Family & Relationships - 1 November 2006

2006-11-01 03:24:15 · 26 answers · asked by NENA 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i told my g.f i was in love with another gal from my school (which is actually her) we have become really close friends now but she keeps asking me about the gal i mentioned to her i have given her hints i love her but she doesnt seem to get me
now i feel i should not have lied to her and i am scared how she will take it if she knew my true feelings but i love her a lot how do i tell her that and that i lied for a reason help me pls!!!!!

2006-11-01 03:23:41 · 17 answers · asked by razr 1 in Singles & Dating

The dresses have to be bought soon because they are going to stop making them. Any advice to help me deal with her? And she's known this for months now. And gives me attidute when I ask her about it. HELP ME!!!!

2006-11-01 03:23:21 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

ok (big breath!) Here's the story - I'm relatively new at work - I was in a differnt wing than usual and went ot use the bathroom.
While I was making I heard one of the tiles slide back and then a c*ck came through the hole. I ws not sure what to do - it was just staring me in the face.
Finally i decided to help the guy and jerk him off.
and then I decided well the heck - and gave him a b j.

I finished doing my stuff in the bathroom - flushed and then walked out on the guy before he had a chance to c*m.

I thought it was kinda funny - what would you have done?

2006-11-01 03:22:03 · 7 answers · asked by lady j 1 in Singles & Dating

indulging in meaningless relationships is not my style simply because I would get emotionally attached and I can't distinguish between love & sexuality

I find various forms of self-help pathetic 'cause it's not the real thing.

2006-11-01 03:21:33 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-01 03:21:22 · 6 answers · asked by gary m 2 in Friends

Ive been with my boyfriend for over 3 years now, he is a heavy drinker and is drunk most nights, so its no fun for me - hence to say that some aspects of our life are none exsistant, and it makes me so down. But when its good its great! But hes very depressed a lot. I was speaking to someone on line and we met up and things happened. And yes at this point everyone is going to slate me and tell me that I shouldnt be doing this, I know coz I feel really guilty but at the same time I want to be happy. Im so confused and dont know what to do. Yes I know its unfair on my other half - I wouldnt want it happening to me but at the same time, he doesnt treat my feelings with respect when he drinks.

Its such a mess. Part of me is thinking to not see the internet chap and fess up to my chap - coz its weird and didnt think I would feel like this and Ive never done this before - Ive always had it done to me. I have so much in common with the internet bloke tho. Its so hard. Please help!

2006-11-01 03:21:13 · 31 answers · asked by passionate_angel101 2 in Singles & Dating

Why do I feel so bad and depressed when my best friend (a girl, I'm a guy we are 15) gets a boyfriend and when I see them together? I know I like her more than a friend, but shouldn't I feel happy for her? What should I do?

2006-11-01 03:21:03 · 11 answers · asked by flaminious 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-01 03:20:58 · 19 answers · asked by revbotin 1 in Singles & Dating

wanted you to be skinny, cause he likes skinny girls, ask you to change your attitude in some ways, but he himself doesn't think theres anything wrong with him or his way's... mind you we've been 2gether 4,14 years and i handle all the responsiblities, all he does is work . yes i use to work till last month(no Babbysitter)

2006-11-01 03:20:35 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-01 03:20:28 · 7 answers · asked by she_wah_dee 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My mom has been with my step-dad for about 9 years now and i feel as if she is choosing him over me. and i dont like it. I am 12 now and she acts as if i am still 3 . She has changed since she met him. He made her into a monster. She doesnt do anything with me anymore. And soon enough i am gonna make her choose. Me or him. What should i do"?

2006-11-01 03:19:49 · 14 answers · asked by Breeeee<3 1 in Family

Do you tell the one that your cheating with right up front that you are married? Or only tell them your married if its going to be an ongoing booty call? Or let them figure it out on their own?

2006-11-01 03:19:43 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I would like to know details with out paying, ha ha...
On persons other than myself.

2006-11-01 03:19:41 · 2 answers · asked by BruBlu 1 in Friends

When I'm out of town I go to a bar and talk to different women, usually the younger ones. I went to Macy's and bought gift cards and put only $1.00 on them for value. On the gift card envelope I write down it has a gift value of $500.00.

I give one of them to one of the girls. When I'm gone in the morning, it doesn't matter. It usually gets them hot and bothered. I tell them I am an executive with the company and they light up thinking about all the gifts they are going to get. It works good as a closer.

Sometimes I use a fake business card saying I am an M.D. The broads fall for that one too.

Do you guys have any good ones that work like this? This has technique has been good for at least a BJ many times.

2006-11-01 03:18:51 · 12 answers · asked by Irv S 1 in Singles & Dating

whan im making out with my bf?

2006-11-01 03:18:02 · 14 answers · asked by Maria 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-01 03:17:56 · 6 answers · asked by Snorty 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

"I've been with my boyfriend for a year and a half and we've had sexual relations for around 9 months now. To begin with we did it often. It dwindled to 1-3 times a month..."


Thanks for all the good suggestions, and not really for the bad.
I have tried spicing things up, and I know he's not cheating, or not not interested in me. We have a great relationship besides this. We've talked about all that. I think it's just something in his body.
I think part of the problem is whenever we start, he normally comes pretty early on, but he can keep going, till he comes again. And I think he has a big self-esteem problem in that whole "minute-man" thing. I've heard being new to it, and stress and all that can contribute to stuff like this. I just want to know if any other guys go through this, and if it ever reverses and you get your libido back. Thanks.

2006-11-01 03:17:40 · 11 answers · asked by ♥ 2 in Singles & Dating

my mother favorites my brothers 12 and 20 years old. But when it comes to me i do everything wrong. I was close to my father but hey had a divorce and he passed away a year ago im 17 but she wont let me move out i have places to stay and have a job. IM GOING CRAZY HELP. tell me how i should deal with this. she is always argueing..

2006-11-01 03:17:14 · 16 answers · asked by curious girl 1 in Family

We are renting a home. He works and I stay home am take care of our child. Do I leave or does he?

2006-11-01 03:16:43 · 12 answers · asked by ? 6 in Marriage & Divorce

What exactly defines verbal abuse, and what's the difference between fighting and verbally abusing?

2006-11-01 03:16:23 · 11 answers · asked by VeroGia 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I am married but I deeply care for another guy who I have been intimate with. He is no longer speaking to me and I am hurt deeply. Is this love or just lust?

2006-11-01 03:15:18 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

She complains how I don't miss her and other things of that sort. I explain to her that I do, the problem is knowing that she is involved with this other person bothers me only half of the time, I don't want to get all wrapped up in her, only to get my heart broke, I do date, but me and my friend remain friend. We are long distance at this time, but i will be relocating there in two months, she always says i can't wait till u move here, we gon do this and that. I'm not gonna be just worried about and still date. what should i do? how do you think she will react when i date other people?

2006-11-01 03:14:01 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

How come every time I like a girl, she likes somebody who treats her bad? I always thought they just wanted to save people, but she's already saved me.

2006-11-01 03:13:24 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-01 03:13:22 · 2 answers · asked by Asdf000000 1 in Singles & Dating

Unfortunately, I only see my guy about twice each week...we live almost an hour away from one another, and one of us works nights, while the other works days..so, that's all we get. How often do the rest of you get to see the person you're with?

2006-11-01 03:13:18 · 6 answers · asked by LibraT 4 in Singles & Dating

he is a worker,scientist engineer.his reasoning is this=== sex is not all thing. our semon is final result of our food,our power.why we waste it for joy.i can use my young life in other constructional work.sex in once in life is best.min period-15 day less then this periodical sex is poision. you think that how any one can sex every day.if i do it i have two major loss-power and life loss oppurtunity loss.if i in under limit use this power in social work.then i have a credit.so i want to leave my super sexy wife. is he is right or wrong.

2006-11-01 03:13:12 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

It is often said that, "when a man loves a woman, periodically he needs to pull away before he can get closer"....it is also said that they can stretch only so far before they come springing back...i think this is actually a really good metaphor to understand the male intimacy cycle...what do you think about this is this true?.........

2006-11-01 03:13:09 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What can we do to allow her father to let her live with me? She lives in the state of Florida and I have been here with her for the past three months but I am getting ready to go back to Missouri and she wants to live with me now and not her father.

2006-11-01 03:13:00 · 11 answers · asked by leatherandlace34492 1 in Family

I think "desperate" & "desperation" are highly subjective terms, as different individuals will likely have different answers, when applying those terms to dating, romance, and sex.

I personally would define desperate as:
Abandoning one's morals, standards, and values to settle for less or to achieve a quick-fix.

Some examples of what I personally would describe as desperation: having an affair / soliciting a prostitute / having a one night stand / booty calls / patronizing strip clubs / rape / date-rape / taking advantage of someone who is intoxicated / continuing with someone who is abusive to you mentally, or physically / etc.

There is an overwhelming misconception in society, of what desperation is, in my opinion. Contemporary society says "looking" for someone, or desiring someone is wrong. If you are "looking" you are automatically labeled as being "desperate." All you hear are cliches, "It will happen when you least expect it," or "It will happen when you stop looking."

2006-11-01 03:11:52 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating