Family & Relationships - 1 November 2006

MY BOYFRIEND WANTS TO KNOW IF I WILL "STAY" IN LOVE WITH HIM. WE HAVE BEEN DATING ONE MONTH NOW. I AM A SINGLE MOM, WITH 2 TEENAGERS AT HOME. MY CHILDREN DO NOT CARE FOR HIM THAT MUCH BECAUSE HE TENDS TO BE VERY DIRECT ABOUT WHAT HE THINKS AND HAS NO PROBLEM SPEAKING HIS MIND. NORMALLY THAT IS A GOOD THING, BUT MY CHILDREN FIND IT OFFENSIVE. THEY THINK HE IS RUDE. I KNOW HE CAN BE "GRUFF" AT TIMES. SHOULD I DROP HIM IF MY FAMILY DOSEN'T LIKE HIM AND THINK HE IS WRONG FOR ME? DO THEY SEE THINGS I DON'T?

2006-11-01 03:11:47 · 14 answers · asked by wwjd 2 in Singles & Dating

Me & my boyfriend of 8 years broke up 5 months ago, since then I have met several guys, there is one that I am kinda interested in. My dilemma now is my ex has found out about him and now has had this epiphany that he wants to marry me now and can't live with out me. My ex is now telling me every thing I waited 8 years to hear. And I don't know if I should get back with my ex because it is the safe move, or should I move on and see what what my chances are with this new guy ( oh and by the way, I just found out last nite he does have some type of feeling for me)????????????? What should I do???????????????

2006-11-01 03:11:29 · 6 answers · asked by 806-203 1 in Singles & Dating

I don't want to argue, or send mixed messages so the best way for me to communicate is by writing. I don't think this marriage is going to last, Im sure it won't. I get the impression that you are going to strive to make my life hell. But you must see this is not a functioning marriage. I'm not myself when you are around and I miss being myself. Contrary to what you think I'm not sneaky, I don't have a bad temper. Although sometimes I think you push me into those corners. I often times feel lonely being around you. With all the arguing(from both of us) it is tough if not impossible to push that aside and feel comfortable. I'm the first one to think I'm a failure, because I don't think a marriage is supposed to be desposible, however there are sometimes bridges which are burned that can't be repaired.You should know that Pj is always first on my priority list. I would cut my own leg off if he needed one. I know you proabably see me as a work aholic,but if thats what it takes thats what i do.I know you're nosey and concerned about my emails, however trust is a huge deal to me and basically youhave proven time and time again you don't trust me.
Thats just a couple thoughts im able tocome up with right now

2006-11-01 03:11:25 · 7 answers · asked by ? 6 in Marriage & Divorce

The Average Guy has sex 1.5 times a week (79 times a year), and lasts about 14 minutes.
He has a 1-in-4.3 chance of cheating on his wife and enjoys a total of 12.4 sex partners throughout his life.
The odds that his wife will cheat on him are 1 in 8.3, and the average woman enjoys a total of four sex partners throughout her life.

2006-11-01 03:10:42 · 16 answers · asked by boythunder99 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-01 03:10:33 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have not talked to my ex-gal over two months, but I still miss her and love her. Her birthday is in a couple of weeks. Should I send her a card or call her to see if she would like to go out?

2006-11-01 03:10:04 · 19 answers · asked by volkswagenf 1 in Singles & Dating

To be more specfic somewhere in Asia, Latin America, or the Carribean! Thanks for the info!

2006-11-01 03:08:46 · 14 answers · asked by . 6 in Weddings

I promise I won't tell. To what degree are you fooling around? How far is "cheating"?

2006-11-01 03:08:36 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I haven't had a boyfriend for almost 6 months, I broke up with my ex because he didn't appreciate me, and a few other minor details. But, I am lonely, I don't want to hang out with my ex, my best friend is wrapped up in all of her own problems- and when I fall asleep I feel so alone. I want someone new, but I don't feel like going to pointless parties, and getting drunk- isn't there an easier way to find someone you can have a long lasting relationship with?

2006-11-01 03:08:10 · 12 answers · asked by Fran Y 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-01 03:08:10 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-11-01 03:07:40 · 11 answers · asked by she_wah_dee 1 in Marriage & Divorce

yeah - NO ANSWERS INVOLVING 3somes please.
(wow, im a guy and i actually just typed that ;)
ok so i have been flirting with this girl for a while, finally got her number and have asked her out 2 times but shes always busy (which i KNOW is the truth) we had a party this weekend and i again met her sister. I was busy flirting and being flirted to by the one i know more.
Last night they both came out with us and we had a blast. i actually talked with the sister and she seems really really cool and she was flirting with me. WHILE i might add the one ive known longer barely talked to me... until i grabed her and pulled her out to dance.
Question is .....
ive "technically" flirted with both.... the both have flirted with me,
both are nuts cute and fun, question is how the hell do i handle this. I REALIZE I NEED TO CHOOSE ONE but is it already too late to go for one or what. How should i handle it.
thanks

2006-11-01 03:06:46 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-01 03:06:39 · 19 answers · asked by judy f 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-01 03:06:31 · 6 answers · asked by Forlorn Hope 7 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-01 03:06:27 · 25 answers · asked by sexygirl 2 in Singles & Dating

I've been with my boyfriend for a year and a half and we've had sexual relations for around 9 months now. To begin with we did it often. It dwindled to 1-3 times a month. I've talked to him about it several times, asking the normal "is it me?" because that's the only reasonable conclusion I can come to. He said it isn't me, it's him. He says he just never feels like it anymore. He says he really enjoys it when it happens, but it's so hard just to get it to happen at all. He's lost his libido, and he's only 21!! Do any other guys go through this? Does it ever come back? Will we ever stop acting like an old married couple and more like bunnies again?

2006-11-01 03:05:34 · 24 answers · asked by ♥ 2 in Singles & Dating

is a brown noser? I am laughing so hard when that girl calls me that. But seriously what does it mean? Last time I asked her she showed me a picture of caca. Yeah you guessed it Princesses impersonator. I think she's obsessed with caca.

2006-11-01 03:05:12 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Help plz...?
Ok, Ppl i really need help on this, i hate this, ok, i been with a guy 6 years he cheated on me and ive cheated on him. he hit on me, been like that for awhile, but the last 3 months he has changed, but there another guy i think i love, he loves me and would do anything, im trying to work things out with my boyfriend i been with 6yrs for my lil boy sake, because i want things to work. but then agian i find myself thinkin about this other guy alot, what do i need to do.i really want things to work out i dont wont 6 years down the drain

2006-11-01 03:04:57 · 9 answers · asked by pennyluvchris 1 in Marriage & Divorce

If a girl really hurts me somehow, should I tell her? Or would it be better for our friendship if I kept it in?

2006-11-01 03:04:52 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-01 03:03:54 · 6 answers · asked by amber s 1 in Singles & Dating

and do you like it?
mine's abigail and i find it too girly...but it means joy of the father which i find quite apt as i was always a bit of a daddy's girl growing up

2006-11-01 03:03:41 · 59 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

My girlfriend and I broke up after about 2 years of dating. I had bought her an engagement ring, but didn't give it to her. After we broke up I gave her the ring because I didn't want to see it anymore. When I saw her the other day (almost 4 months since we seperated) she was wearing the ring. Why would she wear it? I didn't ask her about it, but I intend to do so.

2006-11-01 03:03:21 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i got a little upset and she doesn't understand why? am I wrong ? why is there a need to call him when they haven't seen eachother in about 7 months and hasnt talked to him since the early summer??
does it matter that their birthdays are 2 days apart

2006-11-01 03:03:05 · 8 answers · asked by uwantme 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-01 03:02:36 · 17 answers · asked by idwill 1 in Marriage & Divorce

was in a relationship for a couple of years but knew this person for 5 years all up, were best friends.still love him and have to work with him everyday.found out he wasnt the person i fell in love with but am having trouble letting go of the dream.was lead to believe he was something hes not and now am crushed.would never have him back but cant get rid of the feelings.

2006-11-01 03:02:00 · 6 answers · asked by tigerella69 1 in Singles & Dating

my friend pushes me and all she does is annoy me and ugh i just don't wont 2 be her friend anymore.

2006-11-01 03:01:58 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-11-01 03:01:53 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

well look im sort of mean when im on the phone like i have a attitude but i dont but wen it comes to him im very agressive what should i do? help me

2006-11-01 03:01:42 · 6 answers · asked by craigs wifey 1 in Singles & Dating

i don't believe i'm so ugly, why can't i never get a men i like, just the opposite ? I yearn for one i like, it desperates me everytime i see him.He's apparently shy, I did ALL i could to talk to him,i went to places he went.I say hi,etc...but he was kind of quiet,or shy.So i guess he doesn't like me right ? I'll love to kiss him and hug him a lot. I can't help it, everytime i see a men , i LUST a LOT. And i'm not a kid, i'm much older.Does this happen to u ? How do u deal with it.? Don't tell me to tell this guy i like him, because i don't think he likes me, because if i'm coming toward his way , he won't look at me, it irritates me so much, or if he smiles ,I feel depressed the whole day knowing that he only smile and didn't do anything else.
HELP ME PLEASE ? ITS URGENT !

2006-11-01 03:01:36 · 4 answers · asked by rssy r 1 in Singles & Dating

Im finding that my husband is connected to myspace and friendster.com and putting "not married" in his profiles. and he just now got a message from some girl in his email about wanting to talk. what is it that he is doing? should i be concerned? i try to talk to him but he flips out and gets mad and doesnt want to talk.... about anything. thanks for your opinions/answers.

2006-11-01 03:01:32 · 16 answers · asked by jessnclh 3 in Marriage & Divorce