Why do I feel so bad and depressed when my best friend (a girl, I'm a guy we are 15) gets a boyfriend and when I see them together? I know I like her more than a friend, but shouldn't I feel happy for her? What should I do?
2006-11-01 03:21:03 · 11 answers · asked by flaminious 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You got to let her know how you feel before she ends up with some idiot boyfriend and you regret it for the rest of your life.
2006-11-01 03:25:32 · answer #1 · answered by mtce007 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you should be happy for her. Don't be upset or depressed about something that you have no control over. Find a way to tell her how you feel, but don't try to sabotage their relationship just to get what you want because then she may never forgive you for it and their will be no hope of you guys getting together.
2006-11-01 11:27:37 · answer #2 · answered by ♥Spirit♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
listen hun. you have fallen for her. i think you want her to be happy, its not that you dont. and i think deep down you are happy when shes happy wether its with a bf or not.
But the thing is hun your only human so you cant egnore what your heart is telling you.
if your feelings are true for her then you HAVE to tell her how you feel. take her to one side, maybe invite her round your house or meet her somwhere privite. and explain to her. she will respect you for telling her hun. and if she doesnt feel the same way at least you know were you stand, and you can start getting over your feeling and consentrate on being good friend again.
you cant risk not telling her. what happens if you ment to be together and you pass the opertunity buy. you might not get that feeling ever again. When it comes to matters of the heart you cant play games darling.
tell her.. what have you got to loose? if she is your true friend shel stick with you no mater how she feels to what you tell her.
go for it babe and good luck.
xox
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2006-11-01 11:34:44 · answer #3 · answered by afflictedsmile 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
jus beacuse ur freinds doesnt mean u cant get jealous and thats what this is well u like her more than friends have u tried tellin her that u might need to i mean in a way u should be happy for her but then again u like her and this shows that u would rather be with her than some other dude dont worry its natural to fell this way
2006-11-01 11:26:13 · answer #4 · answered by UR COUNTRY BEAUTY 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are jealous. You must face it. The thing is that you should tell her how you feel and let her decide who she likes more: you or her boyfriend...
You never know, she could just be trying to make YOU jealous by going out with this guy...
2006-11-01 11:24:53 · answer #5 · answered by Pieces Of Rainbowzz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. You shouldn't be happy. You should be angry either. You need to wait until she's single again and go for it. Then you can move on. It took me years to understand that I didn't feel malice, just envy. Go for it and you'll feel 1,000 times better. If it doesn't work, atleast you'll be able to move on... probably even save the firendship.
2006-11-01 11:26:27 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well its because you like her more than a friend. Also when your close friends with the opposite sex sometimes it bothers you if you feel another person is trying to take your place.
2006-11-01 11:30:05 · answer #7 · answered by JustMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honestly you wont feel happy for her bc you know you want her! i've been there done that and i ended up losing my best friend over it bc i wouldnt go do anything with them!! you need to tell her how you feel before you lose her
2006-11-01 11:25:04 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should take time with yourself and think about it,im 15 also and i know what you are goin through
once u have thought about it and figure it out,go and tell her and dont get jealous,the girl wont like that ,k?
im sure you will figure things out successfully :) xox
2006-11-01 11:34:05 · answer #9 · answered by *cutie with a bootie* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when you figure out how you feel about her then you need to tell her.
2006-11-01 11:23:49 · answer #10 · answered by marie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋