Should I wait a year when she turns 18 to date her or should I just forget about her and move on. I really like her, I think she is interested in me too. I have not really told her how I feel because she is not 18 yet. What should I do?
2007-04-07 09:01:18 · 34 answers · asked by sfumato 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
move on to someone in there twenties.dont mess with teenagers who are 16 yrs younger than you.would you want your daughter dating a 33 yr old guy when shes just a teenager.if you do date here prepare to be on busted on dateline lol jk
2007-04-07 09:39:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly... It is a large age difference. But I am going to be just as frank with you as I was just a second ago. It DOES NOT MATTER!
She must be quite mature to capture the feelings of a 33 year old. Anyway, if you love her that much then I don't think you should move on just yet.
Find out what she wants to do. Is she ready for love and/or a serious relationship? Does she want to go to college? Can she factor you into her plans?
You may want to take it a little slow. Don't scare her away, but she deserves to know how you feel about her. But don't rush it. Maybe she will welcome your affections now, maybe she might not. You have to remember that she is still young. But I know that when a man really loves a woman, he would not mind waiting for a while.
So my advice is to take it slow, observe her a little longer and see what happens. Who knows? Maybe she feels the same way, but figures a man of 33 won't return her love...
2007-04-07 09:12:28 · answer #2 · answered by GirlSunshine 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on I would say since you don't really know how she feels besides more than likely there will be trouble later If in a year you still feel the same and she likes you and both of you are not seeing anyone then explore the issue again. But if you do choose to date and see this girl think about how you are gonna look to her when you are 50 and shes 35, is she still gonna find you attractive? Is she still gonna wanna be with you?
2007-04-07 09:07:43 · answer #3 · answered by hmsmomof6 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you REALLY thought this through. I'm not saying that people will frown on the huge age difference, but what about her growing up? Things like college, and just maturity in general. I Think you should move on because I really don't want to see you on the short end of the stick if she feels the need to "Change". College is a whole new ball game, I know because I'm there. But then again, this may be a really sweet girl, Soooooo follow your heart.
2007-04-07 09:08:26 · answer #4 · answered by djlilrob2003 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think if its really what you feel you should let her know, there is nothing wrong with an older guy talking to a younger girl, make sure that it is just not for her physical apperance or sex because if you break up she might put you out there as a pervert. I kinda know how ya feel you cant control who you like just get her phone number and talk.If you are a important figure in society you might want to be desceet about it-- tell her if she likes you Im sure she really is waiting for you to make the first move!!
2007-04-07 09:13:37 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
one question would you approve of your 18 year old daughter dating a 33 year old man if the answer is no thats probably how her family feels too but if the two of you are really into each other and see it going somewhere its considerble but you have to know that wih the age difference your ideals and values are different you might like quiet nights at home watching a movie and she might be ready to start hitting the club scene so its something to think about good luck with that decision though
2007-04-07 09:07:35 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's way too much of an age difference. No offense, but if you're going to wait on any longer it'd be too late to even talk about marriage. She's just a teenager...
BUT if you're sure she's the absolute one, have some patience and wait til she's 18. If she accepts love as it is, that's great. You two are set. =]
2007-04-07 09:07:18 · answer #7 · answered by geml0vely888 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on definitely. Girls at 17 and 18 haven't lived their lives yet. You are at an age where you are looking for more lasting relationships. She is still maturing and learning how to build those.
If there is one thing I know, a girl who is 17 now is not the same person when she's 27, or when she's 37.
Let her grow up and live her life. Find someone more on your level mentally and maturity wise.
2007-04-07 09:06:26 · answer #8 · answered by az_mommma 6 · 4⤊ 0⤋
If she's mature enough, I say go for it. Just be careful. A lot of people look down on relationships like that. I believe that true love knows no age, so if you really like her you should let her know. I was once turned down by an older guy because he thought I was "too young" (I was 18 at the time) but now that he knows have a boyfriend I can tell that he still likes me.
2007-04-07 09:05:44 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
At the age of 17 she is still a kid and if you tell her you are interested in her it could change her plans for her future, be a man and let her go on with her life and let her grow up and enjoy her young age and you find someone at least over the age of 21!
2007-04-07 09:07:14 · answer #10 · answered by Tigerluvr 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋