OK, so for some reason I think that my boyfriend is cheating on me. HIs best freind who is girl is always flirting with hima nd she is always hanging out with him. HE goes to the same school as her but I go to a completly different school. I don't know how to tell if he is cheating on me for her. He hardly even talks to me and when I try to ask him if he hang out with girl he gets mad at me and signs off. He is always taking pictures with her. He says that he wants to take pictures with me put when I ask him to he just gets mad at for it. I dont know what to do. I am so confused. I have been putting up with this for about 6 months and I have been going out with him for over a year. I am afraid that if I break up with him that I am just going to end up running right back to him and that its going to happen all over again. Need help!
2007-04-07 09:26:26 · 8 answers · asked by Ashie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This is tough cuz they could just be really close with each other. maybe he is in love with her but she wants nothing to do with him in that way. I say you need to talk to him and let him know how you feel and if he thinks your wrong and messed up for thinking that or if he gives you a hard time then leave him because you need to find someone that will pay attention to you and only you :)
2007-04-07 09:30:28 · answer #1 · answered by melaniejean862209 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am a little confused by your story. I understand that he has a girl as his best friend and he is spending a lot of time with her and she goes to the same school as he does. You attend a different school. He says he wants to take pictures with you like he does with her but backs out?
I would have a sit down heart to heart talk with him and tell him how you are feeling. Ask him what he feels about his best friend honestly. It would be hard to know when you don't see him as much and he is spending more time with another girl than you, his girlfriend. It may be time for you to move on. If you are worried about breaking up with him for the soul purpose that you will run into him again and start dating him again, then you shouldn't worry unless you say yes. You should have more confidence in yourself as who you are and what you want in a guy. If this guy isn't giving you the respect you deserve, it is time to move on.
In every relationship, there has to be honesty and communication on both parties in order to have a true relationship. Tell him what you want in your relationship and listen to what he wants. Tell him what you expect in a relationship. How often do you see each other? Sounds like you only communicate via IM on a computer?
Evaluate what you really want in a relationship and then sit down with him and discuss it with him. From there you will know what you need to do. If you end it with him, you will find someone else who will respect you and treat you as you deserve. Don't hang on to a frayed rope. In the end it will break. Find a new and sturdy rope. God has a good guy in store for you. You just have to let go of the bad to let the good in. Hugs to you. Have a good Easter.
2007-04-07 16:38:03 · answer #2 · answered by Stephanie F 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This really ucks, I'm going through some relationship issues myself, I feel for you. Basically he is not interested in you anymore. He is "bored" of you. and if this has been going on for 6 months I would not put up with it. He goes to a different school so thats a problem. You cant see what he is doing! I suggest that you date someone at your school so you can keep an eye on him, hope this advice helps! GOOD LUCK!!!
2007-04-07 16:32:11 · answer #3 · answered by manduo@sbcglobal.net 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
more then likely he is not to be mean.. just find a replacement so when u break up with him u go to the new guy and dont run back to ur ex
2007-04-07 16:30:26 · answer #4 · answered by hypn.otic 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I suspect you already know what to do, you're just not ready to do it. I'd confront himn once and for all, but be prepared to end it unless he comes clean, and let him know the consequences up front. It will be hard, but you'll be the better for it with, or without him.
2007-04-07 16:30:10 · answer #5 · answered by Doot 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he is always taking pics of her then i would assume that he is. but i think you need to find the girl who he is taking pics of and ask her!! if she says no then dont assume shes not she may lie but it is worth a shot!! good luck and i hope ohe isn't cheating on you!!
2007-04-07 16:31:15 · answer #6 · answered by Lexi S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well that has happended to me before and I broke up with him and i was still his friend but i did NOT like him anymore as a boyfriend. I think you should break up with him.
2007-04-07 16:31:27 · answer #7 · answered by Amber Combs 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
does he call you a lot?if he does he probably is not cheating. or does he hang out wit her more than you. does he talk to his friends about you a lot or this other girl? IF he is not talking a lot about you he is probably cheating on you.
2007-04-07 17:31:22 · answer #8 · answered by acceptancewithjoy20 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋