If you came home early from work and walked in on your g/f, wife, or fiancee with someone else in you bedroom, how would you react?
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The other person it your friend
2007-04-07 09:03:34 · 13 answers · asked by Nicoletta 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
they were having sex
2007-04-07 09:07:22 · update #1
Correction: Ex- friend
Corrected correction: DEAD ex-friend.
2007-04-07 09:06:53 · answer #1 · answered by Voices of the Dead 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hello Nicoletta,
Where were they in the bedroom? In bed? Standing by the
dresser? Just inside the door? And WHY were they in the
bedroom?
I've been in the woman's bedroom many times under totally
innocent circumstances. Like when my sister-in-law wanted
to show me new photos she had hanging over the bed.
Or like my cousin's girlfriend asked me to help open a closet
door that was jammed. Or when my girlfriend's sister needed
help to re-arrange the bedroom furniture (..my girlfriend had
not yet gotten home from work..).
Don't jump to false conclusions just because they were in the
same room together. It could really be a BIG MISTAKE..!!!
Be sure you know ALL the facts before you act, OK??
2007-04-07 09:23:22 · answer #2 · answered by SlownEasy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would kick them both out. I would never respect either of them again. If I was married, I would get a divorce. If I was engaged, the engagement would be called off. If it was my significant other, I would go and find another one who would respect me. I know there are good people out there if they don't want to date me, who would communicate that and tell me BEFORE they would cheat on me. I feel for you. I have had many a boyfriend cheat on me and it makes my heart sink. If it was a girlfriend or fiance, I am glad you found out first before you were married. I am sorry this happened to you. Hugs to you. You will find someone who respects you for you and who will love you and only you.
As far as the friend goes, you can find better friends....
2007-04-07 09:10:19 · answer #3 · answered by Stephanie F 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on what they were doing. If they were having sex, then I would pack my things and leave, file for divorce on grounds of cheating. I would win, find a new woman and live happily ever after. Luckily I have a wonderfull life partner and have no fear of this ever happening.
2007-04-07 09:08:35 · answer #4 · answered by antonedbone 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Before or after I kicked both of their lousy butts out the door? Been there done that! Put her belongings on the front porch and change the locks. That's what I did to my ex husband. I don't forgive cheaters. And - he is not your friend or he would never have done that to you.
2007-04-07 09:09:36 · answer #5 · answered by arkiemom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The answer is simple. Why would you want to surround yourself with people who would betray your trust and disrespect you in such a blatant and dispicable manner. As far as I'm concerned, friendship, relationship, etc is over between them.
2007-04-07 09:09:15 · answer #6 · answered by mysterrourke 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would move on, no reason to continue the relationship with friend or g/f/wife/fiancee... what's the point! there can be not trust anymore
2007-04-07 09:07:37 · answer #7 · answered by crazydeb16 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would drop both of them. The best way to do it is cold turkey. The more you over talk the situation the more you will be manipulated to believe the whole "i can explain" ordeal.
2007-04-07 09:07:08 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If she had someone in your hause disrespecting you then I don't think that she is worth trying to work it out with or he is good enough to be your friend! That's really messed up!
2007-04-07 09:08:39 · answer #9 · answered by chantol3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ohhh my godddd i would FLIP OUT and be sooo hurt. id make them leave . pack up and leaveeee that night. and if they owned the house and paid for the appt whatever the situation was, id leave that night.. screw thatttt! i would never be with someone who does that to me.. thats a low class person and someone with no morals..
2007-04-07 09:08:23 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋