heres this guy in my class who keeps staring at me . he even sits behind me in class just to stare at me . initially i ignored him but later wen i couldnt take it anymore , i started giving him angry looks only to find that he continued to stare at me shamelessly .
one day i was alone at the bus stand . the whole area at that time was DESERTED ! . there wasnt even a vehicle in the road . then he arrived at the scene . it was just him & me there .
as he came closer , i became scared but did not show any signs of fear . i made eye contact only once and saw that he was giving me that dirty look again . i gathered the courage to give him one very angry look . to my surprise , i found that his expression changed--- he became a bit scared or was he sad i dunno , he simply walked away with his head down
since den , he avoids me , doesent look at me , , even though he has a lotta friends . he only stares at me wen i talk to other guys
WATS UP WID HIM ?
2007-04-07 09:09:39 · 25 answers · asked by Grateful 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Probably has a crush on you.
2007-04-07 09:12:48 · answer #1 · answered by digitaltransmsn 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He likes you, he just doesn't have the courage to do anything, talk to you, whatever. And when you gave him that dirty look, he walked away with his head down because he thought you didn't like him at all, not even enough to talk to him. Now he thinks he should avoid you.
Body language is the key. It's worth paying attention to even the smallest gestures. I am like that too, and now I am regretting it. Every girl I have a crush on goes out with another boy because I didn't take the initiative to talk with them or ask them out. I know I have to do something before the girl I want is taken. I just don't see myself talking to them. I sit there and do nothing. I don't know why, because, what's there to lose? If they say no, then, whatever. I gotta practice what I preach, but I find it hard to do so.
Anyway, it was just some body language from him. He liked you. Even if you don't like him, you can get back to his good side and fix this whole situation up by talking to him, getting to know each other. You can try, but if he's a d i c k, then he might try to say something mean. I don't know for sure, but I think it's a bit unlikely.
2007-04-07 09:19:54 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You probably misinterpreted his look as a bad one when he actually meant it to be a good one. It seemed as if he liked you and when you gave him an angry look he was genuinely surprised. Didn't you ever exchange any kind of words? Did he ever speak with you? I find it so strange that people go through life simply not asking another person about their actions. That is the most obvious thing to do. ASK him!!!
Don't ask other people...they don't know what's in his head...only HE does! Open your mouth and communicate!
2007-04-07 09:15:58 · answer #3 · answered by Keenu 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think it's quite obvious what's up with him and I think you know too. He seems to have had a crush on you but didn't know how to approach you or what to say. Then you started giving him glares, which was rude, so he did it back. Then when you gave him that last evil glare, he realized you do not care for him at all, and his heart probably broke a little. So now he has given up. Although he is still jealous when you talk to other guys.
2007-04-07 09:17:19 · answer #4 · answered by blisz8 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He definitely likes you. You shouldn't be so mean giving him dirty looks. He just has an innocent crush and he does not know how to approach you with it besides starring at you. If you don't like him than just tell him, don't beat-around-the-bush with it just tell him that he makes you feel very uncomfortable. If you are nice about it you may end up with a new friend instead of a boyfriend.
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2016-11-27 01:49:57 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He likes you silly. He is just intimated by you or somehow even though he has lots of friends he does not know how to approach you to start a conversation. Maybe you need to take the first step.
2007-04-07 09:15:28 · answer #7 · answered by kishmiash 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why don't you ask him what is going on instead of giving him dirty looks. Did you ever think that maybe he is fond of you and you hurt his feelings at the bus stop by giving him a dirty look instead of saying a simple Hello to him?!
2007-04-07 09:15:20 · answer #8 · answered by chastity 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's me and I love you, silly! Why do you always avoid me? Can't you see that you are the woman of my dreams? Can't you trust in your heart of hearts that I am on this planet only to love you? Can you even know the depth of my love without giving "us" a chance? Oh, well, screw it then! You aren't all that anyway.
2007-04-07 09:14:52 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should ask him. Stares only give assumptions, talks give more information "straight from the horses mouth". Tell him that his stares make you uncomfortable and you don't like it. Ask him why he stares at you. or stared at you and now why he is acting like he is.
2007-04-07 09:13:30 · answer #10 · answered by Stephanie F 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u scared him off. he really liked you, until u gave him the angry face, u should've talked 2 him. but other than that he liked u until u made it seem that u did'nt want him around. u should be happy that someone is even looking at u!!
2007-04-07 09:16:39 · answer #11 · answered by *~so_sexy~* 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋