I am married but I deeply care for another guy who I have been intimate with. He is no longer speaking to me and I am hurt deeply. Is this love or just lust?
2006-11-01 03:15:18 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Im guessing its lust. We can usually get attracted to not just another person, but the situation that involves a relationship. Its forbidden, a challenge in order to remain a secret. All that can be what actually attracts you. If you ever left your husband (Im certainly not saying to) and you got together with this other guy, the thrill will be gone and reality will set in. You will realize that its just another relationship and hes just another guy.
2006-11-01 03:19:24 · answer #1 · answered by JC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it sure was lust on someones part! Boy! did he use you! You both lusted for one another! Maybe you seen something in him that you didn't see in your hubby. Just forget about the creep and chalk it up as a bad choice. And hopefully he doesn't bother you again when he gets horny!
2006-11-01 03:21:57 · answer #2 · answered by Gerry 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
More than likely it is lust.You might think that you Love this guy,but since that he doesnt talk to you anymore may be you will see that is only lust.
2006-11-01 03:29:22 · answer #3 · answered by mikey s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me that this was a lust thing honey!
This guy knows you were married i assume therefore no commitment needed from him!
Concentrate on your marriage!
2006-11-01 03:19:37 · answer #4 · answered by Updowndizzy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's lust. Grow up. You're married. If you'd show your husband this much attention you'd probably be happier.
2006-11-01 03:18:19 · answer #5 · answered by spelling nazi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
probably lust. but you need to worry about your marriage before you worry about some other man
2006-11-01 03:18:04 · answer #6 · answered by Mama JK 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lust
2006-11-01 03:26:22 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
lust
2006-11-01 03:17:53 · answer #8 · answered by teeney-weeney 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
And what of your husband? Suggest you get over the other guy and fix your marriage.
2006-11-01 03:19:32 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU HAD THAT COMING...ADULTRY IS SIN!!!! YOU HAD IT COMING AND LOVE IS A CHOICE LUST IS VERY HARD TO CONTROL
2006-11-01 03:18:34 · answer #10 · answered by ***BUTTERFLY*** 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋