I have not talked to my ex-gal over two months, but I still miss her and love her. Her birthday is in a couple of weeks. Should I send her a card or call her to see if she would like to go out?
2006-11-01 03:10:04 · 19 answers · asked by volkswagenf 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Call her, I am sure she would love to hear from you and would really appreciate knowing that you were thinking of her despite the fact that things ended, or even how it ended. Women just want to know that you care, that you are thoughtful. So, yes, you should call her. ESPECIALLY if you feel you love her in your heart. Call her.
2006-11-01 03:13:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That depends on multiple factors- why did you break up, is she seeing someone else, who broke up, did you mess up the last time around.
If it were me, I'd lean towards not contacting her. It's only been two months. There was a reason you two broke up and maybe its better just to let things go. However, if you feel the same way after 6 months, you should call her.
2006-11-01 11:13:11 · answer #2 · answered by Jrob 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only if you intend to go out with her or think there is a real chance that she might want to go out with you. It's tough without knowing more.
Did you break it off with her? If so then you had reasons to break with her two months ago. Rather than cause her upset, leave it a bit longer till you can become an 'old lover' (notice I don't say become friends :) )
Did she break with you? If so then defnitly leave it for longer till you can become an 'old lover'.
2006-11-01 11:15:04 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Send the card, with your phone number in it. If she doesn't call, follow up to ask her if she got your card. If she seems happy to hear from you, then ask her out. Good luck! I hope she misses you too!
2006-11-01 11:13:15 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on why yall broke up. If it was a good break-up, sure. Let her know you're thinking about her and want to say happy b-day. If it was a bad break-up, probably not a good idea unless you really think you have a chance to get back together.
2006-11-01 11:13:50 · answer #5 · answered by poppywest1223 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that depends on why you became ex's in the first place and if you are still friendly to each other. If you are BOTH friendly, than a card would be nice, if not, leave it alone.
2006-11-01 11:14:43 · answer #6 · answered by corinne_29_ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes if u feel strongly about her i think u should call her and make her know u still care....den it also depends if she is single or not bt even thou she has a boyfwend let her kno that u still care and love her....thou dont be to straight forward
2006-11-01 11:12:55 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call her and wishes her a happy birthday and suggest going out .
2006-11-01 11:13:26 · answer #8 · answered by Phoenix77 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call her and say her you miss & love her. See how she reacts. Maybe you can meet and start over, or at least be friends again to start with...
2006-11-01 11:14:15 · answer #9 · answered by Eyeline 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I vote YES. What do you have to lose? Be sincere and go for what you makes you happy. If you get a negative response - CHIN UP! Do not get down about it! Good Luck!
2006-11-01 11:14:12 · answer #10 · answered by wwjd 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋