Family & Relationships - 1 November 2006

If my husband lies to me about little thing of no importance, could it be that he lies about things that can really hurt me?

2006-11-01 02:58:47 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I split up with my girlfriend 4 months ago and miss her terribly. We were together for five years and we were incredible together. All our mutual friends and her friends were really upset that we broke up and have tried to say to her that she has made a mistake (they did this by themselves i didn't ask them to do this). She says that she is really confused and doesn't know what to do. I don't want to wait for her forever. I moved city to be with her and am thinking of returning home, but I feel that will be it. I still find the thought of not being with her very painful, as I used to think we would be together forever - i am a romantic. Anyway, what should I do? Do i return home?

2006-11-01 02:58:44 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

plzz be serious everybody.... it's important to me.... my wedding in 2 months.... i still dont know where to take my wonderful bride

2006-11-01 02:58:41 · 14 answers · asked by Nizar M 1 in Weddings

2006-11-01 02:58:11 · 26 answers · asked by WILLIAM M 1 in Family

Well ima 17 year old female and i have a 17 year old girlfriend that i have been with for 3 year's . I love her much but it's starting to feel old. We argue everyday, over stupid things, and i always apologizie first and try to fix everything but it never works. She srating to act distant from me, she say she loves me but she can't show it. We have great times but then we have bad,bad,bad times. Im tired of this mess it's getting old im feeling like leaving but im afraid if i leave i wont have anybody. Im starting to check out boys,and im really interesested. What should i do? I need big advice quick, becasue i dont want to make the wrong choice. HELP ME!!!

2006-11-01 02:57:09 · 12 answers · asked by Nikki D 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Ok, Ppl i really need help on this, i hate this, ok, i been with a guy 6 years he cheated on me and ive cheated on him. he hit on me, been like that for awhile, but the last 3 months he has changed, but there another guy i think i love, he loves me and would do anything, im trying to work things out with my boyfriend i been with 6yrs for my lil boy sake, because i want things to work. but then agian i find myself thinkin about this other guy alot, what do i need to do.i really want things to work out i dont wont 6 years down the drain

2006-11-01 02:56:47 · 13 answers · asked by lil_one_penny 2 in Marriage & Divorce

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2006-11-01 02:56:10 · 22 answers · asked by kellydarcey 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-01 02:54:11 · 7 answers · asked by girl 3 in Friends

2006-11-01 02:54:08 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

After my divorce, i numb myself to find boyfriends online...and end up falling for a married man. I know it's impossible but i just want to hold on to him as i really need that kind of love to heal my wounds...that caused by my ex-husband. I know it's wrong but i really dun know who to turn for help.

2006-11-01 02:53:46 · 10 answers · asked by Rainbowgal 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-01 02:52:20 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-11-01 02:51:15 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

She tells me that we are supposed to be on a budget, and that I shouldnt spend our money on beer....then I see her come back from the mall and she had spent $65 on makeup!! Im like "what the heck, arent we on a budget??" and she says that she wants to look good for me. Then I told her thats what the beer is for!! Is she crazy or what?

2006-11-01 02:50:09 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i don't really like my sister-in-law...she's pretty much poison and i just have no idea what to get her for christmas!

i was thinking about a nice peice of faux-jewelry. like simulated stones set in real gold...

p.s. my husband isn't being very helpful...soooo...it's pretty much up to me...yuck!

thanks!

2006-11-01 02:49:17 · 26 answers · asked by joey322 6 in Marriage & Divorce

a guy to find out if hes a player or not?are there any other ways of finding this out?

i really like this guy. he hasnt pressured me or anything and has been chasing me for a while now. i have only kissed him.

he pays me compliments and says im a nice girl and that he does like me.

i asked him if he was just playing me and he said he wasnt.

whats your advice guys???

2006-11-01 02:49:12 · 23 answers · asked by Pretty Little Girl xxx 1 in Singles & Dating

Just curious-this is a tendency I have, and sometimes when I date girls who are more similar to me this could come up possibly if things got serious.

2006-11-01 02:49:09 · 11 answers · asked by georgiarevenuer 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-01 02:48:46 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My cat puked on the basement stairs. I don't go down there often and was not aware of it, meanwhile my roomate stepped in it a few times. Once I was aware of it, I forgot to clean it up right away, went out for a few hours, remembered, went to clean it up, it was gone. I found it on my bedroom dresser. Note: I was not fighting with him, we have been friends for 10 years. He is a very passive aggressive person with a mean streak, but I can't believe he would do that! What should I do?

2006-11-01 02:47:48 · 20 answers · asked by Reserved 6 in Friends

ok. this white guy i date now is really cool and he treats me like a princess.he gives me love, affection and anything you can ask for in a relationship. we've dated for almost 2 years and now he wants to marry me. i'm in love with him but his family hates me because they don't think he should marry me a black woman. they refuse to have anything to do with him or me. they treat me like dirt.i'm not sure i can marry him in drama like this. i love him but i'm confused. what can i do!

2006-11-01 02:47:44 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Help the other night My boyfriend couldn't come to homecoming because his car was messed up he rode to a party with his brother my friend found out about it and now she keeps on telling me where he's at all the time I know where he's @ should I tell her to stay out of it ? even though she's just tryin to be a good friend

2006-11-01 02:47:21 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

B/c I like talking this guy who lives in Canada and I live in Iowa!!! And we both like each other!!! I want to ask him out but am not sure!! What do you think I should do???

2006-11-01 02:47:12 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Alright heres the deal i like this girl aliitle but i cant tell if she likes me. heres some of the things she does i am home school and i go to school one day a week for the whole day and every day i go for the last 2 class no matter what and she ask me to come back becase i used to go there and every whole day i go she sits by me and we talk and help each other out with awnsers and every time she goes to mess around during school she wants me to come she also stares at me some times am i just afriend or something over that

2006-11-01 02:46:43 · 5 answers · asked by gusqb14 1 in Singles & Dating

This teacher is telling kids that my child is evil because I practice Wicca my child does not she attends the baptist church. I have called the school, the school board and they will do nothing. I have a letter that this teacher wrote signed and notarized that is full of these lies. I keep hoping this will stop she's hurting a innocent child. But last night it escalated and the kids threw rocks at my child calling her an evil witch. Luckly she was not hurt but it's getting worse I've tried talking to the teacher and she had her boyfriend threaten me. I'm out of options here and need a direction to go so that I may protect my child.

2006-11-01 02:46:03 · 11 answers · asked by harmony moon 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

I have this guyfriend that I've liked for years, and I think he knows that I like him. All I want to do is to show him HOW MUCH I like him... and he's been responding.. but it hasn't been .. constant.. He's sending me all these mixed signals.. One day he wouldn't reply my messages, one day he would treat me extra nice.. one day he even gets kind of physical.. n then another day he acts as if he doesn't care... What should I do??

2006-11-01 02:45:37 · 14 answers · asked by done_with_luv 1 in Singles & Dating

I met this girl online, we knew each other for 8 months. We
shared a 3 hour phone call, one night only. It went extremely
well ! Then we continued to exchange emails... I told her I was
closing door on old ex relationship, and moved to a beach resort.
She got jealous, didn't speak for 2 weeks. When she returned,
via email, she was back with her ex, this woman. And claimed
to be in love, see saw relationship. But she insists on us being
friends, forever. On her letter she wrote, remember you said,
you will always be my friend. She is always wanting to hear
what I have to say, especially when I express my feelings to
her. So should I stay her friend, or should I go? Notice we
haven't met yet, but I have seen her face on a picture. She
has not seen me.

2006-11-01 02:45:26 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-11-01 02:45:07 · 13 answers · asked by Fantasy 1 in Singles & Dating

I have been dating a guy for 2 years now and he has been separated from his wife for 3 years. They had two 5 year olds from the marriage. The wife filed the divorce about a year and a half ago when she filed for child support. She followed through with the child support case, but not the divorce. Both have moved on. The wife said that she spent enough money on attorneys that she is not going to re-file the divorce, but he could file for the divorce and she would sign the papers. I have mentioned it to him about filing for a divorce a few times, but it never gets to far. He talked to an attorney and he said that it will cost about $ 400, so he didn't do it because he didn't have money, but promised he would when he had more money. He just got a big bonus from his job & he still didn't file. He said he wanted to pay off some stuff first. I printed out info on do it yourself divorce, but nothing! now when i mention it he changes subject. how do i mention it without making him mad?

2006-11-01 02:45:02 · 6 answers · asked by flowergirlsdy 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I have this friend that is in a deadly gang and wants out... What should I do? Who should I turn to? Please help me.

2006-11-01 02:44:25 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

am three months pregnant and been with my partner for over four years. we couldnt afford our flat so six months ago decided to move in with his parents. his mother is needy and guilts people into doing things for her. me and her had a very heated argument where some pretty bad stuff was said and i left. partner said he would too but then after speaking with his mum changed his mind and stayed. i get to see him maybe an hour a day because his mother pulls on the reins and drags him back.i am getting really stressed to the point where i am thinking i would be better off with out him as he will always go running back to his mum.i have tryed talking to him. we are going on holiday in a week and i am worried that he wont go if his mum puts pressure on him. we were supposed to look at a house today but he had to go early cause his mum was stressed. help. i am going crazy!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2006-11-01 02:44:25 · 26 answers · asked by karen w 1 in Family

I started dating this guy 2 weeks ago. He is not the type of guy that I normally date, he is nice, has a great job and is doing the sweetest things for me. He has bought me flowers, made me breakfast, brought me to the beach to watch the sunset and brought wine and fruit. Just a very genuine person with a huge heart! The only problem is that I am not so sure that I am attracted to him, but that shouldn’t matter right, that’s just me being catty? My family met him last night and thinks that he is a great guy and very personable. I woke up very smitten and all smiles until I talked to my sister. Asked her if she thought he was cute, she said no. I start to freak out and now I can’t stop it. I feel like I am potentially making a big mistake, like I have starting something that I am not sure I can follow through with. I don’t really know how to accept a guy who does wonderful things for me, it makes me run. I am not really sure why I am freaking, and I am not really sure what my heart is telling me to do because it is flooded with thoughts!

2006-11-01 02:44:18 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating