack of comunication, so now what u have to do is to sit and talk to yr partner and jst tell what u feel if he really loves u he will help u. BEST OF LUCK.
2007-04-07 10:08:54 · answer #5 · answered by DJ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont sweat it. If you both have been in love that long and hes acting casual, it usually doesnt mean anything big, just talk to him, but dont jump to conclusions just yet.
2007-04-07 09:55:10 · answer #6 · answered by Lindsay M 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is no frankness in this
Sometimes moving socially may be taken in the other sense and we take wrong decessions
1.so first think whether you act is right: caste,creed and other parameter suits you
2.whether both the parents admit
3.then if all the above suits and ask the opposite frankly and finalise
otherwise it is waste and sometimes it leads to complications
2007-04-07 13:59:47 · answer #7 · answered by ar.samy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best solution - u too start acting 'casual'
2007-04-07 09:54:18 · answer #8 · answered by spice 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well I guess you need to talk...why he is acting casually...probably have fear of commitement that's why. Just tell him that he will never have pressure from you...and you will be surprised how released will be.
2007-04-07 09:58:14 · answer #9 · answered by invisible1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what does casual mean here???
everybody acts casual in life......all the time u cant expect someone to go overboard with everything!!!!
take a chill pill!! dont over react...have patience....give him some space and njoy your relationship!!
2007-04-07 10:35:01 · answer #10 · answered by raindrops 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
the film "rules"watch it .some steps witch i used in ur case
1.be with him very close for 2 days
2 .start him ignoring like any thing, as if u dont know him
3.be with ur friend for 2 -3 min in front of him
fir dekna IT REALY WORKS
2007-04-07 11:29:40 · answer #11 · answered by PRIYANJANA 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋