If a girl really hurts me somehow, should I tell her? Or would it be better for our friendship if I kept it in?
2006-11-01 03:04:52 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
just tell her, its better to get it out of your system than to internalize it
2006-11-01 03:07:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her. Be open and honest. If you keep it inside and not say anything, I guarantee you, the next time there is an argument you will bring it up (such is human nature) making the argument twice as bad as it need be. If she is any kind of true friend, she will apologize. If she dismisses your hurt and appears uncaring, then you should take a closer look at that friendship. That's not what a "friend" does.
2006-11-01 03:14:52 · answer #2 · answered by Gemma S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, don't hold it in, it leads to resentment, you should be able to communicate your feelings, if your friend doesn't accept the way you feel, then that friend is no friend, drop them.
2006-11-01 03:07:32 · answer #3 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let her know be honest talk it out and you will have a better relationship
2006-11-01 03:12:55 · answer #4 · answered by trader1867 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
calmly explain what happened and try to patch things up
2006-11-01 03:13:00 · answer #5 · answered by koreanninjaastro 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋