I think my bf broke up with me since he doesnt pick up my calls anymore. But why doesnt he just tell me so?

Question

when i go through a breakup or need to turn someone down, i would tell them that. But why do guys do this "ignoring you" thing as a way of breaking up? is it another girl ? i know i didnt do anything wrong

Answer 1

If he's really trying to break up with you using the silent treatment, then he's just a coward and is trying to avoid the confrontation.

As for why he's breaking up, no clue. That could be anything.

Answer 2

Oh definite, telling the reality can be a concepts a lot less complicated for anybody in touch, yet i imagine a guy's delight probable receives contained in the way, I mean why destroy off something in case you do not could? (guy's way of questioning) in simple terms keep her brilliant on for even as i choose/choose her. Now all adult men are unlike this, yet some are, and per chance it truly is what he's doing. If he's not respectful sufficient to you to allow you to know what is going on and be truthful, then which will be a fantastic signal to you to under no circumstances supply him any of a even as for something back.

Answer 3

I have the same problem too. A lot of the time the reason he doesn't answer his phone is because he got mad at me for doing things that he didn't like. It doesn't always mean that he broke up with you. He might just need some space for awhile. Give him that space. After a couple of days if he still doesn't answer your calls or talk to you then just confront him about it. Talk to him see whats up . I hope this helps. Good luck.

Answer 4

Ok this is whats goin on, First of all guys are not good at this type of thing, WE R BETTER, Call him and leave him message basically saying that if he wanted to break up all he had to do was say so, If he needed space all he needed to do was say so.....let him know that this is the last time you will call him AND MEAN IT......then get real cute and go have a night on the town..........basically move on sweetheart and trust me, HE WILL BE BACK.......they always come back.........

Answer 5

people who cannot face up to problems will give the silent treatment hoping that it will resolve itself. It's a coward approach to avoid confrontations as well as another way of putting the blame on you and not him/herself. Don't blame yourself for what is happening instead move on as if nothing has happen to show that you don't need such losers in your life.

Answer 6

he isnt breakin up wit u....he simply is tyring a guy thing where he ignors u for a while and when u approach him and yell at him for not answserin yur calls...he says, "shut up baby!" and then kisses u....it does work buy it can make the girl very stressed....i know...i used to do that all the time...until the girl broke up wit me for doin that...lol

Answer 7

Guys can be complete jerks. They do it because they don't care about your feelings, just their own. It's easier to pretend you don't exist rather than being adult about it and officially break it off

The best advice I can give is to stop calling, delete his number, go out and have a good time without him. Don't have any regard to his feelings because it's apparent he doesn't care about yours.

Answer 8

hes scared to hurt your feelings. your a good girl to him but if anythng hes not interested in you and dosent want to hurt you becuase your great personality. dont worry just MOVE on. its happaned to everyone and the only way to deal with it is to be strong and show him that you are happy and have a great life with or with out him. so do your best and whats right move on and be happy!:)

Answer 9

maybe you are just calling him too often and it's annoying him. wait for him to call you. i don't think anything is wrong here...don't worry so much. just give him some space.