my boyfriend rele shy and everything we do eg hold hands hug i have to make the first moveand i always put my tounge in first sort of thing how can i stop this i would like him to come up 2 me n give me a kiss x ?
also i am bored with just kissing and want to go a little bit further not all the way like sex but just some inocent foreplay but being the boy he is he wont make the first move and i dont want to make first move and he dont want to do anything yet so how do i kno when he wants t2 ? and how do i let him kno i want to ?
2007-04-07 09:41:41 · 7 answers · asked by twinkle 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well depending on your ages i would suggest organizing a night alone together,having something to eat,a movie/music then let things progress naturally in a relaxed atmosphere
2007-04-07 10:04:50 · answer #1 · answered by HYNDO 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you ever thought about talking to him? Try that if you haven't already. Talking is the key factor in every relationship.
Also, he may just not know how to do all of that and when etc... so try talking to him and then help him to feel more comfortable with kissing, hugging holding hands and more. He's just scared :)
2007-04-07 16:47:01 · answer #2 · answered by oh lala 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he is not ready. He may really respect you as a person. Don't push him. I wonder how old both of you are?????
If you are dating you should be able to discuss these things with him.
If you start doing just "innocent foreplay", it may lead into something you may not really be ready for. Don't rush things.
2007-04-07 16:47:44 · answer #3 · answered by Stephanie F 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you should stick to kissing, he might not be ready to do anything else, and you shouldn't pressure him. give him time there is no rush. if you want him to kiss you then tell him, boys tend to need a push in the right direction, don't be in such a rush to grow up. good luck and take care.
2007-04-07 16:50:38 · answer #4 · answered by RACHEL B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when he is ready he will make the move u want him t2 make,then he will kno that u want t2
2007-04-07 16:51:22 · answer #5 · answered by molly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop making the first move then!!!!!!!!! lol, just stop doing it and give him your flirtatous look and hopefully he won't resist it, and give him some hints or something, but you guys should just talk to each other and enjoy something else instead of smoching with each other.
2007-04-07 16:50:19 · answer #6 · answered by NangSaoLisa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How about first talking with him and telling him how you feel? That's what should happen,
2007-04-07 16:46:21 · answer #7 · answered by Cindybear 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋