"I've been with my boyfriend for a year and a half and we've had sexual relations for around 9 months now. To begin with we did it often. It dwindled to 1-3 times a month..."
Thanks for all the good suggestions, and not really for the bad.
I have tried spicing things up, and I know he's not cheating, or not not interested in me. We have a great relationship besides this. We've talked about all that. I think it's just something in his body.
I think part of the problem is whenever we start, he normally comes pretty early on, but he can keep going, till he comes again. And I think he has a big self-esteem problem in that whole "minute-man" thing. I've heard being new to it, and stress and all that can contribute to stuff like this. I just want to know if any other guys go through this, and if it ever reverses and you get your libido back. Thanks.
2006-11-01 03:17:40 · 11 answers · asked by ♥ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i have HAD ENOUGH! the stupidity must STOP!
you need to have yourself spayed/neutered and remove yourself from the gene pool...i do believe you have pooped in it and IT STINKS!!
thank you for playing, try again tomorrow!!
2006-11-01 03:18:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 4⤋
I have been with the same man for 12 years we have a gr8 sex life but i noticed with hind sight that there were moments when he or I at any given moment would be less interested in sex There were moments when he was very stressed at work and I had to employ my vibe for 4 months thats the worst is ever got with him There was a year after our first baby that I did not want to have sex. My poor hunny. his four months compared to My 1 year was nothing (and no there were no affairs Im a scorpio and I would go out of my way to find out something like that If I even had a tiny doubt.) These things happen in relatioships and even to the ones who love sex the most.
2006-11-01 11:59:57 · answer #2 · answered by Chillypepers 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Never! Men will not sop having sex suddenly. They stop having sex in these conditions:
1. they have a physical problem (he has a contagious sexual problem - I had some problems with my vagina and even when I felt horny I've decided to better not have sex because it hurt me in the intercourse.)
2. they have a mental problem (they are frustrated for cumming to fast, or if the girl dose not having an orgasm, and so on)
3. they found another girl
4. they decide that you don't improve your skills in time, and they want to give us a lesson instead of telling us what they want
5. for example, you don't do anal sex, and they want this (they find a way to get it - but if he still loves you, he thinks that this issue will not affect your relationship, and he don't ask you to do things that you dislike)
6. he founded out that he likes men, but he don't want to accept this thing and he doesn't want to lose you, for some presumptions.
7. he needs a time off.
2006-11-01 11:32:13 · answer #3 · answered by Copy 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You might need to spice it up a few notches. Make if fun, before he goes to someone else. You know that getting in a new relationship or I should say fling is exciting and makes you want to have sex a lot. You should get started on something new before someone else turns him on. How old is this fellow anyway? Sometimes when the fellow gets a certain age, they can not hang long anyway! (Some guys!)
2006-11-01 11:26:32 · answer #4 · answered by Child of God 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No, most other guys do not go through this. Most men have a stronger libido than their female counterparts do. So, I would say your situation is unique. Good luck!
2006-11-01 11:21:41 · answer #5 · answered by Colonel Angus 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Maybe he is bored - try some new and kinky things. He probably isn't giving you enough foreplay and then feels funny when he orgasms B4 you do. There are anesthetic creams available to prolong his climax.
2006-11-01 11:25:41 · answer #6 · answered by bad_bob_69 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you should make him feel the same way. then he will see how it feels to be ignored. don't act like you need it. ask questions. when you 2 do have sex, try to spice it up!
2006-11-01 11:22:49 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Both of you should go see a psychotherapist.It's all in the mind
2006-11-01 11:21:48 · answer #8 · answered by folumon 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sometimes....sometimes 'familiarity breeds contempt'.....stay away for a while and you shall see the benefits....
2006-11-01 11:21:38 · answer #9 · answered by deevoonay 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Maybe he just doesn't like sex with you.
2006-11-01 11:19:45 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋